Rapport after laying the girl....Advice requested

[Ricky]

I had a great time with this girl last weekend. We hit it off and ended up in bed.

We talked during the week. She called Tuesday and we spoke Thursday about weekend plans.

We went out with mutual friends on Friday and had a good time, but she was a bit colder. She said the fact that I have a girlfriend is bothering her. I did some major kino but most of the night she talked to her girlfriends.

I point blank asked her about having sex again (I first prefaced it by talking about how hot it was which she agreed), she said she does want to hookup again, but isnt sure she want's to date as the fact I have a girlfriend I'm in the process of breaking up with and also that she is very busy lately (which her friends did say is true).

She had to get up real early to help her sister move Saturday. I haven't talked to her since Friday. I got a quick kiss goodbye outside her parents place when we dropped her off (she has her own pad but was leaving early in the morning to move her sister)

My goal is to hook up with her again and finally date her.

I plan on playing it cool and calling her Monday or Tuesday. I hate feeling needy but I seriously want this girl bad again.

Any strategies or suggestions?

1) In summary I need to play it cool, I can't look needy
2) The sex was great, we both agree on that so at the least we can be f buddies.
3) Overall she seems to be a low maintenance girl in terms of what she likes to do, but is busy playing alot of sports (softball, volleyball, etc). She is in leagues and that takes up most of her free time.
4) I want to take her out next Friday and f close again. If it doesn't happen I may next her.

 

[Cocoon]

lol, alright, since when did we make breaking up a "process"? tell her its over on the phone with the girl and get some really meanigful sex, lol(poll) the girl that u dumped will call back the same day, dont call back, forget about her, and wait till she is putty in your hands, then fvck her i thin vin diesel said it best in xxx "its a viscous circle"...

 

[BMW]

OK, but be careful not to get herpes.

 

[white_hype]

you shouldnt go out with her on friday or saturday unless she is your serious girlfriend... you should be spending those nights for meeting other girls, and dont give me that shiat like this is the one, i only want to date her, STFU

lol
but seriously on fri/sat u should be meeting other girls as those are the best times to do it

dude i dont know what your deal is, but after i mess around with a girl i feel like i am in total control, any girl you mess around with obviously likes you and wants to do it with you again and again, so dont worry and play it cool

 

[Ricky]

You're right. One problem I didn't anticipate was that she had to get up so damn early, and I didnt' know she was going over to the parents house that night.

Kind of makes it hard to rev it up beyond first base.

Have to admit the one guys advice on using the weekend to meet new chicks is true.

I read somewhere recently that Saturday night is the best night to meet women. (more single girls are out on Saturday than Friday even).

But I've met chicks on about every night. The off nights are really cool to meet chicks. When you can find a bar on a quieter night, you can talk to chicks easier.

I will go out with this girl again, but her schedule is really busy like mine. I will play it by ear.