Question about a Girl ?

[Fezzik]

I dated this girl for 8 months and it was a damn rollercoaster ride one minute she loved me and the next she hated me this girl NEVER had any middle ground or grey areas with anybody or anything It's all or nothing

I moved on and she hooked up with another guy we did'nt talk for 3.5 months and out of the blue she calls me up on christmas morning (4:00am) she tells me she broke up with the guy she hooked up with after me and that she now has another b/f I shrug it off and change the subject and we talk like were friends and everything is cool.

fast forward to Spring time and she starts sending me emails as friends and I reply back this happened 4 times. Then just last week she sent me a email so I sent her one back and she responded with another email saying LEAVE ME ALONE I HAVE A BOYFRIEND.. wha ?? Im not even interested in her like that and all I did was reply to emails she sent me.

This girl has done some crazy stuff in her day she splits guys from being all good/to all bad...BORDERLINE PERSONALITY fro sure so my question is should I just ignore her for now on or fight back and stand up for myself with this ***** ? my buddy says she just wants attention so I should ignore her but I really want REVENGE for all the games she played.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Dood, let it die.

Cut off contact with her - she's bringing you down.

 

[scordate]

revenge ? why ?

the best revenge you can get is to be happy with another woman / other women ;-)

/ scordate

 

[Slickster]

You're obsessing. On a head case chick no less.

Stop it.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

revenge for all the games eh? This whole site is full of games to play on chicks, but you're mad cause she played some games on you. Interesting doulbe standard you have there.

She has given you the perfect means to end the relationship, don't let this opportunity slip away. Don't return any more of her emails, calls, etc., and enter into the world of happiness.

 

[Monsta Mac]

I say, next time she emails you tell her you have a girlfriend..or better yet, just ignore here emails for a month, then contact her out of the blue and tell her u have a girl now(reverse the game). matter of fact tell here you got a couple girls on the side as well. I say get some girls man!!!!! And if you can, hang out with them in a place she frequents....she will be all on jock after that..

 

[flexion_]

Letting this die kills 2 birds with one stone.

First you should let this die and stop contact altogether. If she calls/e-mails... whatever don't respond.

Second if she a borderline - they need attention so by cutting contact this hurts her so you are getting this "revenge" you seem to want.

 

[DrDope]

She's insane.

If you never speak to her again it will be too soon.

 

[Fezzik]

When a girl seems all into you but every other former/current boyfriends suck...Run cause soon enough she will meet someone else and switch you from all good to all bad

These Borderline nut jobs have NO MIDDLE GROUND on anything. They jump from one intense relationship to the next. Naturally since these evil creatures CRAVE attention and can never be alone they will HOOVER you back when they need you by using sex(but never actually giving it) crying and using guilt or whatever it takes. Once the new boyfriend ERR main source of attention comes back she will split you back to SCUM

they must have a incredible fear of being alone so they try to hang onto and control every relationship they have. They get confused by all the emotions they feel from all these relationships/sources of attention & snap at times showing the truth

Anyway I guess thats enough psycho talk for now. I know this forum is used more for meeting Girls & not obsessing about whats wrong with them LOL Im sure most guys here would just be smart enough to say SEE YA

But anyway be aware of girls with Borderline personality. They can screw up everything trust me..especially the HOT ones. It's funny how I was in denial over how screwed up she was simply because she was HOT and SMART...I guess even HOT university chicks can be nut jobs.

BEAWARE of the WARNINGS. Don't be a sucker like me and dont think you won't get taken either cause if shes a Borderline you will. The key is finding out very early and telling her to hit the road.

Thanks for the advice guys...Im done with her NO MORE CONTACT