[RANT-WHINNING] Worst experience of my life.

[Suspens]

So today I decided to get a new haircut(Something like this), wear my new clothes, get out and find new girls. I was looking my best and feeling happy and excited for new adventures. As I was walking on a crowded street, I got gently slapped on the back of my head. At first I couldn't believe it. But just looked back and, YES, IT ACTUALLY HAPPENED. Two ugly guys were laughing and one of them spouted "Sup cutie".

Again, I was shocked as I have never experienced such BS .Anyway I decided to say something: "What are you doing dumbfuc k, that wasn't funny" And he replied :"you are a dumbfu ck ".

I kept walking and they went to the other side of the street. I avoided a fight because I would definitely get beaten by two guys as I was alone, and I had my Iphone and a relatively expensive sunglasses with me, so they too could be damaged as well.

Should I have started a fight?

 

[jurry]

hah nice trolling..

 

[Suspens]

Jeez, I lost my integrity and pride today and came here for some relief.

When will this troll-hunting crusade stop?

 

[RangerMIke]

Okay...

Let it go. Nothing you can do about this now. The important thing at this point is to just forget about it. I know that it is bothering you that you should have done something.

Okay I will tell you that you should have done something, you didn't. It's not a knock on you, you just didn't have this kind of experience in you past. It's too late now just learn from it. Truth is that there really is nothing you could do about this that allows you to save face with no risk.

Okay... this is what you should do in the unlikely situation that this comes up again:

(1) Find a witness
(2) Demand an apology, if they apologize let it go.
(3) If they refuse, then ask thier name.... if they don't give you their names call them chicken-sh!t cowards.
(4) Follow them until they get in a car... their will be a licence... write it down.
(5) File a civil law suit against them for battery.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Dude.. I saw a man get kicked in the teeth while he was down on all fours at the club. I am sure that was the worst day of his life as I could see his gf begging for this to stop...


Nah bro.. you did the right thing.

 

[BrainDamage92]

Lol soz but thats what happens when you get a bad haircut

 

[salinechow]

I got to admit too. This seems like trolling. Yet, I know Suspens is not. Its just so sensational. There is an ole saying "You win some you lose some" Personally, If I am alone and this happens I go into life threating rage mode and crack skulls. However, you probably shouldn’t. Actually, no one should myself included, but everyone is different and every situation is different.

What you can do about it... What you should do about it... Is this...

First like RangerMike said( yes I see the irony in this post contrast to his other one) ( I agree with what he did in the other post though)

Forget about the pride loss but don’t forget about the situation.

Use your anger or sh!t feelings to drive you into some self defense discipline.

You don’t have to become a guru, just go take like 3-6 months of boxing classes or BJJ grappling style classes a few times a week. Maybe youll love it and stay longer but the drilling the basics into your subconscious will put you leagues ahead of 80% of a$$holes. Use the twisted insides you feel now to motivate you towards self-enrichment. You can use those guys’ faces towards a lot of good in your own life and turn this "loss" into a "win". Forever using those d!cks for your own enrichment.

A word about combat: The best fights I ever won where always self defense submission moves. 1-2-3 fight over. Guy arrested. Girl protected. Clothes in tack. Night still enjoyed.

The fights where punches were thrown, got very, very, ugly and I always left it feeling bad. Or worse, putting my old career in jeopardy or worse still my freedom.

I am a guy who will brawl once touched or threatened. I was raised this way, and I was instructed how to do it. HOWEVER, every instructor always told us you never lose a fight you run away from. And...You must always balance what you are risking. Years of court battles, jail, fake teeth, and I think the worst of all, really injuring someone else.

To each his own.

A final thought Suspens. Go to one of these disciplines and get your a$$ kicked. Its good for you. Its good for the soul to get punched furiously in the face or your arm twisted till it pops. You'll go home and I don’t care what anyone says, you'll feel as a MAN should. Wounded but never beaten. Youll also develop a fearlessness that will carry you through both fighting AND walking away.

The feelings you have now will never enter your mind or heart again.

Proud of you either way because you came home healthy enough to post this and that is important. But...next time, kick some a$$. :box:

O, and shave your head.

 

[way2smart]

Jeez, I lost my integrity and pride today and came here for some relief.

When will this troll-hunting crusade stop?

I would have knocked both of those dumbfvcks out. That's because my pride costs much more than sunglasses and a possible arrest. However that's not the relief you want? is it?
My honest opinion, you acted like a pvssy.

 

[Suspens]

I would have just been witty and turned it around on them. Said something like:
"Didnt know that's how prostitutes are trying to get clients now-a-days. Sorry fagg0ts I'm not into dudes."

Haha.

Dude.. I saw a man get kicked in the teeth while he was down on all fours at the club. I am sure that was the worst day of his life as I could see his gf begging for this to stop...
Nah bro.. you did the right thing.

Poor guy.
However these boys weren't that tough or threatening , which is what makes me feel mad at myself.

A final thought Suspens. Go to one of these disciplines and get your a$$ kicked. Its good for you. Its good for the soul to get punched furiously in the face or your arm twisted till it pops. You'll go home and I don’t care what anyone says, you'll feel as a MAN should. Wounded but never beaten. Youll also develop a fearlessness that will carry you through both fighting AND walking away.

The feelings you have now will never enter your mind or heart again.

Proud of you either way because you came home healthy enough to post this and that is important. But...next time, kick some a$$. :box:

O, and shave your head.

That was some really motivational stuff, salinechow. Thank you sir. Will be attending a kickboxing class soon, as I always liked learning that. About time now.

@RangerMIke Helpful as always, thanks for your practical advice man.

My honest opinion, you acted like a pvssy.

Yeah. No justification for not doing anything, "but my expensive sunglasses" etc. No rationalization, I just pussed out.


Though, what they did was a very bold move. I was caught in total shock, thinking they should be carrying a knife or something to be that bold and aggressive. They weren't taller than me, or physically bigger.

I've experienced a slightly similar situation in the past. I was walking and again, looking really cool that time, wearing new clothes and hair cut etc. A random cvnt taunted me by making retarded noises: "pshh pshh mew meww, such a stylish boy". I stopped, looked back and kept staring at him for like 3 seconds. He ran towards me yelling and cursing and we got into a fight. No punches were thrown, as I just locked him down by holding his neck tightly, not allowing any dangerous movement. His friends were actually decent beings who came to the scene and ended the fight.

I guess that is what you get for looking happy, confident and sexy.

 

[Suspens]

I'm not European.

lose the fear of getting hit and awaken the fighting instinct in you

Good idea.

there arent many feelings better then winning a fight.

True. Very rewarding and it's a massive confidence boost.

 

[Yewki]

(1) Find a witness
(2) Demand an apology, if they apologize let it go.
(3) If they refuse, then ask thier name.... if they don't give you their names call them chicken-sh!t cowards.
(4) Follow them until they get in a car... their will be a licence... write it down.
(5) File a civil law suit against them for battery.

If it was something more serious that could be good advice. But they "gently slapped" him on the head. Pretty lame to try to get a witness and the police involved but that's me.

The OP's only mistake was having such thin skin and getting worked up over it. Resorting to violence for something like that, especially when outnumbered, is dumb. The best reaction is to either calmly say "Don't do that again" then move on, or if you're feeling ****y play along and try to outwit them IMO.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

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[666goobypls69]

Hey look at the bright side, they called you cute. At least you know your haircut is working. :cheer: