Re-Programming the System - Putting Things Into Action.

[A-Unit]

Much of the world is talk. We have paralysis through excessive analysis. Even I can sink into the mud pit of "over-analysis" from time to time. Until you're aware that it happens, most people just flutter from project to project. But this is no excuse as to why you don't get things done. Why you don't improve.

There's a disconnect. Say you purchase the Double Your Dating system, an oldie but goodie intro system on meeting women. It's a short-term solution to a long-term problem, but it gives the neophyte a great system to follow, IN ADDITION to the works on this site. With that said, if you purchase and don't implement what has been heard/read, why is that?

1. Dis-Empowering Beliefs. Even though you READ great info, you're not the person in the right moment, at the right time to put it to action. This is one of the MAIN reasons, Buffett, Disney, Dell, Gates, Jobs, Trump and other have succeeded. They found valuable info they were going to die to put to action that would accomplish/feed their Type A, ego-driven personas. They got lucky because momentum, power, and concentration PRECEDE luck. All the wonderful info on this site will amount to a hill of beans, unless you apply it.

2. Lack of Motivation. Some people just really DO NOT care. Maybe they want a GF and the info/training they have or received is purely to play/game women. Fine. But it's not geared straight at what you want. So go find the info/system that does that. Info is generally neutral, but if you're out playing women, a good % of women that are playable, are going to be mediocre prospects who are TARGETS for such things. And the girls who are not such a target, shouldn't be played. It isn't particulary manly or becoming, to place your ills against 1 sex on just 1 girl, no matter how much of a dork you were, how bad you were hurt, or how whorish you think women have become.

3. You Do Not Have An Effective/Personal Gameplan. In many cases, people haven't aligned their mental world with their physical. Their ego-ridden nature wants a cosmic alignment of their physical world to the internal expectations in their mind, BEFORE they act. They have the process reversed. Instead, YOU ALIGN yourself to the situation at hand that EMPOWERS you toward the goals you wish you accomplish. Not the other way around. Too many people get stymied because their eyes aren't giving them physical confirmation of an ALL LAUNCH GO! It's like WAITING to begin your new workout program when the weather is good, or you live close to a gym, or you have the right supplements. ALL WRONG. Until YOU ARE THE RIGHT person, all other things mean shyt. 90% of the country downs supplements that have only real value as toilet bowl cleanser because they take them, but aren't acting right.

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To Reprogram, Reboot your mental system, a few "thoughts" and "suggestions." You can take them with, or leave them behind, but at least I will have spoken/contributed to someone's, even 1 person's betterment.

**Right here, right now, this moment that you outline your life is your BIRTHDAY. Mark it down. If in a year, you have made the prescribed changes, TRULY celebrate it like it's your PERSONAL birthday. On the "official birthday" of which you were physically conceived, you also found yourself subject to everyone else's mental schema's and programming, of a world that is not necessarily true! God love all our parents, but often times if you wish to be wealthy, poor parents won't be the best mentors. Don't leave them behind at all. Be thankful for what they instill you. But also realize certain limitations. I love my parents dearly, and visit them weekly, just to say hi, golf, or the occasional dinner. However, I couldn't even get tutored by them when I was 10 or so, and business mentoring was out. That's ok, because I still owe them the world.

**Right here, right now, write down what you want to accomplish. You'll quickly realize if you don't, life's current will pull you along anyways. In the younger teen years this isn't apparent, but as you age, it's very obvious, especially post college. Friends get married, people die, people move, they get new jobs, fired, have babies, are cheated on, some hit it big, maybe your team wins a major championship, we could have a new war, etc. All life events, THAT WILL IMPACT YOU, and possibly in a very dramatic way, IF, you are not prepared, in control, and aware. A major event shakes the person up who is NOT awake. Many times a person who is so shocked by a partner leaving them couldn't see it, or didn't believe it, but the writing was on the wall. A buddy of mine is divorcing his young wife, of not nearly 2 years of marriage. Not only did they marry too fast, having not dated for even a year, and WERE not madly in love, but they had no basis in common for longevity except the desire to marry. That alone corresponds to failure. It's like 2 people who want a relationship to have one, so they place house. Immediate failure to launch.

You can do this in a big notebook, or in 3 ring binder with the following subchapters...

Financial
Personal
Health/Physical
Empowering Beliefs
Social
Desires/Wants
Professional
Skill Set/Traits
Miscellaneous

Do it on the computer, or in a 3 ring binder. Attach notes, quotes, or anything you like. Call it your "PlayBook for Your Life." When you look back in a week, a month, a year, or 5, you'll see or NOT see the way you designed it, how you got there, and what things helped or hurt your success. At first, years ago I thought this to be "cheesy"...like why would any 'cool' guy do this. And cool guys don't. Successful guys do. I probably have a bunch of journals going simultaneously, and I look back on thoughts i had, and what came of them, and on women I dated, and feelings I had, and in the end, it becomes so foolish, attaching SO much emotion to 1 situation, when it comes and goes, like a thought we had that wasn't our's and then off it's gone!

