CAPSLOCK BANDIT
Master Don Juan
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In many of my approaches lately, I have noticed many women are just almost running away saying No, but the second I put up even a bit of chase or protest (I'm not just gonna blown out with a No in cold approach) they submit.
I think a big part of cold approach right now is creating a willingness in her to give you a clean slate... To disassociate you with her bad experiences and often you just need to bring it up, like "Hey, that's not fair, I feel you should be giving me a clean slate" this needs to come off as matter-of-factual, not begging, so if your feeling that resistance cropping up, address it immediately, not her, but the objection she is providing.
In sales, an objection is a term used to describe a situation where a customer is trying to object to a piece of your presentation and an objection can be just about anything, yet as the sales person, our job is to overcome the objection and sell our product and in dating that product is ourselves.
Many guys feel personally slighted by an objection, but at the end of the day, you have to have faith in the product your selling; how can you expect anyone else to have faith if you can't... Although sometimes people do show that faith when we don't have any in ourselves, those situations are almost always tragic, leaves the person feeling used.
Why do they feel used? Because previous men didn't set any boundaries or limits, then the woman begins to feel everything she has for everything you have is a trade she wants to make, especially when they own nothing.
If you are going to push, don't do it in any sexual context or it will obviously end badly.
Pushing through an objection using reason, it might separate you from the other salesmen, especially if your making it entertaining for her.
I think a big part of cold approach right now is creating a willingness in her to give you a clean slate... To disassociate you with her bad experiences and often you just need to bring it up, like "Hey, that's not fair, I feel you should be giving me a clean slate" this needs to come off as matter-of-factual, not begging, so if your feeling that resistance cropping up, address it immediately, not her, but the objection she is providing.
In sales, an objection is a term used to describe a situation where a customer is trying to object to a piece of your presentation and an objection can be just about anything, yet as the sales person, our job is to overcome the objection and sell our product and in dating that product is ourselves.
Many guys feel personally slighted by an objection, but at the end of the day, you have to have faith in the product your selling; how can you expect anyone else to have faith if you can't... Although sometimes people do show that faith when we don't have any in ourselves, those situations are almost always tragic, leaves the person feeling used.
Why do they feel used? Because previous men didn't set any boundaries or limits, then the woman begins to feel everything she has for everything you have is a trade she wants to make, especially when they own nothing.
If you are going to push, don't do it in any sexual context or it will obviously end badly.
Pushing through an objection using reason, it might separate you from the other salesmen, especially if your making it entertaining for her.
