backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I don't know why I have been in the tip writing mood. it's late, fiancee is sleep and my son must have done a line or something cause that little fvcker is wide awake, and after spending 20 minutes typing out my thoughts on the pros and cons of having the dubai world cup on a synthetic surface for the first time, well I came here lol. Anyway, I guess my thoughts are becoming more clearer to me to the point I can put them on paper or in this case, on an internet forum.
Man, women really aren't that complicated. They really aren't.
Women only become complicated when you actually pay attention to them and what they say. And the only men who do that, are men who dont' have a ****ing life of their own to worry about.
There is someone, who I am not sure, that has a quote that says men are the warriors, women are the relaxation to the warriors. That in a nutshell is the dating game.
Men were made to rule, achieve, to have drive, ambition and achieve something of status or at least try.
I got here when I was I think 18 years old and I had some decent success at first, then I had some success, then I became comfortable with women.. then.. i will say about the time I was 23-24, alot of the stuff here, just like with any good book you read over and over again, REALLY started to sink in and I learned the meaning of all those be a man pook posts and the rationale behind Anti-dump's pots and the reason A Unit used to think the way he thought (most underrated posted to ever post here IMHO)
You will notice, if you read my posts, they usually aren't about doing this one thing.. hell they usually don't even focus on women. Because women aren't the problem, MEN are the problem. The avg man is lazy, has no goals, no real ambition, no sense of style outside ****ing fans.. who is that guy that posted a damn picture of some ****ing fans and wants to talk about letting a woman insert himself inside her ouhgt to be stoned. I digress... what i am getting at is, men don't want to put any work into themselves, yet want the fruits of labor of a man who has put in the work. that's not the way things work in the real world.
to get a woman of value, by value you have to become a man of value, and to become a man of value you have to become valuable.... odd concept yes I know. you actually have to bring **** to the table that people want. Not a bad joke, or a nice shirt or a good pickup line, or hell, not even a nice car or a nice place. those things don't make you vaulable. you might get laid, might, you might even get laid alot with those things, but getting laid here, is not my goal. getting "laid" should not be your goal. hell i can give you 100 dollars and get you laid.. quite well... within 15 minutes. getting laid is not hard.
You want to be able to establish your own relationships. you want to be able to date who you want, when you want, on your fvcking terms. You don't want to have to come on a forum and ask do what does this text mean or what do I do on X date when she does Y or be stuck with a "bi-polar" woman (yet she was fine when I was was getting multiple BJ's a night).
Valuable. let that sink in. Valuable.
Do you actually ADD value to people's lives? You don't have to be rich to add value to people's lives.
As long as I am adding value to a woman's life I know I have her under my thumb. She can talk a good game or even pretend.. but she knows t and I know.. she's not going anywhere. Because she actually NEEDS me.
Your job is valuable to you becuase it puts food on the table.
Men who are successful with women, are successful becuase they are off being warriors of their life and dont' have time to sit and give a **** about what a woman thinks of anything.
I was at a get together I was telling some friends of ours about this opportunity to buy this horse/claim this horse, that I think will be a pretty good buy in the long run and I'm seriously tossing around the idea of doing it, albeit spear of the moment. One of them asked me what does my fiancee think, and I frankly, in front of her told them I really dont' care what she thinks... it's not going to weight in my decision to what decision I'm going to make. the guys there look at me like I chopped their ****s off or something, like I just committed a sin. Yes I have started, ran and sold a company before the age of 22 and I have started another one that avgs over 100k a month in revenue, yet i'm going to ask a woman who, while I love her to death, is a basically an exercise rider what she thinks of my business decisions.. i dont' give a **** what she thinks. just like I'm quite sure she does not give a **** what I think about her exercise riding ability lol.
Anyway I'm quite sure you are wondering right now, what the hell does this have to do with pushing yourself.
Because that is all it really takes to become a man of value. When you become a man of value, all this other **** falls right into line. There is a line in the 12 promises on page 82 of the AA book that says "we instinctively knew how to handle situations that used to baffle us". Once you become a man of value, all the game comes to you, becuase you are working from a different mindframe, and the correct mindframe is all that is needed to deal with women.
No one demonstrated this better IMHO than Benjamin Franklin, when he put as his 4th of his 13 virtues
See, when you start to accomplish things you set out to accomplish, not only do you get closer to your goals, you start to slowly but surely, form a different opinion about yourself. you start to hold yourself in a higher standard. And higher and higher. The changes in your financial or physical life are secondary (seriously) to the mental changes you have when it comes to how you view yourself.
