Reacting to women's insults and rejections...

[_Machiavelli_]

What to say when a woman insults you or rejects you based exclusively based on your looks? Well, you can have the best DJ skills but if you don't have the looks she asks for why would it djing' matter? What are we learning here if all they want is a) good looks or b) money. Confidence?? Where is confidence in this lose-lose situation. Yeah Lose girl and lose confidence and gain a blow to self-esteem.

Also, what makes sick and wanna puke is that the girls i want only say friendly things to me, not the sexual ones, if they don't find me attractive is better to say than to say a bunch of ****ty things that don't mean **** to me.Also why are ugly or fat chicks so interested in me,jesus it's looks like i'm a loser chick magnet. This must be a nightmare, i'm freaking out

 

[htemorp]

You are hopeless if you believe in the garbage you just spitted out. If a girl is completely flaky and cross out men she sees base purely on looks, then what's the point of you going after her? No matter how attractive you are, chances are, there will always be a better looking man out there, thus you have no gurantees. Same shiet with the money. I personally have met some dudes that are much below average in the attraction scale, but these guys are so fun to kick it with, you forget what they look like. When you are not born with natural attractions, you have to work more on others...and that's the point why this site exists.

 

[krd]

In response to your first paragraph, it isn't all about looks. A girl I know whom I spoke to today said she actually likes fat, balding men with--and here's the key word--power. Kind of like that guy on The Sopranos. Most girls would not be so forthcoming with such info--it was refreshing to hear it straight from the horses mouth.

She also admitted being attracted to jerks--it's as if she's been to this site (I hope she's not reading this). But the thing about these characteristics I just mentioned is that they have nothing to do with looks.

That's not to say that looks don't matter with women. If you're really good looking, but don't have all the other stuff, a woman might let it slide. But if you're less than a knockout, you'd better have something else up your sleeve. Confidence itself won't do it, but it certainly makes it easier to act in the necessary way to make women attracted to you, which is where DJing comes in. Otherwise you'll get a bunch of girls who just want to be friends--or ugly fat chicks who are desperate (which, I believe would answer your last question).

 

[wise_mage]

you are so stupid.
just because someone is ugly or fat it does not mean they are losers. poeple who think the way you do are losers. either u change your attitude or your life will turn out to be a very unhappy one.
also you dont know sh!t about what this site is really all about.
being a dj is not only about getting girls you know!

anyway, Im curious. what are these friendly things girls say to you? what would be sexual things? give examples

 

[aBAzLLnA]

please, next time you post, use good grammar? i could barely understand a word typed.

you have verrry far to go my friend. im getting the feeling that your depressed right now? (excuse me if im wrong). you really needa change your perspective on things if you think your gonna be a DJ... reread the bible before you post ANYTHING else....please.

~ivan

 

[BrWnSugaMan]

htemorp said...

If a girl is completely flaky and cross out men she sees base purely on looks, then what's the point of you going after her?

-Wrong. That is a nice load of political b/s that you are throwing our way. Women and men either reject/retain a prospective significant other based on looks. I agree that looks are not everything, but all women have a subjective line that they draw and either you are good enough and make it pass this line or you do not. Simple as that.

 

[_Machiavelli_]

Wise, maybe you are right i have not expressed myself correctly and i apologize for that.

Friendly things are expressions like you are so nice or you are so cute and being mushy wushy all the time but without a sexual meaning.