question about my room mate...

[Jaun_Don]

I can't figure out for the life of me why she wants to stay living in my place, when we hardly even talk to each other (she is ****ing my other room mate, well she was)...we have had numerous arguments and we have very different and strong personalities...yes I did have feelings for her once and was caught up on "one itis" but I got over it and her behaviour and mind games have completely turned me off her...anyways we have a new girl moving in next week so I will be living with 2 females...should be interesting.

So yeah I just want to know why she wants to stay?

 

[Jaun_Don]

here is the story if you can be bothered reading it, after you read this tell me please....why the **** would she want to continue to live with me?

I actually live with an AW, let's call her K and I hardly say anything to her these days, I notice that she can't look me in the eye since she hooked up with my room mate , lets call him S...and I still find it very puzzling that she wants to stay on after he leaves next weekend.

I have no idea what goes on in this crazy girls head but I and many others I have discussed this with all agree on one thing, she hooked up with my room mate to get at me and too hurt me for whatever reason I don't know.

I told her I liked her months ago and she told me she didn't feel the same way and has told me that there is really nothing that she doesn't like me about it's just that the physical isn't there...

which is fine to me as she is very high maintenance and quite a piece of work...but I am just not caring anymore I don't see the point, she has completely turned me off her and I actually dislike her a lot and wanted her to move out but she said she will eventually but that it is hard to find a place (lies) and that she really enjoys living where she lives now...so here is the build up to her hooking up with my room mate (ex best friend of 9 years).
who actually told me that he saw her like a sister and that she was like a sister to him.(ewwwwww)

I invite a young girl to a show k meets this girl and gives me an interesting look, goes all quiet while we are waiting in a line then once inside takes off for the night with S.

We all meet up later and all K does is try and belittle me in front of this girl

The next morning she talks about this girl and refers to her as "your
girl" and says **** about her, like about how she talked a lot and
there was never a dull moment.

The next weekend when a musician friend stayed over this same girl was going to come around and join us for drinks and I went outside too see if she was on her way, when I walk back inside K gives me a very interesting sideways look and stoic expression and nothing was said.

As I had drunk too much I got the spins and had to go to bed, while I was in bed this girl rang my place and K lies to her and told her that I had already gone to town for an emergency???


I wake up later and hear K in the lounge talking **** about this girl and syaing how young she is and why does she put up with my ****

I later send K a txt and she txts me and tells me that the girl was at the show waiting for me...she never went to the show.

A few weeks ago I had a date and K
calls home next morning about someone coming over too look at
the room and straight away asks me how the date was and who was it
with. and I said why do you need to know? and she said "I'm just making polite conversation"

K and I talk later in the lounge and k refers to these girls
as 'interesting people' and that she wishes she had 'options' like I
did.

K and S hook up next weekend.

Coincidence?...or just a bitter, jealous game playing *****?

sorry this was long and yes I know I got played like a fiddle but I'm really building up a resilience to all this now.

 

[mrRuckus]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don

So yeah I just want to know why she wants to stay?

Moving sucks.

 

[Evangenlion]

she ain't done f-ucking with u yet

 

[NewMan]

You need to find another place to live - and stop subjecting yourself to this bullSh#t.

Why are YOU putting up with it?

You will never get past it until you move out and on to better things.

 

[Lost In Translation]

PREPARE FOR A ROYAL A$$ KICKING

let me get this straight

you were advised that having women as flat mates was a bad idea you caught that WH0RE K f*cking your best friend doggy style in the shower after they used YOUR TOOTH BRUSH as a SEX TOY

and you are still talking to this wh0re ?

you were supposed to kick her out

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80656

^^^ maybe you need your memory refreshed on what this evil b*tch has been doing to you

you wanna know what pisses me off the most about this thread

THIS

Jaun_Don
but I and many others I have discussed this with all agree on one thing, she hooked up with my room mate to get at me and too hurt me for whatever reason I don't know.

WHAT A LOAD OF $HIT !!!

she hooked up with your room mate for 2 reasons

NEITHER OF THEM IS BECAUSE SHE LIKES YOU

1. she is a wh0re and wh0res love c*ck.
2. your friend flopped his d*ck out and said b*tch suck it.

if she really liked you SHE WOULD BE F*CKING YOU !

stop lying to yourself !

where the f*ck you are you getting these AFC delusions of grandeur ?

she is f*cking other people just to get to you !

SAY WHAT !

if she wanted to f*ck you she would not be in the shower f*cking your friend


now i am going to kick it up a notch for you

you got some young hottie who likes you. she talks about moving in.

that sounds promosing for your AFC self doesn't it ?

well maybe you would have a chance with her BUT

BUT....

