Red Flag-o-rama (rant *on*)

[86]

How is it that for every 3 out of 4 women (or so) I choose to date, they have some kind of major red flag?....

One chick mentions her EX more than once, another girl MAKES a cell phone call in front of me and then proceeds to have a conversation, a different woman says "I'm too tired to make out" (wtf ) when I go for the kiss, then there are the girls who are looking to date that end up being "too busy" (riiiiiiight) etc....

I think my game is pretty sound, I get good IL and all that crap, but you know mang, it just seems lately that I've had to weed through a whole lot of little miss jerk-offs....is it the change in the season that makes the women turn into cold b!tches?

Let's hear your opinions, discuss.

 

[NewMan]

I think it's a blessing in disguise.

You now can NEXT these girls easyily and move on to girls that have real interest levels....

Personally, being older and dating woman that are late to early thirties, I find that there are far less games being played. These woman I find are a lot more upfront with what they want.

But then again, maybe I'm just lucky.

If I sense any BS then I move on.

 

[Nathan]

That's a great way to find the positive side of this.

You dumping all these women is building up your ability to do so (as some guys can't bring themselves to dump girls who fvck with them). The REAL benefit is that you've become so used to it that you are going to project the "I don't need you, and I WILL dump you if you piss me off" aura that is essential in attracting and keeping quality women.

 

[32swf]

not red flags

Those things you mentioned aren't red flags. They are examples of rudness and lack of interest though.

A red flag would be she calls on her cell phone to get her ex to go check on her 9 cats. ha ha ha

It's better that these women show a lack of interest on these early dates, instead of wasting your time and money.

 

[MVPlaya]

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We can't really make judgments of the situation, you remember these dates the best, all we hear was what the woman did and that is filtered by what you tell us. But based on this limited information, there are some clues pointing to both directions:
1) some women may be turned off, lack of though can mean they are not the brightest cats on the block, but also that, around you, they do not feel that it is necessary to be on their best behavior.
2) some of these women are just plain stupid or have low IL, in either case: neXt!