Reasons its SMARTER to get married before 25.

[zekko]

But can man treat her too "well"? If he does she gets comfort and security from him and will use others for variety.

If a woman is banging other guys behind his back, she doesn't deserve to be treated well. For a man and woman to have a successful marriage, both the man and the woman should be at their best. Even if you believe treating women well doesn't work, that doesn't excuse the opposite extreme. I've always believed that one of the reasons men lost their leadership position in our culture was because they abused it. Too much cheating, drunkenness, and domestic violence.

 

[R.U.G.]

I don't have kids, don't want any, and at my age I certainly hope I don't get any. But I can understand why a guy would want some.
But I don't know many guys who would want to raise a kid on their own. When I said some guys would like to have a family, that would include the wife. A single man raising kids is no better than a single woman raising kids. For the child's sake, I really think the traditional family is the best way to raise them. Unfortunately, the traditional family is becoming extinct.

I know many married bros, some dumb rich, others do not have a pot to piss in. Neither are happy.
I know guys who are happily married. They may not be in the majority, but they're there.

I hate to say it, but for marriage to work correctly, maybe the woman would almost have to be property. However, if a man is going to be a leader, he should be a good leader. I see no indication here or elsewhere that men would treat women well or fairly under such a "property" arrangement.

What people show to the public and what's behind closed doors are usually not the same. Don't let your eyes and ears deceive you.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I know guys who are happily married. They may not be in the majority, but they're there.


I hate to say it, but for marriage to work correctly, maybe the woman would almost have to be property. However, if a man is going to be a leader, he should be a good leader. I see no indication here or elsewhere that men would treat women well or fairly under such a "property" arrangement.

What people show to the public and what's behind closed doors are usually not the same. Don't let your eyes and ears deceive you.[/QUOTE]
It's still important that the wife allowed her husband to have his balls in public, no matter what they do behind closed doors .

 

[R.U.G.]

What people show to the public and what's behind closed doors are usually not the same. Don't let your eyes and ears deceive you.

It's still important that the wife allowed her husband to have his balls in public, no matter what they do behind closed doors .[/QUOTE]

Yep. Didn't I just state something similar? Would the forum like an example? I know another friend who was married for a few years, no kids yet. Still late 20's and they were traveling and exploring. He told me I don't know, something seems off. I asked, what do you mean? Well, she used to do certain things for him (non-sexual pervs), and she no longer does them. Morning breakfast runs, bring home dinner or lunch, cleaning and washing things, etc. She started coming home later and blaming on the traffic and having to work late. Scanned her phone, facebook, insta, etc., nothing. I said VAR her in the car and her favorite place in the home when she thinks you are not around. Wow did his ears perk up. He allowed me to listen to one, and I said, you have two options; both you are not going to like. Work on the marriage through communication and possibly a therapist. Or, two, start interviewing lawyers for the possibility of divorce. He thought about it for a few weeks and decided to do both. He claims they appeared to have a tight bond in public, but behind the doors, it was all falling apart. He informed me sex stopped months ago. He's brought it up and she doesn't know why she has no interest. He continued to VAR to get some insight, no cheating but attacking him left and right. She even was complaining about the dinners he takes her to and that she cannot stand to go out with him. Said something he treats me well, but he treats everyone one. I do not feel special.

So sad. He's a really a good guy. Not beta, but he's the type of guy who will help a person in need; regardless of race or gender. He filed for divorce last Friday and served her eviction papers since it was a family home that was left to him after his parents past away a few years ago due to an accident. The guy cannot get a break. I do not think he'll trust another woman again, as he's shattered, but knows what needs to be done. Sadly, this is standard, not an abnormality.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It's still important that the wife allowed her husband to have his balls in public, no matter what they do behind closed doors .