**Right here, right now. Write down your action plan for doing each thing individually and track your progress in each respective section. For some, this is tedious, BUT, to make it fun, create HUGE goals. This is your growing playbook for life, and like a game, once you nail down the beginning stages, you can look toward being an advanced player in all respects. It's foolish to think your MIND can hold everything at once that you want to accomplish, and to try and remember what it is you want to do in the first place. However, keeping a playbook like we do everything else in life is a very solid and smart way to see that you do with your God-given, creative talents ALL THAT YOU CAN. A firm plan will also free up your time, because once you knock off the things you have to, you can relax KNOWING you future is secure.

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[A-Unit]

Rebooting.

Now Rebooting...

I'll end up adding to the above REPROGRAMMING section, however, moving on to REBOOTING and installing the written program...

This is just as important as the reprogramming, and will require some "awareness" on your part...and an open mind.

Rebooting implies cleaning and dumping the old LIMIT beliefs, and installing EMPOWERING beliefs. It requires you to go TABULA rasa, or blank slate. As I sat talking with someone over the weekend, it became apparent to me how DAMAGING someone's virginal first time can be if it's not EMPOWERING and positive. In this case, it related to something sexual. A particular girl's wasn't as empowering or positive, so she, much like many other girls', wasn't INTO one particular thing. When this came up, it lit a bulb in my mind, as to how life's perceptions and our FIRST instance can truly set the tone for much of how life goes.

If for instance, your chock full of various talents, personalities, and a warm, healthy vibratory aura, yet you were surrounded in your youth with disempowering teachers, parents, family members or friends, it's VERY possible the life you lead is a false one. Perhaps you'd be AWESOME at sales, but because your parents hated sales people, and your dad did it once, and your uncle was screwed over by another bad 1, you totally built the reality that sales SUCKS and it's a poor field so you shy away, even though you could dramatically change what people think of it. Moreover, because you disempower yourself, you leave great skills just dying and atrophying. Sad isn't it?

A more popular occurence is that of the guy. The ugly duckling, or so he thinks. When he was younger, he never was chased by little girls. As he got older, the only person calling him cute was his mom. And so because of these dispowering words, he never took time to put himself together, workout, or socialize, great, wonderful, and warm skills just died, or stayed dormant. So sad, but happens so often. MANY guys who went from nothing, or so they felt, to something, so they feel, are the ones who speak about it, because they know BOTH sides, and they can speak, as if living like a Slave, then as a King.

This guy merely needs to REBOOT. Disregard ALL the words here heard as if they were a bad dream, right down his GOOD dreams down, have EMPOWERING beliefs that guide him toward the desired target which utilize him to his fullest, and set the course on his path toward it. Guys want something MORE complex, but in reality it's that SIMPLE. Not just easy. As you go, you gather momentum and steam in ALL areas. As you build your bland in wealth, you graduate from learning about debt and bank accounts, to mutual funds, stocks, real estate, IPO's, futures, currencies, leveraged buyouts, and more. You don't have to go all the way to PHD status, but know THAT IT IS AVAILABLE TO YOU like all else, you merely have to plot your course, weather the storms, and press on.

There's no reason any guy can't get in shape, SOME SHAPE, he just chooses to succumb to the emotions he's tapped into, and to succumb to this body, rather than have HIM control his body. It's like the tail wagging the dog. You control your body, and in many cases, if you've eaten a decent amount of food, it's merely you're body ADAPTING to the new eatting style, or the years of toxins and poisons FINALLY making their way out of your body. You certainly aren't dying if you had 1500-2000 calories over the course of a day. It's just the OLD you lashing out against the NEW you.



Gl,


A-Unit

 

[SalParadise]

**Right here, right now. Write down your action plan for doing each thing individually and track your progress in each respective section. For some, this is tedious, BUT, to make it fun, create HUGE goals. This is your growing playbook for life, and like a game, once you nail down the beginning stages, you can look toward being an advanced player in all respects.

Done and done. Setting down goals is harder than it appears. I've found that if they aren't the right goals, ones which are going towards a very clearly stated direction that you have an absolute, burning desire to achieve, something that will drag you out of bed and get you into action every morning, it just doesn't work.

It's not enough to write 'improve the finances'. It has to be specific, measurable, and something you can realistically achieve. And just BEYOND what you're currently capable of.

Action makes the difference. We absorb information and get fired up
with motivation, then we go outside and that artifical high falls apart in the comfortable ebb and flow of the daily routine. And it keeps happening, until you realise that if YOU don't have a plan for your own life, somebody else DOES.

I'm making my plan now, and taking action today. Good post A-Unit!

 

[flippinfreak]

May 9th 2006 Happy brithday to my twinitis' AND to my PERSONAL Birthday.

Be back to you in an hour with a rundown of my goals.

I hate coincidences.