BUT....

you are still living with K. the woman that is crazy. that plots your DOOM.

you don't understand women. some women are BAD. and when i say BAD i mean they'll get you killed if they can.

K is one of those women. no morales. no scruples. bloodthirsty.


K is lying to your young chickie. K is talking $hit about your young chickie. K is running you down to people. K is PLOTTING YOUR DOOM.

C*CKBLOCKING and whatever else you can provide her ammunition with to do to you

and what are you doing about all this ?

sitting around day dreaming AFC style about living with 2 women and having a 3 some

let me school you. having 2 women under 1 roof is BAD MEDICINE

you got NO IDEA the amount of hell these two will unleash upon your reality

already one is trying to destroy the other and they are not even together yet !

NOW I WILL BE NICE :

look my fellow Don Juan. i am sure you mean well. you just want one of these women to feel about you the way you feel about them.

don't give up. you have a chance with the young chick. but K is trying to take that away from you. K is your enemy. her actions show you she hates your guts.

remember it's not what a woman says. it's her actions.

K says she is your friend. her actions are those of someone trying to hurt you in any way she can.

she is your enemy and you need to get her out of your house

AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

now if you gunna ignore some good advice and let the young chick move in. its up to you.

but at least kick K out. she is going to c*ckblock you and cost you friends until you do.

hook up with the young chick. bust some moves. less talk MORE ACTION. and damn boy if you can't get the balls up to move in for a kiss at least lay it down pimp style and that will tell you if they are wasting your time.

all the best on kicking that evil b*tch K out

Your Fellow Don Juan


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[DJDamage]

You are thinking of having another FEMALE ROOM MATE? what are you on crack??!!

You are easily manipulated and now you will have 2 females manipulating you.

You are the outsider, you are the man, they will plot your downfall for you.

Did you know that when two females move in together, they end up having their periods on the exact same time??? THAT IS EVIL.

They will bond together and run the household. You will be the one who will end up being kicked out. While you are at work they will sneak in strange men to fvck on your bed who will steal your money, eat your food and sh1t in your bathroom.

Don't come back here crying later you have been warned and still have not learned anything.

Good luck!!!

 

[Lost In Translation]

LOL ! GUILTY !

DJDamage
While you are at work they will sneak in strange men to fvck on your bed who will steal your money, eat your food and sh1t in your bathroom.


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[Brainman]

I have to agree totally with LIT. I am glad he put in that link to your past post, cus man, it really enlightened me about your situation.

I had this crazy crush on this girl from class. She's a 9, in my book, and I was enamored. I would stumble and st-st-tuttter, on the phone with her, asking her out, in an awkward manner. She was like "I'm not seeing anyone right now." I kept on asking her out and being a sweet guy (oh, the painful past!). Eventually, she was like, "oh ya, well, you know how I said I wasn't interested in seeing anyone? well, I have a boyfriend now." I was a bit shattered. I continued to be her friend. It was my choice and I went with it. Eventually, we're driving back from a day at the beach and she asks me if I wanted to rent a room in her house. I said that I'd think about it.

I live with my parents, paying $375 a month. She was offering a room for $450. I couldn't pass this up just because of some AFC feelings I had for this chick. I think, with your mindset, I would have moved in happily, thinking I'd win her over and score. She is actually single again, so that would work perfectly, you might say. NO! NO! NO! I pulled apart my feelings for her and realized they were just that: feelings I had for her, NOT feelings she had for me. Get it? Get over this chick man. Whether or not she is evil, your feelings for her are unrealistic and harmful and will ONLY cause you suffering. And, by the way, suffering for all the DJ's here who have been giving you sound advice.

I move out in 11 days and will be dating hot women who ARE NOT my roommate.

he roommate thing, mixed with romantic feelings is just Hell waiting to be unleashed.

I hope you don't mind my ranting, LIT inspired me

 

[PRMoon]

I lived with two girls at one point, its not really the best siuation to be living in honestly. Living with girls can become a very problematic situation very quickly and very easily. It seems you've already experienced just a few of the things that can go wrong when you live with girls who aren't really your friends. Having two of the live together I specualte will only compound your problems. Not only do you have to deal with two emotially volitale girls, but now you've got two potential patriarchs who could end up fighting each other for stupid reasons. The battlefield...YOUR HOUSE! The aftermath... dunno could be some damaged property involved here folks. Either way all you can do at this point is pray that things turn out at least some what okay.

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

yes I did have feelings for her once and was caught up on "one itis

According to your post you still do.

