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darksprezzatura

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Met an HB 9 online.

An hour away by flight.

She suggested she could split my travel expense.

We get hot and heavy on video.

Plan to meet. She's upto it.

She knows it's casual and that I sleep with other women too.

Mentioned she takes meds and sees a shrink.

Alcoholic sort of.

Said she has Anger issues.

I kept my guard up. And noticed all the red flags.

I should've ejected here before the crazy comes out

The crazy ALWAYS comes out sooner or later.

We talked for a few days into the night.

She flipped out during the most trivial things in a conversation for something said/done earlier.

You wouldn't notice where you triggered her.

It's insane and crazy making.

They fvcking look like a different person when they going full demon.

I'm glad I never met her but damn.

Blocked her on socials. She noticed. I'm hoping there won't be any damage and she'd leave me alone.

Screenshotted whatever I could. Eject. NC.

FINGERS CROSSED she never tries to contact me again. Don't just avoid sticking it in crazy-

DO NOT ENGAGE THE CRAZY.

DO NOT ENGAGE A CHICK WHO SAYS "I'M NOT CRAZY/BASKETCASE".


AVOID HELPING GIRLS WITH MENTAL HEALTH, IT'S NOT YOUR JOB.

THE CRAZY CAN COME OUT QUICK LIKE THIS IF YOU'RE LUCKY AND CAN READ THE FLAGS.

OR IT COULD BE DANGEROUS AND INSIDIOUS AND COME AFTER MONTHS/YEARS AND CRUSH YOU.

STAY SAFE.
 
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Kotaix

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People will usually tell you exactly what they are, and usually it's by denial. I have a friend whose brother thought it was necessary to say in a conversation that "I'm not a pathological liar". I can guarantee that he is one, and he's very crazy in other ways too.

I've always ejected from actually hooking up with crazy chicks. It doesn't matter how horny I am and how much she's coming on to me, something in the back of my head always gets the better of my d!ck's brain and I'll cut her off.
 

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She suggested she could split my travel expense.
She knows it's casual and that I sleep with other women too.
Just this small inconsistency would throw me off. How fvcking insane does a chick need to be to pay half of a flight for someone casual?

Mentioned she takes meds and sees a shrink.

Alcoholic sort of.

Said she has Anger issues.

I kept my guard up. And noticed all the red flags.
Noticing the red flags isn't enough, you need to translate what you learn into actions, such as noping out probably at meds and shrink.

I could kinda get it that you'd continue as some sort of weird entertainment, but your all caps ending tells me you weren't prepared for the most likely outcome and still had hope for something better.

This is just my comment, I wouldn't call it advice because it seems you already realize how stupid this was.
 

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Sounds like a girl I dated off and on a few years back. Big issues; also took meds and saw a shrink but lots of fun, hot, up for whatever. Never took her seriously. Has a grade A nuclear meltdown at the dog park (yelling, confrontational, emotional) because I..."glanced" at another women as I was walking out who was about 50 feet away. Needless to say when we got back to my place she got a bag with her things given to her and told to leave. Never contacted her again.

You're super lucky she showed her true self before you met. Women like this can feign rape, assault, steal, whatever, because they are truly mentally ill.

NEVER put your d*ick in crazy.

What did she go ballistic about during your video call?
 

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Met an HB 9 online.

An hour away by flight.

She suggested she could split my travel expense.

We get hot and heavy on video.

Plan to meet. She's upto it.

She knows it's casual and that I sleep with other women too.

Mentioned she takes meds and sees a shrink.

Alcoholic sort of.

Said she has Anger issues.

I kept my guard up. And noticed all the red flags.

I should've ejected here before the crazy comes out

The crazy ALWAYS comes out sooner or later.

We talked for a few days into the night.

She flipped out during the most trivial things in a conversation for something said/done earlier.

You wouldn't notice where you triggered her.

It's insane and crazy making.

They fvcking look like a different person when they going full demon.

I'm glad I never met her but damn.

Blocked her on socials. She noticed. I'm hoping there won't be any damage and she'd leave me alone.

Screenshotted whatever I could. Eject. NC.

FINGERS CROSSED she never tries to contact me again. Don't just avoid sticking it in crazy-

DO NOT ENGAGE THE CRAZY.

DO NOT ENGAGE A CHICK WHO SAYS "I'M NOT CRAZY/BASKETCASE".


AVOID HELPING GIRLS WITH MENTAL HEALTH, IT'S NOT YOUR JOB.

THE CRAZY CAN COME OUT QUICK LIKE THIS IF YOU'RE LUCKY AND CAN READ THE FLAGS.

OR IT COULD BE DANGEROUS AND INSIDIOUS AND COME AFTER MONTHS/YEARS AND CRUSH YOU.

STAY SAFE.
Had a similar situation with a very weird girl with some perverse intentions around me. I was at higher risk because I've met her in person.

If a woman says she have anger issues... Run away very quickly haha

I was fcking affraid, cause this one I've met started to talk about rape, because she took off her pants, come to me and touch my penis with her vagina, after doing a blowj0b without condom in me. And said that she didn't allow me to touch her vagina without cond0m.

But yeah, she took it off come to me like a horny ch1ck and then that. Not to mention the 30 min she kept sckng my **** in her mouth. She said that blowj0b without condom has no risk for STD. LOL

Don't ever talk to this girl again, keep her blocked and if she try any contact just ignore.

