Welcome back Sosuave. I bring you another post I have decided to write up, with another lesson most of you will ignore. (I have no life lol, but I did get a date yesterday, so thats not TOO bad) Nonee-the-less, I want to write this for those who are willing to pay attention.
I'm only 17 years old, and I do not know everything to do about women. I'm not full of wisdom, mystery, charm, charisma, or anything of the sort. So please, if you think you will be listen to a youngling and learn from me, and this hurts your ego, rest assured, I cannot teach you ANYTHING.
However, what I can do is help you teach yourself. I do not believe getting women is a series of challenges. It is not CHESS. There are no definite boundaries, everything is ever changing, and nothing is set in stone. A girl that likes you one day, may never talk to you again the next. The girl who only saw you as a friend, may one day see you in a new light. Are we prepared for the ever changing events of women, AND LIFE, when our responses are only a cataloge of answers given to us by members of forums like this one?
If a new situation arrises, we are paralyzed. What do we do? what do we say? It's sad, and unnatural (literally). I propose a new solution, we raise as men. We raise from our mediocrity, our dependence and CHANGE ourselves as men. When we change ourselves as MEN, won't women follow?
We, the members on this forum, are not normal. Evolution dictates that we should, **** we have the RIGHT, to mate with females. Evolution functioned for millions and millions of years without the internet. So Why are we here?
Now, I cannot teach you anything, but I am able to help you learn for yourself. I may not be a man yet, but I sure know how to get there.
I have been reading an essay by Ralph Waldo Emerson. It talks about self reliance. I hope everyone go search this on google ( I have the book, so no link
) It is very very strong. Here is a few lines I feel storngly about.
"I am ashamed to think how easily we capitulate to badges and names, to large societies and dead institutions. Every decent and well spoken individual affects and sways me more than is right."
What beautiful words.
I'm unable to write with his proficiency and talent, nor am I able to transform the emotions I feel at this moment onto the page. However, I hope this quote will be enough.
Seduction is about lying to women, lying that we are good enough for them. I say, WHY NOT BECOME GOOD ENOUGH. Why not not become something worthy, something amazing. You will not need to sell yourself, buyers will come to you. I do not want a girl with low self esteem...
I will present a series of questions. I want everything to answer these questions. Then read them to yourself. And see how your own mindset works, and HOW you can improve yourself to be a better MAN. This way, not only will you attract females, you will live a more successful, fulfilled, memorable, worthy life.
1. Are you special? If so, WHY?
2. Why would a girl like you more than another guy? Why would a girl like you if you with the another guy is superior to you in every way?
3. What is your life about? What are your goals, what is your purpose?
4. Why do you have low self esteem?
(We all have low self esteem, or else we wouldn't be here, do not lie to me...)
5. Do you have any rules or ideas that govern your behaviours and your life?
Please, do not fear to answer honestly because you feel that your on line friends will judge you. Thats just pathetic.
Me.
1. Are you special? If so, WHY?
I cannot say I'm special. I believe each individual is special in their own way. Paradoxically, we are all the same person underneath our egos and personalities. I do not think I'm special.
2. Why would a girl like you more than another guy? Why would a girl like you if you with the another guy is superior to you in every way?
I have no idea why a girl would like me more than another guy who is better in every way. I'm flattered however.
3. What is your life about? What are your goals, what is your purpose?
I want to be a doctor, and then help other people who are less fortunate. I'm a hedonist, helping people gives me pleasure. Pleasure better then making money and buying cars >.> But I do want a nice car. So, helping people, and helping my parents. Living a happy life.
4. Why do you have low self esteem?
My low self esteem comes from the fact I do not think I'm good looking. However, every girl who I have liked did not think I'm bad looking at all. So I'm not sure about why I do not think I'm good looking. I used to think Im not looking enough for a girl, but it turns out I'm not good looking enough for me. I will try to work out and change my style so I will learn to love myself. Other then that, I'm pretty good.
5. Do you have any rules or ideas that govern your behaviours and your life?
Honour
Integrity
Endurance
Knowledge
benevolence
Strength
Committment
Self-awareness
I try to live by these 8.
