Quick question regarding girl with a boyfriend and coworker.

[bruceartest24]

Hi All,

New member to the forum and have a question regarding this female I began talking to. She is from my graduate school and interning at my current employer. She is very attractive and smart and I asked her out to a broadway play I won tickets to. She said yes so that was good then after some quick searching online I find out she has a boyfriend. She never mentioned that she has a boyfriend or is taken. Should I pursue this girl? or what do you suggest.

Another coworker I work with is cute and has a nice personality we worked together in the fall - I moved to another client in the spring and we kept in touch via instant messaging from work. She brings up when will she see me again at our old client and that "we miss you over here"....not sure if she is into me or just super friendly. Any tips for what I should do? I will be back at the older client in August.

Thanks for all the help!

 

[Angelo]

This is why I'm against "searching online" about girls people are dating... Since she didn't mention her boyfriend then I would pursue. Many girls jump from boyfriends to boyfriends, many time if they are planning to leave the guy she has to first secure another guy to jump to.. Just make sure she isn't just using you for the date, you know, so she can go out on Friday nights and see a play. The best thing to find out if she's into you is to escalate after making her comfortable around you. Don't be Mr. Nice Guy, you have to embrace your sexuality.

About the other woman, well only one way to find out. Ask her out on a date.

 

[sozzz]

I have a question similar to Bruceartest.

My question is how do I avoid having enemies at work when I'm the new guy at work and my trainer is this girl whom all the guys like getting close to. Whenever she's training me, all the guys keep their eyes on her. Sometimes I feel like not talking and just focus on working, but then my trainer will think i'm stuck up or don't care about the job. But when I open my mouth, she laughs at everything I say. I even told her "You laugh a lot, you know that? She replied with a "smile". She could be just being friendly or w/e. I got a girl and I have no intention of getting with my trainer, and most of the guys don't know I got a girl, only some do. This girl got a boyfriend btw..

What should I do so that other chumps know that I have no intention of competing with them for the same girl?