PUA, and DJ is bad for you!!!!

[me007]

While i enjoy everything the PUA,and DJ society has thought me i also think it has destroy my game with women. I say this because before ever being introduced to this whole society of pick up and gaming i wouldn't say i was the best when it comes to talking, dating women but wasn't this big mathematical format for me that this society of pick up has made it to be. Now when i interact with women i start to contemplate all this things like is my body language good, did i neg her good enough, what is her body language saying, "OHH her feet are not pointing at me she must not be attracted to me blah blah blah.

I think the problem with PUA, and DJ society is that it has become to mainstream. It's all about money, everybody is selling this over annualized BS to vulnerable men as pick up just to make a quick buck. and The truth is most of the BS they sell you doesn't even work.So her is my advice to men who wants to get women,

REPETITION, that's it. Repetition is key to success and the more women you talk to the better understanding, and better at talking to them you will have. It's simple and no BS.

 

[Warrior74]

You solved your own problem. Keep practicing at all of that crap in your head will go away. Repetition yah?

http://fc05.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2...motivate_you__by_clinton_hatfield-d56b3kr.jpg

 

[me007]

Yea bro, im just trying to help other men to solve theirs too.

 

[BeDJ]

Of course it is becoming mainstream. However, it's all an ACT. Most PUA's and DJ's put up an attitude that they can not maintain. That's why the importance of inner game is crucial. You develop it over years.

Many men, like yourself, come here for a quick solution to their woman problems. They do not develop that inner game. So more often than not, they end u with women who respond to Game, but revert back to their AFC/Beta selves. They get dumped/dropped and wonder what happened. Same logic as your OP, absolute bullsh!t theory.

:cheer: Now go fvck 10 other women :cheer:

 

[iamnobody]

IMO a PUA is basically a facade that a beta puts on (and will crumble at the first wiff of insecurity) while a real man is someone who has his inner game properly tuned.
You don't have to look at IOI's, just go for the kiss or try and fvck her. That's your IOI. Overcomplicating things is intellectual masturbation.
Think more in terms of Nismo's take on things.

 

[SgtSplacker]

You're just not doing it right buddy. You have to internalize these teachings, after you read them once they are in your head. You take what you want to keep and leave the rest on the forums.

It's not about scripted reactions, it's about knowing what you should or shouldn't do. It's about knowing what to expect and when to walk away. It's about knowing what she really want's, and how you should deliver such things. It's about knowing to spend your time on the girl that maintains communication but might be a little flaky vs. the girl that doesn't maintain communications but tells you she loves you.