Qualify as chasing?

[Giantsfan88]

If a girl declines a date from a guy, does not counter offer, and he suggests an alternative, he has assumed the role of chaser/pursuer under any circumstance right?

 

[stevo]

Yes and depending on his game plan, it could result to a good thing but regardless of his game plan, he should only do the above with a woman sharing his blood line.

 

[Giantsfan88]

I did not fvck her yet and my game plan otherwise was let her come to me. Good way to destroy potential right?

 

[stevo]

First off, do not talk down on your moves and actions. You thought it, you did it and that makes it the best possible move at that time. You know why? because you learn from it.

A girl you have not fcuked could really do whatever she wants so you have to tone down your "couldnt-give-a-****ness" a little and evacuate her mindset, then you can control the outcome.

Let's plan this out.

She declined, you reproposed and then what?

 

[RangerMIke]

If a women turns you down for a date and she doesn't offer an alternative then the conversation should end right there. "Another time then we'll talk later have to go, bye" Move onto the next.

Some DJ have rules try twice... three times. Heck I don't have any rules. But I don't call women who have turned me down right away. One woman who turned me down I didn't call again for over a month... another I called again the next week. I only call again because I felt like seeing her. It's all about what you want.... the only thing that I will say about that is that you REALLY should not just WANT one woman.... this makes you seem desperate and women can sense this intuitively.

 

[Giantsfan88]

I called her a day later. She agreed to a date. I had to cancel the date the day of because people were told to stay off the roads in my area. I rescheduled to next Monday. Monday comes and I call a few hours before the date to change the location. She agrees. Weather gets bad again and this time she counter offers with "Friday or Saturday." I say something that means okay talk to you later. My plan is to wait a week and call her and ask her out for a weekday. But you're saying I look desperate and like she's the only girl in my life? Also, I didn't ask her out with a specific time and a second option of a day when I didn't get the counter offer so it wasn't a complete invitation. So how could she think I have any form of oneitis?