Question about Grinding

[gbmack]

Okay. Do you ask the girl if she wants to dance, or do you just go right up from behind and not ask?

I used to always just go up on girls and freak without asking, and it worked 9/10 times. Then recently all my friends said they asked the girl if she wanted to dance, and then it made me think that that is more appropriate, and I even saw my friends do it and they were successful.

So I tried that technique on girls I didn't know and asked "wanna dance?" and I got rejected three times. no go. The only time it worked was when it was on girls I knew.

Because ****, I felt horrible when I got rejected. Some girl straight up just looked at me, smiled, and said "No." I wanted to punch the ***** at that moment.... Yeah, I only grinded on girls I knew. and I did get a phone # at the dance

But ****, the times when I got rejected are still in my mind. **** them. jesus christ. two of the girls who rejected me were cool with it, but one girl was such a ***** when she said "no" I hope she works at a McDonald's when she grows up.... Sorry if it seems like i'm ranting, but normally at my school, most guys and girls are "nice" so it kinda stung me when that one rejection from that b*tch got to me.

 

[Bladerunner]

Here's how I always do it, kind of a compromise in between the two:

Go up to the girl, usually from behind, tap her on the shoulder, and when she looks at you, gesture to the dance floor in a confident manner. She will usually nod yes and move so you can get behind her. You're basically saying "Lets dance." without having to actually say anything. By doing this you avoid potentially freaking a girl out. Dance floors are for dancing and touching, not talking.

 

[eaglez1177]

Okay. Do you ask the girl if she wants to dance, or do you just go right up from behind and not ask?

I used to always just go up on girls and freak without asking, and it worked 9/10 times. Then recently all my friends said they asked the girl if she wanted to dance, and then it made me think that that is more appropriate, and I even saw my friends do it and they were successful.

So I tried that technique on girls I didn't know and asked "wanna dance?" and I got rejected three times. no go. The only time it worked was when it was on girls I knew.

Because ****, I felt horrible when I got rejected. Some girl straight up just looked at me, smiled, and said "No." I wanted to punch the ***** at that moment.... Yeah, I only grinded on girls I knew. and I did get a phone # at the dance

But ****, the times when I got rejected are still in my mind. **** them. jesus christ. two of the girls who rejected me were cool with it, but one girl was such a ***** when she said "no" I hope she works at a McDonald's when she grows up.... Sorry if it seems like i'm ranting, but normally at my school, most guys and girls are "nice" so it kinda stung me when that one rejection from that b*tch got to me.

Theres your answer. Stick with what works. Dont follow what others do just because they make it seem more appropriate. Do your OWN thing.

 

[Pdizzzzzzle]

If it ain't broke; don't fix it.