reasons why not to approach women

[suavedave]

I have had a number of realizations recently, and these include the notion That I should spend 0% of my time thinking or pursuing women. For instance


1) approaching women may result in me approaching someone who has a boyfriend that is part of a gang
2) That pursuing live women is as futile is doing cyber-sex; equally as time wasting

Any comments? Should I heed my realizations and just forget about them for a while -- until at least I come to some opposite conclusions. Or, alternately, are there some counter arguments that can be made to the three points above.

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by suavedave
Or, alternately, are there some counter arguments that can be made to the three points above.

There are only two points.

1) approaching women may result in me approaching someone who has a boyfriend that is part of a gang

Approaching women may result in you getting laid. Alternatively, approaching women may result in you getting hit by a bus right at the same time that a comet slams through the Earth's atmosphere and hits you, while at that very moment a man on a shooting rampage misses his ex-wife and shoots you in the head. Every decision you make, or fail to make, has the potential for some rather negative consequences. You just have to decide whether it's worth it to you... to go to college, to approach a girl, to stand up for what you believe in... or even to roll out of bed in the morning.

2) That pursuing live women is as futile is doing cyber-sex; equally as time wasting

Well, if you're not interested in having a relationship, or if you just see it as a waste of your time, then I suppose you're better off having cyber-sex with a 41-year-old, 375-pound male Green Lantern comic book collector pretending to be a 17-year-old blonde-haired girl who goes to Catholic school and is really, really horny.

 

[Deep Dish]

suavedave
I have had a number of realizations recently, and these include the notion that I should spend 0% of my time thinking or pursuing women.... That pursuing live women is as futile is doing cyber-sex; equally as time wasting

No offense, but in other words you are either ugly or plain, with lacking successes, definitely not suave, and are considering giving up early. To not think about thinking or pursuing women is one thing, to equate it equally as time wasting as cybersex is another.

 

[es_mer8]

reasons why not to approach women

I can think of a few:

- Women are the devil!
- Masturbating is funner anyway
- Rosie Palmer is always there to give you a good time
- Why try when you know you'll fail?
- Girls cost money!
- Because I'm a little emotionally stunted moron
- I have no confidence and never will
- Women aren't worth the 6-8 hours of free time I have daily
- Why like women when you got hentai DVDs!
- Porn and a pocket p***y are all I need



Its your choice not to pursue women but realize that they'll never pursue you. You'll be reduced down to having alone nights probably typing a poll like this on a forum about women. I used to live that lifestyle but when hot girls are wandering the streets that have not had the pleasure of meeting my middle leg, my work is not done. The way I see it is that you need a few balances in your life.

- Work ($$$)
- Friends
- Free Time (or basically time that you're not working)

...and women. I can't see how you could go by without female affection or even doing anything sexual. You're just going to be the "snake guy on the corner" when you're in your 40s and 50s.

but in other words you are either ugly or plain

Unless you are flat out ugly as in no teeth or yellow teeth, greasy hair, and a potato shaped body, nobody is that ugly. Even an average person can look nice if they lose weight and/or get buff, dress better, and have good hygiene.

 

[Deep Dish]

es_mer8
Unless you are flat out ugly as in no teeth or yellow teeth, greasy hair, and a potato shaped body, nobody is that ugly. Even an average person can look nice if they lose weight and/or get buff, dress better, and have good hygiene.

No doubt, but my point was his current state. If he just improved himself, enough, he certainly wouldn't find getting a woman as 'futile'.

 

[Duff]

WTF, whats the point of thinking of the negatives when the positives cleary over power and destroy the negs.

Masturbation is funner than shaggin? erm yea ok

 

[oskiano]

This is all about crying. SuaveDave, either man up or get a new handle.

Work the fundamentals and quit your whining. Maybe you should spend some time watching the Lifetime channel.

Would you like some vagina cream?

 

[PIPE-DJ2002]

WE ARE DEALING HERE, WITH negative people, and this is a problem that they have.

im already reframed on that, and i dont like to deal with negative people.

that is.

 

[es_mer8]

No doubt, but my point was his current state. If he just improved himself, enough, he certainly wouldn't find getting a woman as 'futile'.

I think whats futile to him is that he just can't strike up a conversation with a girl. I know exactly what he's talking about - hell I can't until now. The thing that instilled confidence in me is right now about my current weight situation. Specifically, the fact that I'm trying to lose weight. I've been taking Creatine for three days as well. I'm right now drinking a protein shake. By cutting most bad carbs out of my body, I got confident. I feel energetic and with the creatine and the progress that I know I'm going to make, I feel I can take on the world. I was able to strike up a conversation with two girls (see the c/f thread) and test out my skills. If there was an attractive girl tonight at a party, I'd go up to her and use some DJ moves.

Thing is though, I'm average. Despite me losing 6 pounds this week (hell yeah), I'm 5'11", 244 lbs, I wear glasses, and have a shaved head. I'm no uggo but I'm no Tom Cruise either. However I shower, use soap, deoderant, general hygiene stuff and my teeth is notoriously white at my school (I am just used to brushing a lot due to my braces a couple of years back) I'm making progress. Now that I am, its very tough for me to go back to my hermit days just with friends. I feel I'm confident enough to enter out there. The man just needs confidence. Even if he is ugly or something, if he carries himself well, he could probably land 5s, 6s, and if his game is especially tight, 7s. I never want to pursue anyone less than a 5 because they are reserved for pathetic AFCs who feel they don't deserve better.

I suggest this guy hit the DJ Boot Camp, namely the first one because it looks like he needs to go back to the basics.

 

[suavedave]

hmmm..

Hey guys!

Look, the premise that this newsgroup works by is this: "Searching for women is a worthwhile endevour." I'm merely questioning the premise.

 

[Slickster]

How about You have a great big oozing zit right on the end of your nose and it could explode at any minute.

 

[Big-J]

Originally posted by suavedave
I have had a number of realizations recently, and these include the notion That I should spend 0% of my time thinking or pursuing women. For instance


1) approaching women may result in me approaching someone who has a boyfriend that is part of a gang
2) That pursuing live women is as futile is doing cyber-sex; equally as time wasting

Any comments?

Isn't this about the part where you tell us that your really homosexual?

hehe

 

[So pimp its scary]

Originally posted by es_mer8
- Porn and a pocket p***y are all I need

Where can I get one of those???