I've been reading for several weeks now and i just want to say you guys are geniuses. I've learned so much and have even been able to help some of my friends sex lives but my question for you is this.
I'm 6'1" 350 lbs. fairly good looking in the face and I dress very nice, but I’m Obese. I've been doing weight watchers and I’ve lost 35 lbs. So what I’m doing is learning all of these techniques you guys teach while waiting for the weight to come off (seems like it's taking forever) now i would like your guys opinion on this, do you think it's a good idea or should I forget about my looks and go for it. It's hard to not be insecure when you are grotesquely overweight. I can't imagine any women wanting to sleep with me so I haven't even been trying any of the techniques until I feel comfortable with my weight. You guys are always saying looks don't matter but I think that only goes so far. I’m not just a little overweight I’m really fat. Am I doing the right thing by not trying with women until I "Look good"
I'm 6'1" 350 lbs. fairly good looking in the face and I dress very nice, but I’m Obese. I've been doing weight watchers and I’ve lost 35 lbs. So what I’m doing is learning all of these techniques you guys teach while waiting for the weight to come off (seems like it's taking forever) now i would like your guys opinion on this, do you think it's a good idea or should I forget about my looks and go for it. It's hard to not be insecure when you are grotesquely overweight. I can't imagine any women wanting to sleep with me so I haven't even been trying any of the techniques until I feel comfortable with my weight. You guys are always saying looks don't matter but I think that only goes so far. I’m not just a little overweight I’m really fat. Am I doing the right thing by not trying with women until I "Look good"