Supremo
Senior Don Juan
This is not a "how to do it", but more of a "how to get there" thread.
Let me just take a minute to explain something... we're in high school (if you aren't, then you're a creep for looking at these forums). The thought of fingering a girl is, well, a good one. With the exception of those of us who get laid all the time in high school, fingering a girl is a pretty big deal to most teenage guys.
What has happened to me in the past is, I'll be making out with a girl for a while and I'll start rubbing her over her pants with no problem... then as soon as I start to go down I feel her shiver a little then if I go any further, she'll grab my hand and say "Not now" or something along those lines.
If you've read ANYTHING in this forum you'll know that in order to get more physical, you need to turn a girl on. Because, as opposed to guys who are instantly horny, girls need to be warmed up.
I've found a way that, for me, has worked 100% of the time to burst past that resistance girls have when they have to decide whether or not to let you move on.
(Side note: This "method", if you can call it that, also works to have YOU receive more pleasure. Continue reading.)
So first, you HAVE to make out with the girl for at least 10-20 minutes before proceeding on. They need to get totally comfortable before progressing or else they'll feel weird and pull away.
When you feel it's been long enough. Roll so you are both on your sides making out and start holding hands with her (remember, girls are usually right handed, so I'd roll on MY right so your left hand is holding her right).
Keep making out and with the hand you're holding, slowly run it from your shoulder to outstretched by her ass.
Let go of her hand but wrap your arm around her, massaging her back, in a way that her hand is sort of "trapped" down by her/your legs.
After another couple minutes, lightly push your elbow into the back of her arm as so to push her hand towards you and then reinitiate the hand holding but this time guide it to your crotch.
I can't stress enough how much BETTER it is if you are wearing shorts (gym/basketball shorts) because it's just one last thing the girl has to process as she's thinking "I'm about to give this guy a hand job".
If you don't have on shorts with an elastic band, quickly unzip/unbutton and guide her hands OVER your underwear. (just another hint, chicks dig boxers/briefs... whitey tighties are an instant turn off.)
From there, she'll know what to do and will presumably start giving you a hand job and then after a while it'll be cake to start fingering her and escalating.
While I don't know the EXACT reasoning behind this, my thoughts are that she gets WAY more turned on since she's giving you a hand job... and also that because she's touching you, it's okay to touch her.
Now you are both doin the 2nd base on eachother... and you can go on from there.
Hope this has been help. If you need any clarification on anything just reply to this thread or PM me.
Good luck guys.
Let me just take a minute to explain something... we're in high school (if you aren't, then you're a creep for looking at these forums). The thought of fingering a girl is, well, a good one. With the exception of those of us who get laid all the time in high school, fingering a girl is a pretty big deal to most teenage guys.
What has happened to me in the past is, I'll be making out with a girl for a while and I'll start rubbing her over her pants with no problem... then as soon as I start to go down I feel her shiver a little then if I go any further, she'll grab my hand and say "Not now" or something along those lines.
If you've read ANYTHING in this forum you'll know that in order to get more physical, you need to turn a girl on. Because, as opposed to guys who are instantly horny, girls need to be warmed up.
I've found a way that, for me, has worked 100% of the time to burst past that resistance girls have when they have to decide whether or not to let you move on.
(Side note: This "method", if you can call it that, also works to have YOU receive more pleasure. Continue reading.)
So first, you HAVE to make out with the girl for at least 10-20 minutes before proceeding on. They need to get totally comfortable before progressing or else they'll feel weird and pull away.
When you feel it's been long enough. Roll so you are both on your sides making out and start holding hands with her (remember, girls are usually right handed, so I'd roll on MY right so your left hand is holding her right).
Keep making out and with the hand you're holding, slowly run it from your shoulder to outstretched by her ass.
Let go of her hand but wrap your arm around her, massaging her back, in a way that her hand is sort of "trapped" down by her/your legs.
After another couple minutes, lightly push your elbow into the back of her arm as so to push her hand towards you and then reinitiate the hand holding but this time guide it to your crotch.
I can't stress enough how much BETTER it is if you are wearing shorts (gym/basketball shorts) because it's just one last thing the girl has to process as she's thinking "I'm about to give this guy a hand job".
If you don't have on shorts with an elastic band, quickly unzip/unbutton and guide her hands OVER your underwear. (just another hint, chicks dig boxers/briefs... whitey tighties are an instant turn off.)
From there, she'll know what to do and will presumably start giving you a hand job and then after a while it'll be cake to start fingering her and escalating.
While I don't know the EXACT reasoning behind this, my thoughts are that she gets WAY more turned on since she's giving you a hand job... and also that because she's touching you, it's okay to touch her.
Now you are both doin the 2nd base on eachother... and you can go on from there.
Hope this has been help. If you need any clarification on anything just reply to this thread or PM me.
Good luck guys.
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