push pull, now what?

[hov84]

hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.

 

[gaspipe]

hey,

I kinda smothered this girl I'm interested and she started acting cold, so I stopped talking to her. Well, now of course she's acting a lot more interested. I didn't really mean to do any push pull or game her at all really, but now I don't know what to do. Should I just keep doing the push pull thing? If so, how long do I do this for? Do I switch gears at some point and do something else?, and at what point do I start doing this? Any help would be appreciated.

All I can say is that women are like cats. If you chase them they run away. If you ignore them thats when they seem to appear on your lap.

I think the best thing to do is show some interest but at the same time let them know that you have options even if you have to fake it. A Womans interest seems to skyrocket if she suspects you are seeing or dating other women. So dont be always available and always be mysterious.

Of course the ideal situation is that your are seeing several women at the same time so that you arent constantly thinking and obsessing on any particular girl.

 

[Aaron B]

get her alone and make a move