Push Pull Method

[Fumbduck]

Hello Everyone...

Excuse this rather basic question, but why is Push-Pull called "Push Pull"? I have been doing some research on this topic but can not find a clear explanation of what exactly it is. Can someone please point me to a link, or thread that better explains the method?

I'm interested because from some posts I've read, I do my own 'push-pull' however i think it would be good to know what exactly it is so I can see just what exactly this accomplishes...

 

[coacj]

Push & Pull means when you give the girl alittle attention by flirty or teasing her, your pulling. your pushing when you transfer the attention to another girl or something else, so that girl knows your not in love with her, which makes her attracted to you.
giving her all of the attention just chases her away from you
push & pull

 

[LostAndConfused]

I've got an easy way to practice, this way worked for me a couple months ago, for a while, but it ended up backfiring because I held out this push-pull method too long, and one of the girls lost interest and the other one moved on.

I call it the 2girl technique. You essentially run the push pull coacj with just two girls, make sure they are two girls you are interested in. In my case I used two girls who were HB7-8. Flirt with one of them, then of course when she reciprocates a little, start flirting with the second girl. Essentially you are sarging two girls, in a push-pull technique. Hell, the girls might even flat out ask you if you like the other chick. It ended up failing for me because I held it on too long and I relished in this power.

 

[ready123]

same thing as giving mixed signals

it develops attraction because of the intrigue - you MIGHT be interested in her but she can't tell. only way she'll figure it out is by investing in you emotionally. also, because it's not something she can take for granted, the "pull" part becomes something desired. she's gonna be putting in work for it

her putting in work = compliance = attraction

 

[Sandow]

type in Swingcat in Google. He's the guru that talks about it in length.

push-pull is basically the same as negs, but is much more vague and broader. push can be a simple neg, then you pull her in with a compliment. or vice versa. "hey you have the nicest ass. in fact you have the 4th nicest ass i've seen here tonite." pull-push in this case.

push-pull can also relate in terms of your behavior. Ignoring her, or not returning her calls/texts, then surprising her in some way, like inviting her to a date, or just calling her back. this would be push-pull.

push-pull is effective because its like a rollercoaster of emotions, and of course girls love that. You have her thinking, keeping her on her feet. also, remember, the bigger the push the stronger the pull. when you push her far, the pull will be more intense. however side to caution, this is risky because too much pull and you run the risk of losing her.

I wanna go back to the rollercoaster of emotions. Real good movies do this. they have the viewer go throgh a lot of emotions throughout the whole movie, that is why they are so good. some points are real sad, others are exciting, some are just slow, the end is usually joy. you catch my drift. thats an idea of how you wanna be.

one last note, don't over do push pull. its effective, but too much of it will make look too unpredictable, and not congruent with your actions. if you feel like ur overdoing it, you proabably are.