Rate my looks

[LADawg49]

One reason why I still haven't gotten over my fear of approaching women is the fact that they think I might not be attractive lookin enough. My pictures are at: http://photos.yahoo.com/LADawg49 . Rate my looks and if women are likely to find me physically attractive or not.

 

[frivolousz21]

the reason you are not over your fear of women is because ur asking insecure questions like this.

INNER GAME..work on it!

 

[Julian]

lose the glasses.

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

with short hair you look a bit rough/red neck but with the longer hair and glasses you do not look so great, no better then average. Get a better hair cut, make sure oyu still actuly have some hair because you look better with it then with out. Get contacts or nicer looking glasses and work on your clothes, try going for somthing a bit less baggy, get some tight fitting clothes, not super tight, just tight not as in skin tight still losely fitting i dont mean like women wair of course just not baggy at all.

 

[NewMan]

Hit the gym

 

[dearsappho]

Better than average? Dont mean to be rude but youre one ugly mofo bro...face facts and rectify.

 

[LADawg49]

Yo dearsappho, if u think im one ugly mofo, lemme see your pic and rate you.. You may be uglier.. There are things bout me I can't change such as my race(Im Indian) or the fact I wear glasses(I do not have enough money to get contacts). As for style of dress, what would u all recommend? I usually tend to wear urban clothing(thats when I feel most confident usually).

 

[MindOverMatter]

hit the gym

 

[dearsappho]

I wouldnt be so sad...

and in any case, i was trying to be encouraging not rude. You set yourself up for abuse by doing this my friend. Learn from it.

 

[frivolousz21]

hit the gym..you dont have to be big or anything..just symetrical..Im not big at all..

im 5 7 160..but I have traps and a bigger upper body compared to my waist..women think im bigger than I am!

good luck

 

[LADawg49]

You are givin some good advice frivoulous. I started working out in back in October. I used to go 3-5 days a week and would run on the treadmill and lift the weights. I did that till mid-December then things changed. I got into a very serious car accident and my left knee banged very hard on the dashboard. I couldn't walk like for a week. Then after that durin winter break, I got an 8-5 job which meant I didn't have time to work out and also I could hardly move on my left knee. Now ive started going back to the gym about twice a week and hopefully when my knee fully recovers(will take a long time before that happens), I hope to go everyday again.

 

[MindOverMatter]

don't go on treadmills, use elipticals if you have knee problems

 

[frivolousz21]

1. you dont need to go to the gym everyday.

2. clean up ur diet so you will keep a lower body fat while being hurt.

3. 8-5 is no excuse..I work that and go to school in the evenings and hit the gym 3 times a week....and have a active social life.

you are awkae 16 to 18 hours per day..thats plenty of time to get things done.

4. try rockin ur upper body hard if u cant work ur legs.

5. your BIGGEST ISSUE IS UR ATTITUDE..YOU HAVE IT SET YOU WILL FAIL BEFORE UR TRYING. YOU NEED TO CLEAN UP UR INNER GAME TREMENDOUSLY AND START BELIEVING IN YOURSELF AS NUMBER 1.

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by LADawg49
Yo dearsappho, if u think im one ugly mofo, lemme see your pic and rate you.. You may be uglier..

man, he's not said he's better than you. u just asked for an opinion and he gave you.
you say you cannot do much to improve your looks, really you can. objectively, AS YOU ARE NOW you are rather ugly. but you can do lots of things to "beautifulize" yourself:

1. get a decent haircut
2. get contacts
3. get better clothes
4. improve posture
5. get a better body
6. work on your smile

almost anybody, by doing these, could become at least a 6.5

good luck man

 

[LADawg49]

Hey Jay, I'll admit I do have lotsa room for improvement when it comes to looks. As for my hair right now, its more like the one with me wearing the jersey. As for contacts, I may consider doing it. As for the clothes, what type of clothes would u personally recommend me to wear? As for smiling, I always smile right now when I go out and it has paid off a little I must admit.

 

[Enzo]

Have you ever thought that the women who you approach are worried that they are unattractive?

Believe me it is not the hottest guys that get all the girls. It is the ones that have the balls to approach. Whenever I am at a club I see so many guys who just stand around there being so AFC. Despite being what many women would define as hot. With women it is much more about how you see yourself then how you look.

 

[LADawg49]

I know what u mean swampwiz. Whether any quality women say im handsome or ugly it personally does not faze me and I just lead my life and have a positive attitude. As for style of dress swampwiz, what would u recommend? For me, sometimes I'll wear urban clothing, sometimes more formal, depends on the mood. Ive realized there will always be some women who think you are handsome, some who think you are average, and some who think you are butt ugly.. As for women not putting too much emphasis on looks, you are right in a way Enzo. I got a friend who is about 28 and he is 5'4, bald head, and a bit up there in weight. In addition, he does not have a degree and does not earn that much money. However, he has no problem pulling women(attractive women at that) of all races and all. So I guess women look more at how man's attitude is rather than his looks.

 

[Freeman]

What?

Originally posted by swampwiz
OK, you're not handsome. I can't see many quality women saying you are cute. I couldn't tell if you had a good musculature or not with that basketball jersey. I do think that an ethnic guy like you wearing that jersey makes you look African heritage, which I would tend to think is a negative. But then again, Los Angeles is about as multi-cultural as you can get.

With that said, you seem to have a tall lanky frame. That's a start. The good thing about being a man is that you can almost always improve your physique by simply pumping iron. A tall man with a wirey but cut physique is always enough to make up for all but the homeliest face.

I'd also recommend to get out of the home-boy style. Intelligent, cultured men are at a premium, so try for that.

I dont want to jump the gun but what you said sounds a bit prejudice..."I do think that an ethnic guy like you wearing that jersey makes you look African heritage, which I would tend to think is a negative". Now correct me if I'm wrong but what you're getting is that by him wearing a jersey that makes him look black and thats bad...So what exactly what is he supposed to wear? Clothes like some preppy guy from beverly hills?

 

[Freeman]

For Ladawg49

Man I've seen some of the ugliest guys pull some beautiful women. As far as your pic goes your not that bad just need some "style" to yourself. And for all these guys calling you ugly I bet you that there are tore up from the floor up!


Also if you want some real advice and not advice from these wierdos I suggest you talk to royal elite Okay MAN!

 

[LADawg49]

You are very right Freeman. People of any race are free to wear whatever they want. After all, we live in a free country and every person(of every race) has the freedom to choose on what they wanna wear, what music they wanna listen to, etc. There are White, black, latino, Indian, Chinese, etc men that wear jerseys because they are usually major sports fans, like myself. It is wrong to say someone looks a certain race. In my opinion, there is no such thing as acting black, acting white, acting Indian, etcEvery person of every race is an individual and each person has their indiviual style of dress, individual taste in music, etc.
As for my pic Freeman, let them say im ugly and all, I mean its not like ever gonna see those people in real life or anything. I cant let my self esteem be based on what some people off the internet think. As for ugly guys gettin women, u are very right, as my friend mentioned is one of many examples.