We might put our lives in risk
 

darksprezzatura

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Sounds like a girl I dated off and on a few years back. Big issues; also took meds and saw a shrink but lots of fun, hot, up for whatever. Never took her seriously. Has a grade A nuclear meltdown at the dog park (yelling, confrontational, emotional) because I..."glanced" at another women as I was walking out who was about 50 feet away. Needless to say when we got back to my place she got a bag with her things given to her and told to leave. Never contacted her again.

You're super lucky she showed her true self before you met. Women like this can feign rape, assault, steal, whatever, because they are truly mentally ill.

NEVER put your d*ick in crazy.

What did she go ballistic about during your video call?
We had made plans to hangout and we were discussing different places we could go.

I said "Tell me a date/time to meet" because she started a new job and has a hectic schedule, she flipped out saying "You can't fuvking talk to me like that, I'm not one of your hoes, fvck off"

I was shocked unable to understand what happened, and I ghosted her.

Then I realised she must've been triggered by all the women I mentioned being in my radar.

I realise my mistake that it's NEVER A GOOD IDEA TO MENTION OTHER PLATES to a girl, even if it's casual.

Nonetheless, I guess it was a blessing in disguise that she flipped out and I became sure of how fvcked she was.

My mistake had a silver lining.
 

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Never date a woman who is on meds. She’s already a failed being. Pork her? Sure.
I'd say even just banging mentally ill women is risky. There are plenty of stable girls looking for some fun.
Why play with fire?
 
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Met an HB 9 online.

An hour away by flight.

She suggested she could split my travel expense.

We get hot and heavy on video.

Plan to meet. She's upto it.

She knows it's casual and that I sleep with other women too.

Mentioned she takes meds and sees a shrink.

Alcoholic sort of.

Said she has Anger issues.

I kept my guard up. And noticed all the red flags.

I should've ejected here before the crazy comes out

The crazy ALWAYS comes out sooner or later.

We talked for a few days into the night.

She flipped out during the most trivial things in a conversation for something said/done earlier.

You wouldn't notice where you triggered her.

It's insane and crazy making.

They fvcking look like a different person when they going full demon.

I'm glad I never met her but damn.

Blocked her on socials. She noticed. I'm hoping there won't be any damage and she'd leave me alone.

Screenshotted whatever I could. Eject. NC.

FINGERS CROSSED she never tries to contact me again. Don't just avoid sticking it in crazy-

DO NOT ENGAGE THE CRAZY.

DO NOT ENGAGE A CHICK WHO SAYS "I'M NOT CRAZY/BASKETCASE".


AVOID HELPING GIRLS WITH MENTAL HEALTH, IT'S NOT YOUR JOB.

THE CRAZY CAN COME OUT QUICK LIKE THIS IF YOU'RE LUCKY AND CAN READ THE FLAGS.

OR IT COULD BE DANGEROUS AND INSIDIOUS AND COME AFTER MONTHS/YEARS AND CRUSH YOU.

STAY SAFE.
You should have asked her to marry you.
 

Dash Riprock

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We had made plans to hangout and we were discussing different places we could go.

I said "Tell me a date/time to meet" because she started a new job and has a hectic schedule, she flipped out saying "You can't fuvking talk to me like that, I'm not one of your hoes, fvck off"

I was shocked unable to understand what happened, and I ghosted her.

Then I realised she must've been triggered by all the women I mentioned being in my radar.

I realise my mistake that it's NEVER A GOOD IDEA TO MENTION OTHER PLATES to a girl, even if it's casual.

Nonetheless, I guess it was a blessing in disguise that she flipped out and I became sure of how fvcked she was.

My mistake had a silver lining.
Wow, lol. Bullet dodged. I'd bet she's textbook BPD. Explosive outbursts at trivial, benign incidents is a hallmark behavior.

Yeah, never a good idea to preemptively bring up other women you're dating. If/when women ask me, my reply is always "Yeah, I date around. How about those Broncos (or whatever?" Minimize it and move on.
 

darksprezzatura

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Wow, lol. Bullet dodged. I'd bet she's textbook BPD. Explosive outbursts at trivial, benign incidents is a hallmark behavior.

Yeah, never a good idea to preemptively bring up other women you're dating. If/when women ask me, my reply is always "Yeah, I date around. How about those Broncos (or whatever?" Minimize it and move on.
Spot on.
10 MINUTES back she called and texted me yesterday too. I didn't respond.

I came here to reply to your post instead.

NC with really hot crazy women is tough but important.

Guess it's like an addiction and this is a support group lol.

#NEXT
 

darksprezzatura

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So it's been over 15 days since I went NC.

Since then I've received over 6 texts and 4 miss calls asking me to unblock her etc - on the weekends, I'm guessing they're drunk texts/calls.

It's tough to stay NC cuz she's so hot.

Part of me thinks the moment I respond back she'll think she "has me" and any "longing" for me would go.

It's pretty natural to reach out I guess, but I'm still on the fence about it. I'm not replying.

I have my moments of weakness tho to want to talk to her but PEOPLE DON'T CHANGE.

I come here hoping that some of you would knock some sense in me and help with strength.

Maybe some of you know how tough it is to ignore a smoking hot babe.
 
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