Question on age difference

[rocky_mtn]

After reading the DJ bible and getting out and meeting people, I've realized that I should have been doing this all along, but the AFC shell is hard to break down, this site has set me straight on what to do and what not to do.

So now I'm meeting a lot hot women quite a few happen to be 21, 22 year olds, I'm wondering how the experience and mature DJs handle the young hot women and age differences.

Last weekend, I tore up the dance floor with a 22 y/o HB8.5 and the next day kinda felt like a dirty old man. She seemed to really like dancing, I was like John Travolta and some punk on mtv rolled into one, grinding her, grabbing her ass, even a breast but overall just having a fun time and not taking anything too serious. She seemed really into it, running her hands through my hair and following my lead. We closed the club and I dropped her off at the end of the night and that was it, she a buddies neighbor, so I asked him if he heard any word and if I looked like drunk jackass. No, she was just as drunk and had a great time. :woo:

I'm 35, have lost those extra pounds and got some new clothes. So I'm looking good, or at least that what people have been telling me. I also look much younger than I am, so it works, just some thing that has been on my mind as I'm going forward and meeting more people and wondering how other mature dj handle this.

My last LTR made a big deal about my age, she was 7 years younger, but always had to make comments and call me old man and stuff. She was poison to soul and glad that she gone.

Thanks in advance for sharing your advice and experiences on this. Don't get me wrong, I'm having a great time with young hotties and since getting my game on am looking forward to bring them home to seal the deal.

 

[amoka]

Age difference should not really be your concern at a moment. As long as the woman is mature enough to stand with your level and is able to accomodate you, you should not worry too much about the age difference. First of all, I assume you have great years of fun time lost... this is the time to catch-up with it. It is to your advantage when people say you look younger than your age... use that as an advantage to bang all the hot chicks on the block.

 

[STR8UP]

DUUUUUUUUDE.........

What's the problem? Why are you feeling guilty for ACTING on the kind of stuff that most guys your age only dream about?

When you are dealing with younger women:

#1- Always, always, ALWAYS flip the script. It isn't that YOU are old, it's that she is YOUNG. If you set the tone for the relationship as you being too old for her, you lose. You should be making her provee that she is mature enough to be with a man like you.

#2 Don't listen to what other people say. Older men will be jealous of you, older women will be pissy cause you aren't looking at them, and younger men and women will judge you based upon nothing more than what they hear the jealous haters saying.

You are letting society influence how you should live your life. Man-up! Do it because it works for YOU.

I am your age (34). When I introduced my last g/f to my family, my sister asked her how old she was. Sis's jaw hit the floor when she told them she was only 21. Who cares? Not me, that's for sure. They got to know her and there was no problem whatsoever after that.

Would I have imagined ten years ago that today I would be fukking a 20 yr old? Hell no, but I spent last weekend in a hotel room with one. The girl doesn't even have a job and when I showed up she handed me a new shirt and boxers as a gift. Went to the beach with her and even happened to run into her MOM. Nice lady. Had a great time the whole weekend. I'm sure I will do it again soon.

Enjoy yourself. You only live once. Anyone who gives you sh!t over hanging out with younger women isn't likely worth being friends with anyway.

 

[KontrollerX]

My view is who gives a fvck as long as she's legal?

Good on ya man.

A LTR might not work with em considering the age difference but hey at least you can get your freak on and have some fun for a while if nothing else.

 

[rocky_mtn]

Thanks for the advice. Believe me its not a problem, just need some perspective and positive reassurance. I'm way too introspective and self-conscious. But that is going away as I'm working on the DJ program. My last LTR just messed with my head a little and I was depressed for a little while after the break up. I know, AFC talk.

No one has really given me any sh!t, just good natured ribbing, in fact I'd be the hero if I bagged her, but she wasn't into more than dirty dancing (yet), I just played it cool and dropped her off. Since she is my friends neighbor, I'll be seeing her again, but I'm not fixated on her, theres plenty more out there.

No LTRs right now anyways, just meeting and getting numbers. Hopefully bringing some home for the night soon.

Once I started reading the DJ bible its like an awakening, I've known and used bits and pieces through out my life and have been just all right with women, but never put it all together to fully work the potential. I was on my game out at the bar last night, and one friend said whatever you have been reading, keep it up.

 

[zergkiller]

Age, young women and so on...

I think I'm the oldest man on this website. I'm 62. I've been investigating the idea of getting married. For me, just getting laid isn't of any interest at all. The women I've been looking at are between the ages of 28 and 32.

From reading this website, my concern about age differences is waining. Just as an example, if I had (which I don't) an insurance policy for $1M, would age make any difference? Not!

Looky here:

A seventy five year old man walked into a party with a beautiful twenty-one year old girl on his arm. He had some good friends there, and it did take about an hour, but finally, one of his friends was able to get him alone off to the side and asked “Wow, how did you get a girl like that to go with you on a date?”.

“Oh, the man replied, she’s not my date, she’s my wife.”

