this situation is weird, i picked up this hot girl about 5-6 weeks ago as per my threads previously and i thought i did very well, however final exams were the following few weeks so dating wasn't at top of her priority. also with time fading IL dropped as she had not seen me since then.
last week i tried to make date arrangements and she said she'd let me know, i gave her last weekend deadline to get back to me, she didnt. so i left it.. few days later she gets back to me asking me what im doing by text, i felt ok shes not obeying my rules so im going to neg her for it, i mentioned the deadline and that she was losing points with me.. in this scenario is she just testing to see if i back up what i say? i.e. i told her shes losing points with me, didnt say it was her only chance just said she lost points and asked her how she'd make it up to me.
she offered me date time of sat/sun i.e. today tomorrow. i made mistake of choosing today, it;s sat, its party night flakage level is high, sunday would have been smarter. i text her back sat, she says ok as long as shes not too hungover, i flip it so i choose a time in the evening, she says thats good so she has time to recover so all 'seemed' good. her texts were long and with a lot of smiley faces fllirty tones. i didnt want to let her get away with giving me a maybe answer. but she seemed pretty excited about it.
cos i raised IL supposedly by text yesterday she gave me a def time for tonight. but surprise surprise she cancels last min saying she has a friends birthday to go to and we'll have drinks some other time or meet up in a club later.. i took this as major sign of disrespect as she didnt counter offer with definite time.
my question is.. in this situation should u just not reply back at all or tell them that they're blowing it with you?
