Last weekend I was invited to a club event , now I know many of you are big on club settings but it's not my thing. I decided to go because 1) Close friend birthday 2) I told him to get a VIP booth.
Anyways , I pulled up to the venue and I was outside directing 2 girls I invited to the location. I was walking by and I saw my ex with a bunch of her female friends , I looked up smiled a said hi to her and continued walking. I was sitting on a block talking to the girls I invited and I heard her friends laughing at one of their remarks. On one occasion , her close friend actually pointed at me and they started laughing. A minute later , 2 of her friends came and walked by me to get a closer look and turned around back to their cycle and they continued laughing.
Skip by that , I was still waiting outside for a bit because I had the tickets for the 2 girls and the club bouncer said he won't let me back out so I had no option but to wait. My close friend called me and said he bumped into my ex and she wanted to know if I'm coming in yet because it's going to get awkward. The two girls come , I bring them to the booth , we are having drinks and dancing occasionally. My ex's friends keep walking by our booth for almost the whole night. Another one of my friends come by to me and tells me he saw my ex and she said hi to me. I simply said oh okay that's nice.
As the night went on , I decided to leave with the two girls , the one I'm talking to held a good convo by the parking lot while her friend was on the phone. The girls leave and my buddies come outside , and yet another one comes to me and says , your ex says hi. Then he tells me she called me crazy/ psycho when he asked why we broke up. I cut the convo short and told him to respect my space.
Now this coming from the same girl that cheated in a 4 year relationship - but throughout the whole situation , I have never bad talked her to anyone but herself. I simply tell people it just didn't work out.
What tripped me now to ask this question is , just over 3 hours ago .. one of her friends who have me on Facebook posted.
" Some guys are just crazy psychotic , don't be fooled by their good looks" And ofcourse the flock had a good laugh at that.
I was talking to a new girl , and for some reason she started to go dry on me , I asked her if everything was good and she told me , she has heard about me and she is not sure if to go further or not because what she heard and how I interact with her does not correlate. I did some searching and she goes to the same school as my ex's friends. I shot her a msg & told her , I appreciate her honesty but if she is willing to go by others opinion then it's better we don't get any closer. She texts me but I just ignore them now.
My ex has been in NC , blocked her number and text msgs but I have this urge to put her in her place but I'm sure that will not be the best option. I was thinking about leaking some nudes and sex tapes but that breaches my integrity rule.
How do I counter this ? Simply ignore and let it continue or break nc and put her in her place ?
Anyways , I pulled up to the venue and I was outside directing 2 girls I invited to the location. I was walking by and I saw my ex with a bunch of her female friends , I looked up smiled a said hi to her and continued walking. I was sitting on a block talking to the girls I invited and I heard her friends laughing at one of their remarks. On one occasion , her close friend actually pointed at me and they started laughing. A minute later , 2 of her friends came and walked by me to get a closer look and turned around back to their cycle and they continued laughing.
Skip by that , I was still waiting outside for a bit because I had the tickets for the 2 girls and the club bouncer said he won't let me back out so I had no option but to wait. My close friend called me and said he bumped into my ex and she wanted to know if I'm coming in yet because it's going to get awkward. The two girls come , I bring them to the booth , we are having drinks and dancing occasionally. My ex's friends keep walking by our booth for almost the whole night. Another one of my friends come by to me and tells me he saw my ex and she said hi to me. I simply said oh okay that's nice.
As the night went on , I decided to leave with the two girls , the one I'm talking to held a good convo by the parking lot while her friend was on the phone. The girls leave and my buddies come outside , and yet another one comes to me and says , your ex says hi. Then he tells me she called me crazy/ psycho when he asked why we broke up. I cut the convo short and told him to respect my space.
Now this coming from the same girl that cheated in a 4 year relationship - but throughout the whole situation , I have never bad talked her to anyone but herself. I simply tell people it just didn't work out.
What tripped me now to ask this question is , just over 3 hours ago .. one of her friends who have me on Facebook posted.
" Some guys are just crazy psychotic , don't be fooled by their good looks" And ofcourse the flock had a good laugh at that.
I was talking to a new girl , and for some reason she started to go dry on me , I asked her if everything was good and she told me , she has heard about me and she is not sure if to go further or not because what she heard and how I interact with her does not correlate. I did some searching and she goes to the same school as my ex's friends. I shot her a msg & told her , I appreciate her honesty but if she is willing to go by others opinion then it's better we don't get any closer. She texts me but I just ignore them now.
My ex has been in NC , blocked her number and text msgs but I have this urge to put her in her place but I'm sure that will not be the best option. I was thinking about leaking some nudes and sex tapes but that breaches my integrity rule.
How do I counter this ? Simply ignore and let it continue or break nc and put her in her place ?