“Your wife??” exclaimed the friend. “How in the world did you get her to marry you?”

“Well,” said the man, “I lied about my age.”

The friend replied “You mean you told her you were fifty?”

“No. I told her I was ninety,” replied the senior.



Good lord, it's great to be a man!!!!!!! Keep on truckin'.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Age is an attitude. Treat it as anything more than that and you're making things more difficult than they need to be.

 

[Freddy1]

I am your age (34). When I introduced my last g/f to my family, my sister asked her how old she was. Sis's jaw hit the floor when she told them she was only 21. Who cares? Not me, that's for sure. They got to know her and there was no problem whatsoever after that.

I gotta to shake your hand dude!

Enjoy yourself. You only live once. Anyone who gives you sh!t over hanging out with younger women isn't likely worth being friends with anyway.

Right on! I;m not getting any younger either (36).
"You only live once". Everyone here has to keep that in the back of thier mind.
Ive been living with pretty women phobia for most of my life. Its time to live my life too. I missed out some of the best times of my youth.

 

[Freddy1]

When I was 38, I had a 19 year old g/f. She would say, "sometimes I think of you as my father", and then go on to commit incest in her mind. I just had a semi-blind date with a woman who was 28 (I'm 40), and it felt like I was younger than her.

I know that it is hard for us - who realize a woman is best at 18, followed by a steady decline (which concaves downward after age 30) - to understand that such young women look upon older men as better. My first experience with this phenomenon was when I was 28 and my 27 year old g/f said that Sean Connery was a very sexy man (he was like 61 at the time - WTF?) Well, gentlemen, if you will be in as good a shape as he was at that time, you will have still decently attractive, early 30's women eating out of the palm of your hand. And by then, you will be a DJ master.

I'm very happy and inspire by your story.
(I'll shake your hands too!)

 

[Freddy1]

I think I'm the oldest man on this website. I'm 62. I've been investigating the idea of getting married. For me, just getting laid isn't of any interest at all. The women I've been looking at are between the ages of 28 and 32.

From reading this website, my concern about age differences is waining. Just as an example, if I had (which I don't) an insurance policy for $1M, would age make any difference? Not!

Looky here:

A seventy five year old man walked into a party with a beautiful twenty-one year old girl on his arm. He had some good friends there, and it did take about an hour, but finally, one of his friends was able to get him alone off to the side and asked “Wow, how did you get a girl like that to go with you on a date?”.

“Oh, the man replied, she’s not my date, she’s my wife.”

“Your wife??” exclaimed the friend. “How in the world did you get her to marry you?”

“Well,” said the man, “I lied about my age.”

The friend replied “You mean you told her you were fifty?”

“No. I told her I was ninety,” replied the senior.



Good lord, it's great to be a man!!!!!!! Keep on truckin'.

My friend you are absolutely right its great to be a man. And keep trukin!

 

[rocky_mtn]

:cheer:

So young HB8.5 is 24 years old and I ran into her at friend's pool party at his condo.

She's going to AnotherFriends Going Away party with me this week. The interest level is still mild at best, but I just need some arm candy for now.
We chatted in the corner for awhile a the party and I could be in, who knows I'll let the rest fall into place.




:cheer:

 

[Metro3pilot]

Age difference becomes noticible, life experience, music, and tv.



Pros : high energy sex, ego boost, short term plate spin, they don't hate
men and sex yet, most are happy to tell you about lesbian
experiences they have had


Cons : constant games, undecided, Long term prognosis not
good

 

[wayword]

I'm in the same boat - in my early 30s but far younger-looking. I'd also like tips on how to handle the "age shock" you might get when a younger girl finds out how old you actually are??

 

[Skel]

IM 28 and I tell everyone im 23. I dont care about age unless they are illegal. I just try to ****

 

[Vulpine]

Age is not a factor when it comes to a man being older.

Example:

I found out last weekend that a friend of the family was 40. His wife is a little hottie: quiet, respectful, does things for the guy, positive, smart...

Anyway, we were sitting around chatting and having a couple beers and I asked how old the guy was. She told me, then I asked how old she was...

22!

I couldn't contain my glee:

V: "That's AWESOME!"
22: "Why? What?" *all ready to be defensive*
V: "Age sooooo doesn't matter. You guys are happy proof. I would've guessed you much older, and him much younger."
22: "Why, how old are you?
V: "Care to guess?"
22: "23?"
V: "Thank you; another premium example. I'm 30."
22: "nuh-uh."
V: "It's true... got any hottie friends? *wink*"
22. "haha... um.. yeah, actually..."


Furthermore,

I number closed a 22 year old last night.

Don't fuxing worry about age for one second more.:woo:

 

[Metro3pilot]

Forget about the age, because if you think it's odd, she will pick up on that

feeling and she will get odd with it.

The life experience thing will get in the way, no matter what you

think, you are not now, nor will you ever be on the same page as the far

younger woman.

 

[grinder]

The biggest barrier to overcome is not age, its the difference in the way women think from us.