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For those of you who actually had sex with girls.
1. is the girls vagina REALLY sensitive, like if you stick ur wood in just 1 centimeter, will they feel it and start to moan a little bit? Or u have to hit their G-spot? Asking because i dont wanna stay there ontop of her wasting my breath while she is just staring at me.

2.how exactly do you estimate where their g-spot is?
3.What you guys think, have u had better sex with an experienced girl, or a virgin?
4. How do you make a girl ***? Like are you supposed to go in VERY hard and fast or what? and what position did they like best?
5. Where can i learn different kinds of sex positions.

Lasty, i wanted to thank you all for helping me change my life. I currently just got a very hott and horny girlfriend that is trying to persuade me to have sex, but i havent read a lot about sex!
 

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Age: 16? You lucky bastard :)

1. Depends on the female. Some women like just little penetration, while others want your penis to bump their cervix. Usually inserting 1 cm = nothing, but if you rub her ****oris, she'll have some fun. G-spot isn't necessary for orgasm, but some women prefer some g-spot stimulation.

2. Read some websites, like askmen.com

3. Men like women who guide them into giving their partner an orgasm. Hey, who doesn't know missionary?

4. Orgasm = pleasure. Ejaculation = expulsion of fluids. A female ejaculation is based not on how you hard you thrust or what position you thrust, but rather is based on the female herself - her genetic make. Ejaculation does not equal orgasm, and orgasm doesn't equal ejaculation. In males, it usually happens at the same time. But in females, orgasm is all they need!

5. Websites!
 

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1. She's young - she'll feel almost everything. That being said, you should probably keep going after 1cm.:)

2. Google is a wonderful thing.

3. For a one-time thing, definitely an experienced girl. She knows at least generally what the deal is. That being said, some experienced girls still suck. With a virgin, if you stick with her enough to ride out the learning curve, she might surprise you.

4. Girls don't all like the same thing. You will probably have your best luck with oral on her though if you're trying to blow her mind.

5. Google.


Remember, it's ok to ask her what she likes. She won't hate you for it - in fact, she'll probably appreciate it.
 

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Hmm

Well i lost my virginity when i was 15, wich was last year. And to let you know it was awsome. try to have sex with a virgin that way you both will be beginners, then dont forget to use condoms. And google your quetsions ( www.google.com ) YOu will find EVERYTHING THERE!!
 
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15 for me as well. I actually hurt her at first cuz i bottomed out lol! Anyways yeah just figure out what she likes, and alot of girls don't know even if they are experianced. Just roll with it, a hard part for many is getting over the nervousness and getting it up. My personal advice: Do it somewhere that isn't freezing cold (Mini me will thank you) and somewhere with light, it's hard to get the stimulation if you can't see the promise land lol
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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im 16 my self

-one thing i learned, dont start off fast, work your way into it, and i suggest foreplay of course first, then work with your hands (make her wet) then just whisper solftly in here ear (wanna ****?)
-another tip is to talk dirty i.e "you like that, etc" but dont go over board unless she likes that type of stuff
-i agree all women are differnt, just experiment and talk with her
 

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Snap87 said:
For those of you who actually had sex with girls.
1. is the girls vagina REALLY sensitive, like if you stick ur wood in just 1 centimeter, will they feel it and start to moan a little bit? Or u have to hit their G-spot? Asking because i dont wanna stay there ontop of her wasting my breath while she is just staring at me.

2.how exactly do you estimate where their g-spot is?
3.What you guys think, have u had better sex with an experienced girl, or a virgin?
4. How do you make a girl ***? Like are you supposed to go in VERY hard and fast or what? and what position did they like best?
5. Where can i learn different kinds of sex positions.

Lasty, i wanted to thank you all for helping me change my life. I currently just got a very hott and horny girlfriend that is trying to persuade me to have sex, but i havent read a lot about sex!
It's more fun to have sex with experienced women for the sole reason that they know what they are doing, however having sex with a virgin is an experience on its own. It's unbelievably tight; it feels great!

