Quote of the Day

[bigneil]

"You've been going with the wrong women!" said the stripper.

"Tell me about it!" was my reply.

I had been telling her that I would never, ever get married and she said she was the type who would never get divorced. "Once you commit, it's forever" she said (age 20), having just got out of her relationship.

It was the first time I had seen her in 4 months. It was the 8th straight time she asked me to see her but the first time I accepted, so I had some leverage. Although she was as lovely as ever, she has lost the power over me.

She said she is quitting stripping, that she can't stand it anymore, and that she got her bartender license. I was happy for her. She really has grown up in the 9 months I've known her. As you know, I never thought of her as that type, despite what my own eyes saw.

Seeing her was bittersweet. Physically we reuinted but the connection was gone. She didn't seem to notice that I lost 35 lb, but then again she didn't say no either.

She said that (months ago) she wasn't angry as much as she just wanted to get rid of me, but admitted later she missed me and there was a reason she was replying to my messages. She said she would have ignored my messages if she didn't want to get back together, letalone be asking me out. She just doesn't want it as intense as before.

But while I needed to see her one last time, I think it's time to call it a happy ending.

 

[Scars]

"You've Been Going With the Wrong Women!" said the stripper.

"Tell me about it!" was my reply.

I had been telling her that I would never, ever get married and she said she was the type who would never get divorced. "Once you commit, it's forever" she said (age 20), having just got out of her relationship.

It was the first time I had seen her in 4 months. It was the 8th time she asked me to see her and the first time I accepted, so I had some leverege.

She said she is quitting stripping and got her bartender license. I was happy for her. As you know, I never thought of her as that type, despite what my own eyes saw.

Seeing her was bittersweet. Physically we reuinted but the connection was gone.

She said that (months ago) she wasn't angry as much as she just wanted to get rid of me, but admitted later she missed me and there was a reason she was replying to my messages. She said she would have ignored my messages if she didn't want to get back together. She just doesn't want it as intense as before.

But I think it's time to call it a happy ending.

No surprise here. But you're better off cutting it off. Strippers are generally nuts, or have some deep seeded problems.

I've had a piece of stripper tail. One of them told me her phone number, had she been caught, she could had easily been fired or worse. I called her of course, invited her to a party, she did a show for free, then I banged her.

Now she lives several states away and lives off her sugar daddy.

These girls aren't looking for love or commitment. They're gold diggers, and professionals at seducing men.

Even though that stripper is married, I still get calls and texts from her. Perhaps, I was one of the few that never bowed down to her BS. I never bought her anything, at most, I supplied her alcohol for any party she attended and that was it. She even drove me a few places around town, in a car, of course, provided by her sugar daddy.

These woman aren't evil, it's just all they know. I feel bad for them in a way. They were probably molested or raped when they were younger. But that's just how life is.

Most strippers have a dark past, and they want to date guys to "relive" that past. Don't put that kind of sh!t on your shoulders.

I hope you had fun while it lasted man!

-Scars

 

[AlexDP]

It might be time to start seeing a professional, neil.

 

[Skalioppe]

Sounds like you've realised you're now in the friendzone and you're protecting yourself.

 

[zekko]

I had been telling her that I would never, ever get married and she said she was the type who would never get divorced. "Once you commit, it's forever" she said (age 20), having just got out of her relationship.

Lol. I wouldn't believe that a woman whose personality was fully formed wouldn't get a divorce, let a lone a 20 year old. People usually always intend to stay committed when they get married, but things change. I know you didn't buy into what she said either, though.

She said she is quitting stripping, that she can't stand it anymore, and that she got her bartender license

Yikes. In my book, a bartender is just as bad as a stripper. She's going to get hit on just as much, probably more. Too much attention.

But while I needed to see her one last time, I think it's time to call it a happy ending.

Well, if that's so I'm glad you got it out of your system.

 

[bigneil]

Sounds like you've realised you're now in the friendzone and you're protecting yourself.

She gave me the best blow job I ever had, and told me I can blindfold her. Regardless of the mileage, she has the sweetest, tightest pu**y I've seen in years and I worshipped it (if you're wondering how I ever got her to begin with). She told me I didn't have to use a condom if I didn't want to. With friends like this, who needs lovers?