I went from being 18 years old hoping to get a chance with my dream girl (lol.. she still is pretty hot but still, dream girl is funny) to her settling with someone else when it became pretty damn apparent I had no intentions of taking her seriously within a matter of a few years. I not only broke out the LJBF zone I put Her in it lol. I can and have done better.
You go to sleep night after night, having done ALL you were supposed to do, giving it your all, that's the best feeling on earth. it's like a drug. and the more the better. You feel really good about yourself, like you can accomplish anything. This is the main reason I still work, I'm quite well off if you want me to be honest, but I refuse to become complacent with my life.
It doesn't matter if you are selling cars.. If you are selling cars push yourself to get 10 ups on a tuesday (hard as hell I promise you). Set that as a goal and do not leave until you talk to 10 people, i don't give a **** if i got to go next door and steal a customer, I'm going to talk to 10 people, that **** is getting done once i resolve myself to do it. the avg person wants to sale 3 cars a day (when I sold cars, if i talked to 10 people 3 of them were buying.. I had one day I talked to 4 people and sold 5 cars by 5 oclock and made 8 grand for me, that was an epic day, i even got laid by one of the customers.. i had days where i talked to 20 people and did not sale one, but that was about my avg) but does not want to put in the work to make sure that they sale 3 cars in 1 day. they HOPE to talk to 10 people (hell some of them don't.
once you set this as a definitive goal no it's just a matter of figuring out how to do it. no lunch break **** that. that's 2 maybe even 3 customers coming in on their lunch break to browse around. no playing aorund in the food room, when I can be waiting on someone to come to the lot. no goofing around with the boss telling jokes. I"m there to make money. you become focus on your task at hand.
you set a goal, damnit i am going to stay on the treadmill for 60 minutes.. and do it. make it happen. generally i work out 3 hours a day, i get up, run a few sprints (it's a habit now), do about 1 hour worth of weight lifting,, get on the treadmill/bike/cross walk (rotate) for 1 hour and swim laps for 30 minutes.. i get on the treadmill and i tell myself.. even now.. i look for reasons not to keep going.. but damnit.. this is what i am going to do. it has to get done, so the thought of quitting is just not a viable option to me.
Whatever it is, it can be small it can be big. Get in the habit of setting out to do things, and actually do them. You are in high school and you got an eassy coming up, make it your goal to write the best ****ing essy in the damn class. when you get that mindset, if you are going get a 9 is not even debatable now, you are striving for perfection now.
This is how you build value. This is how you become vaulable.
do this for 30 days and notice how your attitude towards YOU changes. you will start holding your head a little higher, you will start being more accountable, more responsible, you will start expecting more out of you.
Man, women really aren't that complicated. They really aren't.
Women only become complicated when you actually pay attention to them and what they say. And the only men who do that, are men who dont' have a ****ing life of their own to worry about.
There is someone, who I am not sure, that has a quote that says men are the warriors, women are the relaxation to the warriors. That in a nutshell is the dating game.
Men were made to rule, achieve, to have drive, ambition and achieve something of status or at least try.
I got here when I was I think 18 years old and I had some decent success at first, then I had some success, then I became comfortable with women.. then.. i will say about the time I was 23-24, alot of the stuff here, just like with any good book you read over and over again, REALLY started to sink in and I learned the meaning of all those be a man pook posts and the rationale behind Anti-dump's pots and the reason A Unit used to think the way he thought (most underrated posted to ever post here IMHO)
You will notice, if you read my posts, they usually aren't about doing this one thing.. hell they usually don't even focus on women. Because women aren't the problem, MEN are the problem. The avg man is lazy, has no goals, no real ambition, no sense of style outside ****ing fans.. who is that guy that posted a damn picture of some ****ing fans and wants to talk about letting a woman insert himself inside her ouhgt to be stoned. I digress... what i am getting at is, men don't want to put any work into themselves, yet want the fruits of labor of a man who has put in the work. that's not the way things work in the real world.
to get a woman of value, by value you have to become a man of value, and to become a man of value you have to become valuable.... odd concept yes I know. you actually have to bring **** to the table that people want. Not a bad joke, or a nice shirt or a good pickup line, or hell, not even a nice car or a nice place. those things don't make you vaulable. you might get laid, might, you might even get laid alot with those things, but getting laid here, is not my goal. getting "laid" should not be your goal. hell i can give you 100 dollars and get you laid.. quite well... within 15 minutes. getting laid is not hard.
You want to be able to establish your own relationships. you want to be able to date who you want, when you want, on your fvcking terms. You don't want to have to come on a forum and ask do what does this text mean or what do I do on X date when she does Y or be stuck with a "bi-polar" woman (yet she was fine when I was was getting multiple BJ's a night).
Valuable. let that sink in. Valuable.