Come on guys, answer this!
I'm only 17 years old, and I do not know everything to do about women. I'm not full of wisdom, mystery, charm, charisma, or anything of the sort. So please, if you think you will be listen to a youngling and learn from me, and this hurts your ego, rest assured, I cannot teach you ANYTHING.
However, what I can do is help you teach yourself. I do not believe getting women is a series of challenges. It is not CHESS. There are no definite boundaries, everything is ever changing, and nothing is set in stone. A girl that likes you one day, may never talk to you again the next. The girl who only saw you as a friend, may one day see you in a new light. Are we prepared for the ever changing events of women, AND LIFE, when our responses are only a cataloge of answers given to us by members of forums like this one?
If a new situation arrises, we are paralyzed. What do we do? what do we say? It's sad, and unnatural (literally). I propose a new solution, we raise as men. We raise from our mediocrity, our dependence and CHANGE ourselves as men. When we change ourselves as MEN, won't women follow?
We, the members on this forum, are not normal. Evolution dictates that we should, **** we have the RIGHT, to mate with females. Evolution functioned for millions and millions of years without the internet. So Why are we here?
Now, I cannot teach you anything, but I am able to help you learn for yourself. I may not be a man yet, but I sure know how to get there.
I have been reading an essay by Ralph Waldo Emerson. It talks about self reliance. I hope everyone go search this on google ( I have the book, so no link
) It is very very strong. Here is a few lines I feel storngly about."I am ashamed to think how easily we capitulate to badges and names, to large societies and dead institutions. Every decent and well spoken individual affects and sways me more than is right."
What beautiful words.
I'm unable to write with his proficiency and talent, nor am I able to transform the emotions I feel at this moment onto the page. However, I hope this quote will be enough.
Seduction is about lying to women, lying that we are good enough for them. I say, WHY NOT BECOME GOOD ENOUGH. Why not not become something worthy, something amazing. You will not need to sell yourself, buyers will come to you. I do not want a girl with low self esteem...
I will present a series of questions. I want everything to answer these questions. Then read them to yourself. And see how your own mindset works, and HOW you can improve yourself to be a better MAN. This way, not only will you attract females, you will live a more successful, fulfilled, memorable, worthy life.
1. Are you special? If so, WHY?
2. Why would a girl like you more than another guy? Why would a girl like you if you with the another guy is superior to you in every way?
3. What is your life about? What are your goals, what is your purpose?
4. Why do you have low self esteem?
(We all have low self esteem, or else we wouldn't be here, do not lie to me...)
5. Do you have any rules or ideas that govern your behaviours and your life?
Please, do not fear to answer honestly because you feel that your on line friends will judge you. Thats just pathetic.
Me.
1. Are you special? If so, WHY?
I cannot say I'm special. I believe each individual is special in their own way. Paradoxically, we are all the same person underneath our egos and personalities. I do not think I'm special.
2. Why would a girl like you more than another guy? Why would a girl like you if you with the another guy is superior to you in every way?
I have no idea why a girl would like me more than another guy who is better in every way. I'm flattered however.
3. What is your life about? What are your goals, what is your purpose?
I want to be a doctor, and then help other people who are less fortunate. I'm a hedonist, helping people gives me pleasure. Pleasure better then making money and buying cars >.> But I do want a nice car. So, helping people, and helping my parents. Living a happy life.
4. Why do you have low self esteem?
My low self esteem comes from the fact I do not think I'm good looking. However, every girl who I have liked did not think I'm bad looking at all. So I'm not sure about why I do not think I'm good looking. I used to think Im not looking enough for a girl, but it turns out I'm not good looking enough for me. I will try to work out and change my style so I will learn to love myself. Other then that, I'm pretty good.
5. Do you have any rules or ideas that govern your behaviours and your life?
Honour
Integrity
Endurance
Knowledge
benevolence
Strength
Committment
Self-awareness
I try to live by these 8.
Come on guys, answer this!