Listen to Lost In Translation,DJDamage, and Brainman you know it to be true. They know what there talking about.

Be a Man Juan Don, and rip her vice grip hand off your balls and put this hoe into her place. You are her doormat and she and whomever she brings is scraping and pounding their dog shyt feet on your face.

So don't let this happen to YOU anymore, its just sad hearing and reading about it thread after thread.

So For Gods sake man do something about this.

 

[Jaun_Don]

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.yes I did have feelings for her once and was caught up on "one itis" but I got over it and her behaviour and mind games have completely turned me off her.

THE END!

 

[DreamyChick]

That was beautiful LIT. I need some of that. LOL

 

[Jaun_Don]

I just want to say that the people I have spoken to about this have all been older Woman, they would know what they are talking about don't you think?...

LIT you have it all twisted and it sounds like you enjoy getting a rise out of me alot of what you said was untrue but it was funny as well, I don't consider myself an AFC at all, I have had many relationships but the dating **** is all different and odd to me now, since my last relationship of 3 years ended over a year ago...

I will admit I do need help and I do listen to the advice here, K knows I used to like her and she is drama queen and a game player of the highest degree...one Woman said (who is 45) thinks that she did because I cared about her, but didn't like the female attention I was getting and was jealous so she hooked up with my room mate because it was easy for her to do and she knew it would get too me, not because she likes me but because it was a power trip for her and that I cared about her.

Again I have to stress I have no feelings for this woman anymore, she annoys me and I have asked her to move out and she said she eventually well and the new girl that is moving in I already know and we get on well.

It's my place and I 'm not going anywhere dude, I am just not going to be around that much, besides I'm moving to Austrailia in a few months and the fresh start is just what I need.

And as far as putting her in her place oh I did that when we had a talk last week, I made her mouth drop a few times and agitated her by some of the things I said she even said to me "I thought you were over it" and I said "no K I have deep feelings for you and I'm madly in love with you...**** off".

I even shooshed her way and she didn't like that one bit, she called me a drama queen and I said back to her "**** have you looked in the mirror lately?, I'm sure you get inspired by all the crap soap operas you watch"...she didn't like that.

I tell her when she is being a ***** and i'm straight up with her.

My problem is i keep meeting the wrong girls and the young ones are just out for attention.



peace

 

[Big Eee Zee]

You are not over her. You are a dumbass if you think you are.

You post one of these damn threads every friggin week about her. You cant stop talking about her. You need help.

I, on the other hand, am hungry.

I believe I will go make a sandwich.

 

[Tazman]

So yeah I just want to know why she wants to stay?

This question, PERIOD, means your "one itis" is as strong as ever. You won't get anywhere until you realize this. You........STILL........care!

Someone else mentioned this also. Can you not see it? It's plain as day.

 

[manuva]

Originally posted by Big Eee Zee
You are not over her. You are a dumbass if you think you are.

You post one of these damn threads every friggin week about her. You cant stop talking about her. You need help.

I, on the other hand, am hungry.

I believe I will go make a sandwich.

Best. Post. Ever.

 

[Lost In Translation]

Jaun_Don
I just want to say that the people I have spoken to about this have all been older Woman, they would know what they are talking about don't you think?...

NO THEY HAVE NO CLUE

they will lead you astray

Jaun_Don
LIT you have it all twisted and it sounds like you enjoy getting a rise out of me alot of what you said

none of us can help you if you choose to lie to yourself

everything i have said is true. it is what you told us.

the only thing i said that is POSSIBLY not true is that K used your tooth brush for a sex toy. but you cannot prove she didn't


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[MercutioTHEGREAT]

^^^i 2nd that


oh and get off this website find you another place to live fVck a better sexier Female....simple....as.....that

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Juan Don:

Psycho woman have the iniate ability to play a game known as push/pull. They give you a step forward, then push you back 3 feet. When your at your wits end, they pull you in closer than ever before, only to push you back AGAIN shortly after. The psychology of it is addicting because you feel like your so close to the prize, yet you always get pushed further behind.

Your annoyed with her right now, your pissed off at the situation but that doesn't change the fact that deep down you still care about her. You know it and so do all of us. You wouldn't make a post over something so stupid as "when will she move out" if you didn't care.


Look this is unhealthy for you, you need to move out of there. Don't be stupid and say "its my place, blah blah blah." Just bail and then she'll have to move out, your going abroad in a few weeks anway.

Get out and get over this byatch, I hate to see all the hurt she's causing you.


LOST IN TRANSITION: I owe it to myself to take up the slack that PRL left and constantly call girls w-hores in every post. LOL


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