Questions to ask

[Ice Cold]

Hey all

All of us know, that in order for the convo on a date to flow, we need to initiate it and carry it through.

For every good question we get a few minutes of good talk.

So let's compile a list of good quesions to ask.

3
2
1
go!

 

[shyguy]

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i ask some questions that should be searched out and this one of them.

only 3 questions is not going to do it. you should be finding out like a hundred haha.

come on questions like

family,
hobbies,
likes/dislikes,
sex
sports etc

 

[Mr. Fingers]

I usually initiate subjects myself and then get her to participate in the threads of convo I start up. It is much more interesting to have a discussion, rather than an interview. So go easy on the questions and when you do ask them, make them count!

Heres a few off the top of my head...

1. Are you rich? (usually followed by "oh thats a shame" and I fake it like I am leaving)

2. What is the most exciting/wildest/craziest thing you have ever done?

3. If you had all the money you ever needed and all you had was plenty of time to do what you love, what would you be doing?

4. I am fascinated by the events that shape people. What was the most powerful defining moment that turned your life around?

Ask questions that allow her to paint a picture of herself. Really listen to her and provide humor or insight when the opportunity arises.

PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!

 

[chlywly]

Originally posted by Mr. Fingers
I usually initiate subjects myself and then get her to participate in the threads of convo I start up. It is much more interesting to have a discussion, rather than an interview. So go easy on the questions and when you do ask them, make them count!

Heres a few off the top of my head...

1. Are you rich? (usually followed by "oh thats a shame" and I fake it like I am leaving)

2. What is the most exciting/wildest/craziest thing you have ever done?

3. If you had all the money you ever needed and all you had was plenty of time to do what you love, what would you be doing?

4. I am fascinated by the events that shape people. What was the most powerful defining moment that turned your life around?

Ask questions that allow her to paint a picture of herself. Really listen to her and provide humor or insight when the opportunity arises.

PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE!

These are the types of questions I tend to ask as well; have fun with it, try to get her to use her imagination.. Show her that you're interested in her development as an individual and her mind, not only her body, she will respect you more.

3. is gold

 

[Big Pappy]

I tend to ask questions that are more fluff than depth. I have a bad tendency to speak my mind on issues that should be better left unsaid until a later time. So, I try to keep it light.

If we're eating, I just like to make comments about who the first guy to eat an oyster was and how hungry he must have been to eat it.

If we're driving, I like to ask her if she likes to drive fast. If she doesn't I'll ask her if she minds if I speed a little bit. Then I drive really, really fast than slow down as soon as I see her fingertips get white.

If we're walking, I ask her why she keeps running into me, and then bump into her.

If her interest level is high, it's all pretty fun; otherwise it's a bit like torture. But, I do love a challenge.

 

[SamePendo]

If talking to a university or post-university girl, SamePendo asks:

-Hey, so do you go to highschool? (obviously, she doesnt)
-Oh really? (and now I turn to a interested tone) What do you do then?
(I pick something she said and ask her about it, example: )
-"Oh really? What do you do then?
-"Well, in the morning I go jogging, after that sometimes I go shopping, or maybe always stay at home"

Notice jogging and shopping, ask about those, or similar. If she is interested she always says something. In the conversation I tell her that my house is empty all morning (while saying this I mini-compliment her), and also I ask when is her house empty (again, mini-compliment) saying this in normal tone, with a slight touch of sexual implying.
*This was taken from a conversation I used just today, but I loved it!
*2- If she is at highschool, just lower the "opening line" to juniorHS, and on and on.