Question about vibrators...

[Walking Anomaly]

Hey all, quick story and question...

Girlfriend and I going out for about 4 months...

Turns out there was a nasty story when she was young, and almost got molested...now has a sort of mental block against sex and anything sex related...

She's still a virgin, so I'm thinking to try and get her over her block, and for lack of a better word, "jumpstart" her sex drive, getting her a vibrator to ease into it.

I know for a fact she masturbates so it's not like its foreign to her.

What do you guys think??
I'm Looking for outside opinions, because i got this idea from a girl, and im not too into getting advice for girls, from girls, so i figured i'd run it by you guys. Personally i think something like this is something one of her girlfriends should do...not me.

It's getting a bit ridiculous IMO, so if this idea is decided against by me, i'm going to tell her straight up and call her on her bull, to stop being selfish and pleasure me more often...ya know what im saying??

Let me know what you think...
Much appreciated

 

[spider_007]

Originally posted by Walking Anomaly
...now has a sort of mental block against sex and anything sex related...........................I know for a fact she masturbates so it's not like its foreign to her.)

contradiction in it self.



she don't want it bad enough FROM YOU.



and what would bunch of guys know about buying a vibrator

take your "advice giving friend" along if you do go buy one (you could be in for some fun time)

 

[reyalp]

Orchid G, it makes women squirt
http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/new/DG215800

 

[Tomatoes]

Play the "Its something wrong with me isnt it" card.

Say that she wont let you have sex with her and that must be because she doesnt trust you.

Wouldnt bother getting her a dildo. She cant stay a virgin for the rest of her life.

You have needs mate. If shes not willing to forfil them threat of going elsewhere like a true DJ.

(I would never sit in a LTR where im not getting regluar sex)

 

[Walking Anomaly]

hmm, interesting

Spider, i could see what you're saying...but shes afraid of ****s (literally), not getting pleasured

if it keeps up though, i am going to jus drop her. I mean, i myself think its a little ridiculous...but what happened to her could also have been a traumatizing event.

It can probably really f**k a person up, but i couldnt tell you for sure because nothing like that has ever happened to me.

thanks guys

 

[Levex]

you are a lot more patient than me.
if i go out with someone for 2 weeks and she stills doesnt put out, i'll be already thinking about moving on to someone else. dont know how you do it.

 

[MsThang]

Originally posted by Tomatoes
Say that she wont let you have sex with her and that must be because she doesnt trust you.

Should she trust you? Sounds to me like you're being a bit of an @ss about it.

My opinion is that either

A: she doesn't want to have sex with you, in which case don't pressure her because contrary to what you might think it doesn't help your case, or

B: She's just saying she had a traumatic childhood because she's messed up and/or doesn't want to deal with you (in which case stay away), or

C: She really was molested, in which case it's going to take a lot of trust, not pressure, if you want to get anywhere.

Virginity is a difficult thing to give up, with or without baggage. The way you sound, I don't think you deserve to be the first person she forms her sexual opinion on. Leave her alone.

 

[Walking Anomaly]

Thang, thanks

I like what you said about the virginity thing being a big thing to give up, and trust me, i know...im no dumbass

And I'm not even talking about that yet, not sex, i mean ANYTHING. I say to kiss somewhere other than my face and she freezes up and sits there.

Thank you for your opinion, and im going to deal with this how i see fit... if she leaves me, so be it.

but im a straight shooter, and when i read your post i giggled.

What is it about the way i sound that makes you think i dont deserve it? It because i have a wang between my legs?

If i keep letting it slide she'll keep putting it off and putting it off, and ill be the chump standing there holding my wang.

And yes she should trust me

Im going out...bowling time!

 

[( . )( . )]

Why would you write "girlfriend" in your post?

Girlfriend implies relationship and there is zero relationship between you and her, make no mistakes untapped chicks are no closer to you than a stranger walking down the street, understand?

As for hanging around a b!tch for 4 MONTHS without banging her?


Vibrator, this is your logical course of action?.... fvck me drunk what a joke.

 

[DJ_in_making]

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Why would you write "girlfriend" in your post?

Girlfriend implies relationship and there is zero relationship between you and her, make no mistakes untapped chicks are no closer to you than a stranger walking down the street, understand?

As for hanging around a b!tch for 4 MONTHS without banging her?


Vibrator, this is your logical course of action?.... fvck me drunk what a joke.

lmfao! I don't think I read a post by you yet that hasn't made me crack up.

 

[Docs]

You could always get ahold of a stable gun and stable your chest out so it reads.

"LOSER"

Show that to her.