Some situations you will be alpha, whilst others you can be the omega (lowest in group)
you can become more alpha, but it will take time, and if you have an already established social group hierarchy, the guys that are more alpha than you may not "like" your new alphaness...and may AMOG you... to put you “back in your place”
Try not to be confrontational with it = unnecessary friction
If you can get them on good terms they will offer less resistance to the new more assertive you, if you have something of value they see in you that benefits them as well (e.g. game) it will help you a lot
For example use your new DJ lady skills and involve them in picking up chicks (or do things like Open it for them) when at a bar, they associate you with getting chicks = very high value = acceptance of your alpha position.
There are other things besides Game you could use as a Demonstration Of High Value