Questions: "What are you thinking" and "I like to have sex"

[otr4]

I was out on a first date with this girl last night (a hot 18 year-old) and she must have asked me "What are you thinking" about five times. What does this REALLY mean and how should I answer this question in the future? (Last night, I never really answered the question, just changed topics and then STARTED ASKING HER what she was thinking, in a really joking, teasing way).
Also, with this same girl, we got to talking about what we really like to do in life. Among a few other things, she mentioned that she really likes to have sex. She actually mentioned sex, and its importance to her, twice in her "list." Then she went on to say that if she went even 6 months without sex, she would go crazy. My QUESTION is this: do you think that this girl talking about sex around me like this is a pretty sure sign that she is in to me? My take on it is that if this girl had NO desire to have sex with me she would not be mentioning her love of sex around me like that, especially a guy she just met.
What do you guys think about both questions?

 

[Lo Hung Wang]

Almost all the girls I've met have asked me "what are you thinking?" I consider it a great compliment because she is interested in what I have to say; it's actually a turn on for me. I say take this as a sign of her attraction to you.

The sex comments varies from girl to girl, but in relation to the "what are you thinking" question, I'd say she's dropping a huge hint. She's trying to make you feel at-ease i'd say.

Go for it! She sounds like a cool chick.

 

[HuuBinh]

often time, girls want sex thats why they ask that. Next time, when she asks what your thinking. Say, "you know what im thinking (grab her hand and say lets go)" If she refuses, you can say you were playing.

 

[jakethasnake]

I love that line too. When a girl says "what're you thinking" it means that she is FEELIN you. Like, big time. That is, unless she has a scowl and a puzzled look on her face. Otherwise, you must be doing something right.

 

[otr4]

Anyone else have any ideas? I know the "what are you thinking" question comes up a lot, so what does it mean and what's the best thing to say?

 

[bp1974]

It means what the other guys have said it means. When a girl asks you "What are you thinking?", it's because you've gotten her curiosity button pressed. This only happens when a girl is very into you. She wants to know all about you, every thought you have, every thing you feel, etc. This is why teasing and being a challenge, and not giving her completely straight answers to all her questions, works so well. Keeps her from getting bored.

I like sex=I want to have sex with you.

 

[Reto]

I always give a sarcastic answer;


What are you thinking?

"where I can hide your body."


I agree with the above too...

 

[Dark Nimbus]

Originally posted by otr4
I was out on a first date with this girl last night (a hot 18 year-old) and she must have asked me "What are you thinking" about five times.

I only had to read this far to know what she meant. I had a girl ask me this consistently once and basically she was asking to hear if my answer would be something like "I'm thinking I want to have sex with you". A girl that asks this is looking for a direct clue that you want to fvck because she might be having a hard time reading you and your body language.

Her talking about sex and how much she needs it only confirms this. You must be blind if you can't see she wanted you right there, so the next time you see her and she asks you, just respond with "I think you're a very attractive girl and I'd like to get to know you more intimately".