Do you actually ADD value to people's lives? You don't have to be rich to add value to people's lives.
As long as I am adding value to a woman's life I know I have her under my thumb. She can talk a good game or even pretend.. but she knows t and I know.. she's not going anywhere. Because she actually NEEDS me.
Your job is valuable to you becuase it puts food on the table.
Men who are successful with women, are successful becuase they are off being warriors of their life and dont' have time to sit and give a **** about what a woman thinks of anything.
I was at a get together I was telling some friends of ours about this opportunity to buy this horse/claim this horse, that I think will be a pretty good buy in the long run and I'm seriously tossing around the idea of doing it, albeit spear of the moment. One of them asked me what does my fiancee think, and I frankly, in front of her told them I really dont' care what she thinks... it's not going to weight in my decision to what decision I'm going to make. the guys there look at me like I chopped their ****s off or something, like I just committed a sin. Yes I have started, ran and sold a company before the age of 22 and I have started another one that avgs over 100k a month in revenue, yet i'm going to ask a woman who, while I love her to death, is a basically an exercise rider what she thinks of my business decisions.. i dont' give a **** what she thinks. just like I'm quite sure she does not give a **** what I think about her exercise riding ability lol.
Anyway I'm quite sure you are wondering right now, what the hell does this have to do with pushing yourself.
Because that is all it really takes to become a man of value. When you become a man of value, all this other **** falls right into line. There is a line in the 12 promises on page 82 of the AA book that says "we instinctively knew how to handle situations that used to baffle us". Once you become a man of value, all the game comes to you, becuase you are working from a different mindframe, and the correct mindframe is all that is needed to deal with women.
No one demonstrated this better IMHO than Benjamin Franklin, when he put as his 4th of his 13 virtues
it's really just that simple.
See, when you start to accomplish things you set out to accomplish, not only do you get closer to your goals, you start to slowly but surely, form a different opinion about yourself. you start to hold yourself in a higher standard. And higher and higher. The changes in your financial or physical life are secondary (seriously) to the mental changes you have when it comes to how you view yourself.
I went from being 18 years old hoping to get a chance with my dream girl (lol.. she still is pretty hot but still, dream girl is funny) to her settling with someone else when it became pretty damn apparent I had no intentions of taking her seriously within a matter of a few years. I not only broke out the LJBF zone I put Her in it lol. I can and have done better.
You go to sleep night after night, having done ALL you were supposed to do, giving it your all, that's the best feeling on earth. it's like a drug. and the more the better. You feel really good about yourself, like you can accomplish anything. This is the main reason I still work, I'm quite well off if you want me to be honest, but I refuse to become complacent with my life.
It doesn't matter if you are selling cars.. If you are selling cars push yourself to get 10 ups on a tuesday (hard as hell I promise you). Set that as a goal and do not leave until you talk to 10 people, i don't give a **** if i got to go next door and steal a customer, I'm going to talk to 10 people, that **** is getting done once i resolve myself to do it. the avg person wants to sale 3 cars a day (when I sold cars, if i talked to 10 people 3 of them were buying.. I had one day I talked to 4 people and sold 5 cars by 5 oclock and made 8 grand for me, that was an epic day, i even got laid by one of the customers.. i had days where i talked to 20 people and did not sale one, but that was about my avg) but does not want to put in the work to make sure that they sale 3 cars in 1 day. they HOPE to talk to 10 people (hell some of them don't.
once you set this as a definitive goal no it's just a matter of figuring out how to do it. no lunch break **** that. that's 2 maybe even 3 customers coming in on their lunch break to browse around. no playing aorund in the food room, when I can be waiting on someone to come to the lot. no goofing around with the boss telling jokes. I"m there to make money. you become focus on your task at hand.
you set a goal, damnit i am going to stay on the treadmill for 60 minutes.. and do it. make it happen. generally i work out 3 hours a day, i get up, run a few sprints (it's a habit now), do about 1 hour worth of weight lifting,, get on the treadmill/bike/cross walk (rotate) for 1 hour and swim laps for 30 minutes.. i get on the treadmill and i tell myself.. even now.. i look for reasons not to keep going.. but damnit.. this is what i am going to do. it has to get done, so the thought of quitting is just not a viable option to me.
Whatever it is, it can be small it can be big. Get in the habit of setting out to do things, and actually do them. You are in high school and you got an eassy coming up, make it your goal to write the best ****ing essy in the damn class. when you get that mindset, if you are going get a 9 is not even debatable now, you are striving for perfection now.
This is how you build value. This is how you become vaulable.
do this for 30 days and notice how your attitude towards YOU changes. you will start holding your head a little higher, you will start being more accountable, more responsible, you will start expecting more out of you.