Yep. Didn't I just state something similar? Would the forum like an example? I know another friend who was married for a few years, no kids yet. Still late 20's and they were traveling and exploring. He told me I don't know, something seems off. I asked, what do you mean? Well, she used to do certain things for him (non-sexual pervs), and she no longer does them. Morning breakfast runs, bring home dinner or lunch, cleaning and washing things, etc. She started coming home later and blaming on the traffic and having to work late. Scanned her phone, facebook, insta, etc., nothing. I said VAR her in the car and her favorite place in the home when she thinks you are not around. Wow did his ears perk up. He allowed me to listen to one, and I said, you have two options; both you are not going to like. Work on the marriage through communication and possibly a therapist. Or, two, start interviewing lawyers for the possibility of divorce. He thought about it for a few weeks and decided to do both. He claims they appeared to have a tight bond in public, but behind the doors, it was all falling apart. He informed me sex stopped months ago. He's brought it up and she doesn't know why she has no interest. He continued to VAR to get some insight, no cheating but attacking him left and right. She even was complaining about the dinners he takes her to and that she cannot stand to go out with him. Said something he treats me well, but he treats everyone one. I do not feel special.

So sad. He's a really a good guy. Not beta, but he's the type of guy who will help a person in need; regardless of race or gender. He filed for divorce last Friday and served her eviction papers since it was a family home that was left to him after his parents past away a few years ago due to an accident. The guy cannot get a break. I do not think he'll trust another woman again, as he's shattered, but knows what needs to be done. Sadly, this is standard, not an abnormality.[/QUOTE]

Men are targets.

 

[R.U.G.]

That really says it all doesn't it. Blood curdling.

If I didn't hear the recording myself, I'd think it was BS. I felt horrible for the bro. He looked like he was going to have a breakdown. Truth really does hurt. The only way to prevent this from happening again is to protect your heart and not let them inside. It's wrong, but one cannot continue to do the same thing with women and expect a different outcome. That's the definition of insanity.

I really thought they'd make it. I was shocked to hear what he let me listen too. He was an only child with no one left in is fam. I do not turn my back on a friend. If I did, I'd be no better than everyone else.

 

[R.U.G.]

You're a good friend.

I have heard some terrible sh1t but that might be the worst in the sense of being utter "you really can't win" nonsense. The gist of it, nice guys getting wrecked for being nice, is pretty standard of course.

Just human.

 

[AttackFormation]

If I didn't hear the recording myself, I'd think it was BS. I felt horrible for the bro. He looked like he was going to have a breakdown. Truth really does hurt. The only way to prevent this from happening again is to protect your heart and not let them inside. It's wrong, but one cannot continue to do the same thing with women and expect a different outcome. That's the definition of insanity.

I really thought they'd make it. I was shocked to hear what he let me listen too. He was an only child with no one left in is fam. I do not turn my back on a friend. If I did, I'd be no better than everyone else.

How did he meet this daylight devil in the first place?

 

[R.U.G.]

How did he meet this daylight devil in the first place?

Online dating I believe.

 

[AttackFormation]

Online dating I believe.

Yea that's what I thought. Do you know which app it was?

 

[R.U.G.]

Yea that's what I thought. Do you know which app it was?

I'd guess Match, but not sure.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

If I didn't hear the recording myself, I'd think it was BS. I felt horrible for the bro. He looked like he was going to have a breakdown. Truth really does hurt. The only way to prevent this from happening again is to protect your heart and not let them inside. It's wrong, but one cannot continue to do the same thing with women and expect a different outcome. That's the definition of insanity.

I really thought they'd make it. I was shocked to hear what he let me listen too. He was an only child with no one left in is fam. I do not turn my back on a friend. If I did, I'd be no better than everyone else.

The only way to prevent it is 1) smash and dash 2) troll really hard when she talks marriage 3) top form SMV 18-23 ain't talking playing house.

School boy error.

 

[R.U.G.]

The only way to prevent it is 1) smash and dash 2) troll really hard when she talks marriage 3) top form SMV 18-23 ain't talking playing house.

School boy error.

Yea, they married when they were 24 after dating for a few years I believe. Coulda, shoulda, woulda, but didn't. Now, here comes the pain.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Yea, they married when they were 24 after dating for a few years I believe. Coulda, shoulda, woulda, but didn't. Now, here comes the pain.

