TheHumanist
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Ok, I need some outsider perspectives for I am probably too biased to view this situation clearly. I might be over or under exagerating stuff...
Back in December, just before break started, I asked a girl to be my prom date, she immediately said sure.
Now things just made for a crappy turn, since then, she now found a boyfriend somewhere over Christmas break. I saw this comming for about two weeks and I couldn't do a thing. She want to go with her boyfriend. She offer me to "hang out" wtvr the fvck that means and still go with her limo (there will also be with about 12 other people, the people are not that rich in this city). Either way, my thinking says, her and that guy are the date, and I'm the third wheel. Thinking of my options, the best realistic one is to find another date, but most people are taken and I lack friends who are girls that I think are close enough to ask for the prom. I could also fight back, but even if I win, who wants a girl to go only or even partial obligation reasons.
Complicaters?
-Developed feelings for her as time passed (we became friends during the summer)
-Well, not sure this matter much, but I should put this out also to make information as clearer, she tells me she only in a pseudo-relationshhip (wtvr that means) because she is confused about her sexuality.
What should I do?
Back in December, just before break started, I asked a girl to be my prom date, she immediately said sure.
Now things just made for a crappy turn, since then, she now found a boyfriend somewhere over Christmas break. I saw this comming for about two weeks and I couldn't do a thing. She want to go with her boyfriend. She offer me to "hang out" wtvr the fvck that means and still go with her limo (there will also be with about 12 other people, the people are not that rich in this city). Either way, my thinking says, her and that guy are the date, and I'm the third wheel. Thinking of my options, the best realistic one is to find another date, but most people are taken and I lack friends who are girls that I think are close enough to ask for the prom. I could also fight back, but even if I win, who wants a girl to go only or even partial obligation reasons.
Complicaters?
-Developed feelings for her as time passed (we became friends during the summer)
-Well, not sure this matter much, but I should put this out also to make information as clearer, she tells me she only in a pseudo-relationshhip (wtvr that means) because she is confused about her sexuality.
What should I do?