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Read about this AFC blowing it on reality TV

stormwriter

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There's this reality dating show called "A Dating Experiment" where they match two people up, and they hang out on vacation for 5 or 6 days. They have to follow these rules of what this diary tells them to do.

Anyways, the guy was a low self-esteem guy that was kind of chunky, and looked like a not-as-good-looking Toby Maquire from Spiderman. The girl was a little bit better looking than him.

Well, they met up, and she wasn't taken by him off the bat, but she said he was starting to grow on her, and she was become more attracted to him.

Earlier in the show he revealed that he’s lost 35 pounds, and he’s trying to lose more.

Fast forward to their camping trip, and they are sitting at the fire, and this AFC starts opening his mouth:

“I really don’t date a lot. I definitely feel like I’m missing out on a lot of experiences and a lot of education about women and relationships .”

She says, “you’re an attractve guy , you’ve got so much going on, like, you should have more self confidence. “

“Part of the whole thing when I started this summer with the losing weight, and all that stuff, was to build self confidence in myself, and part of that was to be more aggressive, and stop letting things happen to me, and to start making things happen. “

“I don’t know what you think you need to change, but ya know, you are a very good person. “

about THREE SECONDS after she said that, she said, “I’m ready for bed.”

Then they cut to him talking to the camera:
“As sarah and I are going to the tent and getting ready to go to sleep, I’m kind of afraid that I might have unloaded too much. I let too much information out. Too much personal things I’m dealing with. And that I’ve basically pushed myself into the friend zone. “

She says (to the camera), “I am feeling myself pushing away, because I know that maybe my insecurities of his insecurities don’t fit together.”

The next morning, she says, “right now I’m feeling like Brandon’s big sister. He is definitely divulging a lot of information about himself, which I like, but its making me realize how truly self conscious he is.”

He says, “I just keep going over and over in my head, ya know, that things are bad. Things are going nowhere where I want them to go, and if the day ends like this, that will be two or three chances of doing something that I let go. I have to do something.”
“Before sarah and I split up, im going to give her a kiss on the cheek. Im shaking, and I don’t know why. I’m shaking. Im very scared, but I made the decision, so I have to do it.”

It shows them parting, and he gives her a hug, and then he says,

“Hey sarah. Umm. [he looks away, and is fidgeting and says] I feel stupid, but…. Uumm…. [he can’t even look at her] I don’t know when we’re going to see each other again. But… umm…. I just want you to know, that I really like you. I’m glad I got to know you. “

She says, “yeah, me too.”

He goes in to hug her again, and he gets his kiss on her cheek this time.
She says to the camera,
”I got a little awkward for a second, not knowing what that meant exactly. It took me by surprise. "

He says, “what I did was nothing really, but it took everything I had to do it. I want her to know I don’t want to be a friend. Im sick of being friends with everybody. "

The narrator says, “Brandon had his chance. But his inexperience with women caused him to fall back into his old ways. Can the diary now finally help him move from best friend, to boyfriend?”

And we all know the answer to that… haha

At the end of the show, they have the opportunity, if they wish, to show up at a designated time and place, which shows they are interested in each other.

He showed up, but she didn't... haha
 
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That was toooo funny.(LOLOLOLOLOL)

What a punk! Even in AFC days I was still getting the draws.
 

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That was pretty sad... hehehe.... This could be Bible material, really. :D
 

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Yeah, I saw that and was thinking the same thing.. kinda reminded me of what I used to be before I lost ten pants sizes, got some self-esteem, and started applying the system.

-J
 

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Where can I find this show? I'm always intrigued by programs like this. Right now my fave is "Paradise Hotel." They've got an AFC on there named Dave who my friends and I affectionately refer to as "donkey boy." He is clearly the least attractive on the show, and the rest of the "beautiful people" in the group never miss an opputunity to treat him as such. It's really sad, actually, because it's a true-to-life representation of just how much significance looks have in this game. It's obvious that no matter what this guy says or does his chances are not going to improve with the women; and conversely, the attractive participants will always have oppurtunities. But despite all the abuse Dave takes from the other guests, he has endured, only at great personal cost to his dignity and self-respect.
 

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The season finale of The Dating Experiment was last Wednesday, at 9pm on ABC.

I LOVE watching reality dating shows and just cringing when people do AFC things.