 

[Purefilth]

She gave me the best blow job I ever had, and told me I can blindfold her. Regardless of the mileage, she has the sweetest, tightest pu**y I've seen in years and I worshipped it (if you're wondering how I ever got her to begin with). She told me I didn't have to use a condom if I didn't want to. With friends like this, who needs lovers?

So a stripper says 'hi it raw' and you did?
Get to the clinic.

 

[Skalioppe]

She told me I didn't have to use a condom if I didn't want to. With friends like this, who needs lovers?

She sounds a like a caring sharing stripper type (for STDs).

My advice... get yourself checked over (mentally and sexually).

 

[Iceberg]

God almighty. Posts like this are why I've been visiting the site less and less. Some of these dudes don't need women...they need therapists.

 

[MM92]

God almighty. Posts like this are why I've been visiting the site less and less. Some of these dudes don't need women...they need therapists.

When it comes to bigneil, I have to agree. Lost for words.

 

[JohnChops]

God almighty. Posts like this are why I've been visiting the site less and less. Some of these dudes don't need women...they need therapists.

****ing seriously

 

[floydb25]

God almighty. Posts like this are why I've been visiting the site less and less. Some of these dudes don't need women...they need therapists.

Ha ha, word. I just don't take a lot of it seriously. The things I hear from guys on this site and other web forums is no different than all the women I used to sympathize with. When you cut through the over-exaggeration BS, its as simple as being crazy, dysfunctional, delusional, and associating with / BEING the wrong type of person. This is why you'll have a skank complaining about this and that, but when it comes down to it, its just a skank complaining. Or a nice guy chasing *****es. Or whatever. There's always more to the story than is lead on, but you can see through the garbage easily. It's pretty simple: garbage talking about other garbage.

But, as for the OP - her saying that isn't uncommon. Everyone says you're chasing after the wrong type; they aren't like that; there are good women out there (ie, them); understand where you're coming from; get in on the conversation from a mutually agreeing standpoint; and claim to be different than all the rest - because they're delusional, conceited, and believe to be special / unique.

Most women will say "not all women are like that; I'm not one of them", and go on to agree with everything you say, and adding thoughts like "Yeah, I hate sluts too... I've had bad experiences as well... A lot of jerks screwed me over... Most women are garbage... I can't stand them... They are manipulative and coniving... Yeah, that happened to me, too... Exactly!", and play the victim with you all along, on whatever anti-person topic you have (as far as relationships, and how they can relate)...

They're not as good as they think they are, and are usually JUST like all the rest. They just don't see it that way, because they believe to better than everyone else. Saying that is actually pretty conceited and self-absorbed. Which is why a lot of these people also complain about the same things they are. Like, a stripper.

This is why when you're closed off, bitter, whiney, etc, girls will try to get you to commit and accept them into your life - because they believe they're special. IE, you dated all these *****es and hate women, want a nice girl, blah blah, whatever you're crying about... So, she immediately views herself as the nice girl who "wouldn't do all those things you hate", because she's delusional, and believes to be special / different / better than everyone else - when she's really the exact same way. She will also understand where you're coming from, as she too views herself as a victim in similar situations.

I guess the point is, people are delusional, stuck up their own ass, aren't good judges of their own character, have no relation to reality, and need to stop crying.

While we're on the topic of quotes - here's a good one:

"I'm not like most women." - Most women.

Hmmm, indeed.

 

[bigneil]

Floyd makes some good points, but the bottom line: if you manage to get your girl back and have great sex and then want to end on a high note, many forum members will say you are crazy and need therapy because you succeeded at your goal.

The saddest part of this forum is that most of you have zero sense of humor. It's all negative, all the time. I've provided a humble, unbiased account of a relationships ups and downs but many of you can only focus on the bad things. That's the reason half of the people here probably never admit the negative aspects of how things unfold. I have nothing to prove.

Thanks for nothing to 90% of you. To the 10% like Zekko remember: our goal is to have sex with the given woman. Note that bartending is only temporary and she said she wants to get into real estate marketing. "I'm good at sales" she said (Quote of the Day #2).

 

[bigneil]

So a stripper says 'hi it raw' and you did?
Get to the clinic.

I didn't say I did, but your name is appropriate!

