Progress Update

[tHe KInG93]

So earlier this year, I checked back into sosuave during a fairly long drought after being away for several years. Since then, the drought ended at 10 months when a girl I used to mess around with randomly saw me around. Funny story actually: I didn't speak to her when I saw her so she sent me a series of text messages later on that day basically asking for no strings attached sex.

Not much has changed outside of this though. I have two new plates and while I know interest is there, I'm back in the same zone I've found myself in with my previous plates where I feel like I no longer have their attention. If I were to hit them up they'd talk to me but things just aren't progressing further than they already are and I'm not sure exactly why.

I'm around 6'3 200, athletic build, deep voice and fairly attractive, all stereotypical tools you'd ask to start with. I also dress well, just graduated with my bachelor's and will be pursuing my master's this upcoming school year. People tend to always assume I have a woman or women in my life at all times even though I haven't had one in over a year. I'm honestly starting to think maybe I intimidate women and they feel they aren't good enough for me or they think I'm just being friendly so they try to not get too into me? Not too sure but I'm honestly trying to get out of this zone I've been stuck in all too many times. Any input is greatly appreciated.

 

[LiveYourDream]

I am not clear if the issue is really about how women perceive you or perhaps you are not approaching and engaging women, as much as you think you are. If you are comfortable sharing, it would be very helpful if we could better understand what you are up to.

Including the previous plate you reconnected with...
How many women did you actually approach and engage, in the last 60 days?(or 90 if you prefer, but then clarify)
Of those, how many did you actually ask out?
Of those, how many did you actually go out with/meet up with?
Of those, how many individual women did you actually have sex with?

 

[tHe KInG93]

I am not clear if the issue is really about how women perceive you or perhaps you are not approaching and engaging women, as much as you think you are. If you are comfortable sharing, it would be very helpful if we could better understand what you are up to.

Including the previous plate you reconnected with...
How many women did you actually approach and engage, in the last 60 days?(or 90 if you prefer, but then clarify)
Of those, how many did you actually ask out?
Of those, how many did you actually go out with/meet up with?
Of those, how many individual women did you actually have sex with?

1. Approach and engage in the last 60 Days I'm going to say around 15-20
2. Actually asked out 5-7
3. Met up with 2, one ended up with a boyfriend, one is playing games, one turned out to be loose, one cut ties with me because I used to be involved with a mutual friend, and one we just can never seem to be free at the same time
4. Of those none. Only the previous plate. She's not factored into any of the above numbers because there is really no connection there..just sex and she recently just became serious with an ex boyfriend so that ended

 

[LiveYourDream]

Thank you for being so forthcoming @tHe KInG93. That gives everyone perspective. What I know, now, is that you will best be served with follow-up and insight from the men here. I respectfully step away here.

 

[tHe KInG93]

You're not getting them emotional enough. They key to attracting women is invoking a strong sense of any emotion. if you don't say crude things, you don't have the confidence to speak your mind, or you come off as weak, you will instantly dry women up.

Instead, say things for shock value. Be spontaneous and vague. Don't be boring is what I'm getting at here

I've never thought of myself as boring but what do you mean by this? Some examples may help.