I was laughing hysterically during Paradise Hotel when Dave accepted the bet to kiss that hottie by midnight. Man, that was some serious anticipation waiting for that goofball to make his move.

If i was Dave, when they were accusing him of saying he was smarter than everyone, i would have said, "OK, let's have a trivia contest, and we'll PROVE who's smartest!" Dave probably would have won, and would have showed some spine in the process.
 

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Originally posted by stormwriter
I was laughing hysterically during Paradise Hotel when Dave accepted the bet to kiss that hottie by midnight. Man, that was some serious anticipation waiting for that goofball to make his move.
Definately. It was quite foolish for him to make that bet; clearly the other guys only wanted to embarrass him further. I suppose he'd do just about anything to feel at home with the rest of the group. I knew the very second he started working Tara that the only way he'd succeed was by sexually assaulting her.
 

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haha hell yeah. dave is one of the dumbest guys ive seen. sad really, becuase he thinks he know what he is doing (dont all AFC's ;) )

The other guys decide to make him feel "special", by challanging him to kiss the new girl that comes on the show that day by midnight.

So at around 11:30 he walks up to new girl, and says "hey, lets go for a walk" So far so good. He walks her around, at around 11:40 they get to his place. OTher guys hide in the closet in his room and get ready to watch.
Dave is sitting on the bed, doing nothing....and nothing...and nothing again... finally he remembers the line one guy gave him "ask her if she has chapstick, then kiss her",. so our smart man asks "Do u have a chapstick?" ,
Well touch nuts, she responds "no, but i got lipstick" , so our AFC takes it and puts some on himself....without kissing the girl..

11:55, he sits and waits
11:56 he sits and waits
11:57 he still sits and waits
11:58 he still fvcking sits and waits
11:59 guys jump out of the closet and yell ONE MINUTE to go
11:59:30 GIRLS walk in and bust the whole thing
12:00 Dave stands in the middle, doing nothing, and making himself look like a fvcking AFC he is.

there ya go, hes off the show for sure, thats my call


TO ALL YOU AFC, REMEMBER THIS LINE - HESITATION LEADS TO MASTRUBATION! fvcking tatoo it on your forehead.
 

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I actually think Dave could do better if he had more self esteem and a winning personality. Its not JUST that he's less attractive physically - which puts him behind from the beginning. But he is just clueless with social interactions. If he was funny and had some kind of talent, along with some better social skills, I bet he could have done way better.
 

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What's sad is that I can imagine myself in that very situation. Telling myself I only have a few chances, and that I must do something before it's too late. In his case it was the kiss. But I wouldn't have the kind of courage to even go that far. For me it would be simply be flirting with a girl. I got all worked up today about that. There's this girl at my gym who talks to me. I was determined that I was going to wink at her when I said hi or bye. When the time finally came, I think I gave her kind of a half-wink; I'm not even sure if she noticed. It may have just looked like a twitch. Even something as simple as opening and closing an eyelid causes me uneasiness. Kino is something I'd love to try, but it takes everything I have to give a simple tap on the shoulder.

I'm glad I didn't see that show. I wouldn't have found it funny at all.
 

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I'm sorry, but I don't see the point in sitting and laughing at AFC's. We were all there once. Everyone hates AFCs because they hate themselves for being AFC in the past.

All AFCs out there in the world want to change and understand women, we were just lucky enough to stumble across this board.
 

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Originally posted by FlyGuy
Its not JUST that he's less attractive physically
Yes it is. That jackass Zack is 10 times as ignorant, but yet he could have his pick of the litter with the girls. No female on that show would ever EVER give Dave a chance, I don't care how many talents or magical abilities he could have.
 

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Oh yeah I forgot, you're the guy who thinks that everything depends on your looks. If that's true then I'm screwed :rolleyes: I don't watch the show regularly but Dave seemed to be the most clueless with social skills.
 

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Dr. Zaius,

If looks are all-important, then why does this forum exist? If there's little chance for those of us who aren't that good-looking, why waste time reading the posts here?
 

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One of the funniest dating show scenes I have ever seen was part of the Blind Date Uncensored DVD. It is the last date of the movie, and a guy is trying to kiss his date good night, and she moves her head away to resist him, but he keeps trying! He tries to kiss her about 9 or 10 times, and the bottom of the screen says "Head-Butt count". He never gets the kiss in, and she finally goes into her house. I felt sorry for the guy, but it was hilarious at the same time.
 
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