Their G-Spot isn't too far in the vagina. If you curl your finger gesturing a "come here" motion while it's in the vagina, you will feel it--a small bump, or change of texture. She will feel it when your penis slides against her vaginal walls. That's why some sexual positions emphasize contact with that area. Those are one of the best--for the girl, especially.

Their are some damn good condoms that are ultra-thin so you can enhance your pleasure, while ensuring safety--with added features such as spermicide, etc.

Making a girl c.u.m is simple; giving a girl an orgasm is the tricky part. The basic thing for a guy to make a girl c.um is to last longer than the girl, or enhance the experience for the girl to really excite her, thereby reducing the time needed to make her c.um. In the beginning vary your pace.

FIRST start slow since she is a virgin. Let her ***** adjust to this foreign, but friendly object. Slowly insert it. If it gets stuck after an inch, just use that inch to **** her, and upon re-entering go a little deeper.

It's gradual, but make sure she's wet and horny before you begin!

Towards her climax--you'll know when it is--DO NOT change your motion. Keep the same tempo, one slight change may kill the potential orgasm. If you get her to orgasm, or close to a orgasm, she will love you.

And trust your instincts. It's hard to go wrong when have sex.

While ****ing her brains out, kiss her, massage her, caress her. She will love it all. The sexual experience enhances everything else you do. Play with her breasts, etc.

The combinations, and possibilities are endless.

Have fun!
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I remember my first time: While I was ****ing this girl, I was telling myself, rather I was YELLING to myself, I AM A MAN!!!!! Ha-ha, it was rather amusing thinking back on it....
 
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shydude said:
Well i lost my virginity when i was 15,
True Wolf said:
15 for me as well
I'm 18 and still a virgin. Should I lie about it, or when I find a chic who wants to do it should I be truthful? maybe I need to start a topic on that
 

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Truth is fine, most chicks think it's hot anyways.
 

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girls supposidly think its "cute" but i have no idea why....
 

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I was 18 when I first had sex and the girl I was with didn't seem to mind. When we were finished she asked me if she was good for my first time.
 

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I'll admit that I didn't tell the first girl I was with that I was a virgin. Lucky for me, she didn't notice! I had read that book Mars and Venus in the Bedroom at the library, and it actually helped. :)

One piece of advice from that book has stuck with me for more than a decade: whenever you kiss and carress a girl in bed and you think it's enough, do the same thing over again. So if you are e.g. licking her neck, a girl will want that to go on at least twice as long as the guy does.

Hard work, I know, but that's the cross we have to bear!

4. How do you make a girl ***? Like are you supposed to go in VERY hard and fast or what? and what position did they like best?

Go in slowly, until you have learned when to go in fast. In general, a girl won't be wet enough for you to just move your dry tool in fast, you have to do it back and forth, back and forth, going a little bit farther in every thrust, until you are all the way in.

Then, for the love of all that's hot, don't move in and out as fast as you can thinking you must be the Energizer Bunny to prove you're a man. Take it slow for a while, then move a little faster, then slow, and so on. Especially when you're new at it.


As for different positions: a good standard variation is to start off with the missionary, then move on to her riding you, then take her from behind. Because 1) the missionary makes it easier to communicate as you're adjusting to each other, 2) she'll enjoy deciding the pace for a while when she is riding, and 3) from behind sure is fun.

When she is riding, you may want to put two fingers (palm down) under her, so she can grind her ****oris against them. If she doesn't easily get very wet, and most girls don't, you might want to put some lubricant on the tip of your fingers; she'll like that.

Actually it's a good idea to start off with a lubricant in the missionary, if you are not sure of how wet she is going to be. And if she's nervous, she'll be even drier. Lubricants are a great invention.


Just a few thoughts on the subject.
 

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^A lot of its just common sense. I haven't had sex but I figure my first time what I will do is make sure to take the time to focus on her FIRST(preferably with oral), and then get to me. That way I'll be able to enjoy myself but I'll make sure she does too first.
 
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