Questions and observations on female Interest Levels

The Grue

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I'd like to present some of my activity of the last few days and get some advice if possible on the topic of interest levels.
I subscribe to plate theory and have been dating multiple women.
Plate 1(let's call her Sue) is a 19 year old(almost) with whom things have gone quite quickly. I met her during the year at a friend's house and while I found her attractive, she was quite young(had just turned 18).
Sue and I talked on FB and MSN and she mentioned that we should go see a movie(actually, I had first brought it up but she seized the opportunity).
After the movie, we grabbed a bite to eat and then I took her to a romantic spot where we kissed. Then, it was back to my place where we made love the whole night. The same happened the following night.
Sex with Sue is delightful. She is a bit chubby(just a bit) but curvy and extremely sexy. I really like her youthful face and body and she smells lovely. I have always liked younger women and I must admit that she gets me hard as a rock.
She left a few days ago to be with her parents for a few weeks, and we will see how things go. I don't plan on pursuing her for a relationship(due to the age difference and the fact that she lives with her folks) but I will leave options open. She just broke up with her BF, but it had been on her mind all year long. I may have been the catalyst but he was dead man walking...
Plate #2 is a lovely 32 year old(Jane) who I have known since October as we frequent a certain bar/bistro. I asked Jane out to dinner a few days ago and she replied that she couldn't this week. However, last night I saw her at bistro and she mentioned that her girlfriends had just invited her to dinner on Friday. I (jokingly) poked fun at the fact that she had told me that she couldn't go to dinner with me this week, but she didn't give an acceptable reply, just sort of smiled and said they were her close friends.

In contrasting the IL of both women, it is clear Sue is really into me and whatever relationship we do have, I will have fun.
Jane on the other hand, has shown a low IL and I am not sure it is even worth asking her out again. To my mind, an interested women would jump at the chance to go for dinner! Furthermore, she disrespected me by telling me that she made dinner arrangement at the last minute with her friends for this Friday!

My question is this:
Keeping in mind that I now want to game only women who show interest in me, should I even ask Jane out again? My feeling is that she may come, but I just don't see her exhibiting the kind of interest that would lead to fun and sex...

What are your thoughts?
 

wait_out

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This kind of confusion is usually good instinct trying to overrule faulty thinking.

If you're putting yourself through the "does she like me" acrobatics, are you enjoying it? Why put up with feeling disrespected, if you don't have other options? It's that scarcity thing again.

If a girl is starting to make you doubt yourself -- its time to drop her, Grue. For real
 

Jeffst1980

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This one's a no-brainer.

I find that younger girls often display high interest more readily--the trade-off is that it can often disappear overnight.

Girls with lukewarm interest levels are far more trouble than they are worth, and rewarding low interest by offering dates, etc. really damages your frame.

Remember: If one girl has high interest in you, many others are capable of the same. Go find 'em.
 
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