But it's not exactly Friendzone, is it?

That said, I've never had an STD. Despite the wrong girls, if you follow the right diet you can remain disease-free.

 

[Iceberg]

I didn't say I did, but your name is appropriate!

That said, I've never had an STD. If you follow the right diet you will be disease-free.

Oh. So all those people picking up gonnorea and HIV, etc from banging people without protection are simply eating the wrong foods. Somebody better tell the doctors and scientists about this. This info could change everything.

 

[floydb25]

Floyd makes some good points, but the bottom line: if you manage to get your girl back and have great sex and then want to end on a high note, many forum members will say you are crazy and need therapy because you succeeded at your goal.

The saddest part of this forum is that most of you have zero sense of humor. It's all negative, all the time. I've provided a humble, unbiased account of a relationships ups and downs but many of you can only focus on the bad things. That's the reason half of the people here probably never admit the negative aspects of how things unfold. I have nothing to prove.

Thanks for nothing to 90% of you. To the 10% like Zekko remember: our goal is to have sex with the given woman. Note that bartending is only temporary and she said she wants to get into real estate marketing. "I'm good at sales" she said (Quote of the Day #2).

Eh... I was commenting indirectly directly... Or something. Wasn't directed towards you, or what you wrote, but just a small bit about the quote itself... and what Iceberg said, as it related to it. A lot of people ARE crazy on here, and the **** they say is pretty bizarre. I was focusing on the stripper fact, mostly.

But yea, this is a pretty negative place. I don't know what you expect, though. You know when you run into a fake ***** - who's miserable, insecure, crazy, hates the world, and how it operates, and all the people in it, and how they've been corrupted, and have no choice but to be fake and crazy (while hating it every step of the way), and something about eating red pills and having gas? Yea, that's this forum.

Not a lot of this type is going to be positive, wanting to see others succeed, ever seeing things from a good perspective, etc. Hell, there's a lot of wars going on between forum members. All part of the cycle, my friend.

 

[Purefilth]

Oh. So all those people picking up gonnorea and HIV, etc from banging people without protection are simply eating the wrong foods. Somebody better tell the doctors and scientists about this. This info could change everything.

LOL!!!:crackup:

 

[Trump]

The saddest part of this forum is that most of you have zero sense of humor. It's all negative, all the time. I've provided a humble, unbiased account of a relationships ups and downs but many of you can only focus on the bad things. That's the reason half of the people here probably never admit the negative aspects of how things unfold. I have nothing to prove.

Much easier to be angry at the world for not responding the way you like than improving yourself to be the best you can. It's also much more fun to focus on the bad things. People love it when other people don't succeed, fail, get divorced, can't get laid, don't have money, etc. It makes them feel better about themselves even though they've accomplished nothing.

Its messed up...we pretend to care, but no one wants other people to be more successful than they are, it reminds them of their own shortcomings and insecurities. It's also in pop culture, entertainment, sports. We build up these gifted athletes, models, actors and singers to enormous heights...then we love it when they fail or self destruct right before our eyes...makes us feel human.

 

[AlexDP]

Oh. So all those people picking up gonnorea and HIV, etc from banging people without protection are simply eating the wrong foods. Somebody better tell the doctors and scientists about this. This info could change everything.

He is clueless. A good diet does do wonders. For example it is now believed that a diet which would have anti angiogenesis effects could decrease the incidence of cancer. In neil warped's view though, it means a good diet can cure anything. He has fabricated an entire relationship. He's simply handing the stripper money every now and then and she'll have sex with him because of the money. It has probably come to a point where neil isn't even asking sex anymore, but she feels obliged, because she keeps taking his money.

 

[bigneil]

So to summarize the wisdom of AlexDP:

If you're dating her, it's because you're nothing special.
If she dumps you, it's because she lost interest.
If you contact her again, it's because you're AFC.
If she replies, it's because you're delusional.
If you get her to reconsider, it's because you need to see a psychologist.
If you see her again, it's because she wants to friendzone you.
If you have sex with her again, it's because you must have paid her.
If she does it free, it's because she feels obliged from previous payments.
If she doesn't make you use protection, it's because she's diseased.
If you never caught a disease, it's because you're lukcy.
If you achieved your goal, it's because you're are a failure.