You cannot negotiate once you throw sway current and future earnings as well as sexual access.

This is cuck status. If trad, acquire top form SMV 18-23. No exception.

I sound like a broken record but, cucks around here deem themselves pimp DJ status despite pulling single moms and women pushing early stages of metapause. Its pathetic.

 

[R.U.G.]

You cannot negotiate once you throw sway current and future earnings as well as sexual access.

This is cuck status. If trad, acquire top form SMV 18-23. No exception.

I sound like a broken record but, cucks around here deem themselves pimp DJ status despite pulling single moms and women pushing early stages of metapause. Its pathetic.

If they want to get it in and leave, that's fine I guess. Always a chance of something going wrong, but as long as they use protection and not rely on the single momma's birth control, they can be doable. I did one... Once. As for the older women, don't through them away so fast. As long as they are in shape and take care of they bodies, still worth a roll in the hay.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

If they want to get it in and leave, that's fine I guess. Always a chance of something going wrong, but as long as they use protection and not rely on the single momma's birth control, they can be doable. I did one... Once. As for the older women, don't through them away so fast. As long as they are in shape and take care of they bodies, still worth a roll in the hay.

Yep and they have wisdom

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

If they want to get it in and leave, that's fine I guess.

If single mom status, she's a liability with s proven track record. Intercourse to literates her retarded genetics. Why give a women access to your resources?

My **** won't suck itself. I can't get her mouth or ******* pregnant.

Food for thought.

Always a chance of something going wrong, but as long as they use protection and not rely on the single momma's birth control, they can be doable.

Top form or the troll should be left under the bridge.

I did one... Once. As for the older women, don't through them away so fast. As long as they are in shape and take care of they bodies, still worth a roll in the hay.

A woman can't be a good mom and career woman at the same time.

You can only serve one master.

The sentiment applies here. If you bang cratered SMV, you aren't banging too form. Its about the dominance hierarchy, women and their hypergamy, and assuming they can have it all. She can spend her best years skiing down cawk mountain. Running through Playboy.

Best years when thin young attractive are allocated to Chad's. When bulking kicks off, its good girl shtick. Its time to play house.

Again, there's a default predisposition to assumed value to women regardless of cratered SMV. An expectation of male sacrifice.

Its about priorities. Men need purpose but, being a cog in the female biological strategy and therefore a ATM when chads stop calling isn't the solution.

Dating down exacerbates female entitlement and egomaniacs.

 

[skinnyguy]

If I married before 25 I’d be divorced by now.

I had no idea what I wanted to do when I was 24. I lost my job, went through a deep depression for two years, and then found my passion. If I was married and had a kid I would have offed myself.

 

[Spaz]

The postings here about how a women basically operates is spot on but I also sense some hatred towards women.

Take away that hatred, you will find when women manipulate situations and you being able to take preemptive steps to counter them is actually quite fun and certainly amusing. They know that you know and that smirk on your face is such an attractive challenge that they simply can't ignore.

You are now no longer a normal male that's easily manipulated, in their eyes; you are now special.

And being special is always attractive.

And all you need is to take away that hate, it's so much better playing a game when it's fun, more so when u r winning or "losing" exactly when you want.

Note: Losing a battle to win a war is really interesting. Think on it guys.

 

[R.U.G.]

The postings here about how a women basically operates is spot on but I also sense some hatred towards women.

Take away that hatred, you will find when women manipulate situations and you being able to take preemptive steps to counter them is actually quite fun and certainly amusing. They know that you know and that smirk on your face is such an attractive challenge that they simply can't ignore.

You are now no longer a normal male that's easily manipulated, in their eyes; you are now special.

And being special is always attractive.

And all you need is to take away that hate, it's so much better playing a game when it's fun, more so when u r winning or "losing" exactly when you want.

Note: Losing a battle to win a war is really interesting. Think on it guys.

No hatred, just you need to call a spade a spade and operate accordingly.