Professional matchmaker gets out of the business because her (female) clients are too picky

[MatureDJ]

 

[Robert28]

The type of men they demand to meet aren’t using match making services. They don’t need to. They have plenty of women already or they’re married.

 

[GioWolf]

I occasionally follow the “Whereareallthegoodmen” Reddit. I started noticing women on swipe apps are really making these crazy demands. Do you think a guy with all your requirements is going to settle for your sloppy body and three kids? I don’t know if it’s just a sh1t test or are they really that delusional?

 

[Georgepithyou]

I occasionally follow the “Whereareallthegoodmen” Reddit. I started noticing women on swipe apps are really making these crazy demands. Do you think a guy with all your requirements is going to settle for your sloppy body and three kids? I don’t know if it’s just a sh1t test or are they really that delusional?

You would be amazed, i have met overweight 30 year olds with a customer service job who think they are entitled to the top 1% of men.

 

[jaymbrs]

I occasionally follow the “Whereareallthegoodmen” Reddit. I started noticing women on swipe apps are really making these crazy demands. Do you think a guy with all your requirements is going to settle for your sloppy body and three kids? I don’t know if it’s just a sh1t test or are they really that delusional?

Not delusional. All the thirsty simps of the world have convinced them they're way better than they actually are.

 

[corrector]

So women are delusional alpha widows according to the video. Even ugly women are Chad's wack off material. This is Blackpill. But is this really new info?

 

[Georgepithyou]

So women are delusional alpha widows according to the video. Even ugly women are Chad's wack off material. This is Blackpill. But is this really new info?

The problem with the blackpill is the fact that most simps will not listen no matter what.

Op is just preaching to the choir here, we all know the true reality but our numbers are small

 

[corrector]

@MatureDJ I have noticed this video is part of a youtube channel "Better Bachelor", I'm under the impression that its more of a MGTOW monk-mode rather than an incel type of site like the other channel. The lady that was sourced in that interview has her own channel and has been making that soundbite for over 2 years. I may look at other videos on here, but it doesn't seem as jokey as the other Incel-TV which was more humorous and narrated with an Arab guy with that picture of a car burning which just seemed funny with me. This has a more serious but interesting tone.

 

[SW15]

I don't think we can make much of the matchmaker channel. The matchmaker channel is so insignificant. Most relationships do not form throught matchmakers.

In a recent flight a couple of years ago, I looked through the in-flight magazine and saw numerous advertisements for matchmaking services. It's Just Lunch and Kelleher International were the brand names I remember. IJL has been around forever and Kelleher is a higher end service. There are also a lot of independent matchmakers out there. Most matchmakers are a complete waste of time.

The problem with the blackpill is the fact that most simps will not listen no matter what.

Op is just preaching to the choir here, we all know the true reality but our numbers are small

Most guys are not blackpill or even redpill. The average guy isn't reading this site or watching YouTube channels that might be blackpill, redpill, or even MGTOW oriented. The average guy is an Average Frustrated Chump (AFC). The AFC is bluepill to the core. The AFC bluepill guy likes drinking beer, watching sports, and trying to keep his girlfriend or wife happy. If AFC is single, he is likely a voracious porn consumer.

@MatureDJ I have noticed this video is part of a youtube channel "Better Bachelor", I'm under the impression that its more of a MGTOW monk-mode rather than an incel type of site like the other channel. The lady that was sourced in that interview has her own channel and has been making that soundbite for over 2 years. I may look at other videos on here, but it doesn't seem as jokey as the other Incel-TV which was more humorous and narrated with an Arab guy with that picture of a car burning which just seemed funny with me. This has a more serious but interesting tone.

MGTOW has a bad reputation. MGTOW is associated with guys who are not getting laid. While MGTOW has some good points to it, part of MGTOW has been co-opted by the incel community. I am a guy whose passion is getting laid, so I can't identify with the MGTOW label. MGTOW's are usually not big into approaching or getting themselves entrenched in female friendly environments to get laid.

 

[Hal9000]

You hear about having an abundance mentality on here. Well every scuzzy female in this country already has it. From dawn to dusk they are hit on by thirsty guys on social media. It gives them an inflated sense of worth which results in them thinking if they wait long enough a guy with a lot of money, a big cvck, and no standards will come along and sweep them off their feet. By the time they figure out guys just want to get in their pants and nobody actually thinks they are special they Have aged out of ever getting the guy they think they deserve and its hello cat lady.

 

[MatureDJ]

MGTOW has a bad reputation. MGTOW is associated with guys who are not getting laid. While MGTOW has some good points to it, part of MGTOW has been co-opted by the incel community.

MGTOW men are basically stoic Incels, but not from the perspective that they are losers (i.e., which is what Incels basically identify as), but rather that the juice of going after women is not worth the squeeze. Yes, part of this is because they would not be successful squeezing the lemon (piu intended) in the first place. True Forced Loneliness prophet "Roller" Steve Hoca has always contended that MGTOWers are TFLers in denial.

I am a guy whose passion is getting laid, so I can't identify with the MGTOW label. MGTOW's are usually not big into approaching or getting themselves entrenched in female friendly environments to get laid.

Well, if you have been successful getting laid, then you are not MGTOW.

 

[corrector]

MGTOW has a bad reputation. MGTOW is associated with guys who are not getting laid. While MGTOW has some good points to it, part of MGTOW has been co-opted by the incel community. I am a guy whose passion is getting laid, so I can't identify with the MGTOW label. MGTOW's are usually not big into approaching or getting themselves entrenched in female friendly environments to get laid.

It is what the channel is. In another thread @MatureDJ appears to believe that MGTOWs are a type of stoic Black-pill normies that find the current environment too difficult to get a decent rate of return on investment. One of the issues they raise is that if lady you are with could bring up false rape charges.

Let me take this example of a promising student who had a future wrecked because of a malicious rape accusation:

https://www.blacknews.com/news/albert-wilson-black-student-sentenced-12-years-prison-kissing-white-girl/

If you google search this you'll find lots of other articles.

What was his mistake? He brought this lady back to his home. Maybe he did nothing to her and she made that up because she wanted BBC at the moment and was denied. So just being in the same place as a woman puts you up to risk of a false accusation.

So you can get burned by a woman without going through the whole marriage and divorce and divide half the assets thing.

There is just allot of stuff on that channel. We all have passions to do things, but the question is if any investment to fulfill that, along with the risk is worth it or not. That's a question everyone has to answer for themselves. Just because you haven't got burned by a woman doesn't mean you wont eventually get burned down the road.

 

[corrector]

Well, if you have been successful getting laid, then you are not MGTOW.

MGTOWers sound like they are focusing on not getting burned. You are one false accusation away from Bubba being your boyfriend in jail.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Every woman wants a good man till they find a man that requires them to be a better woman

 

[B80]

Every woman wants a good man till they find a man that requires them to be a better woman

'You should love me for who I am'.

Not always, but usually convenient term for poor behaviours: putting on weight, being a pain in the arse etc.

 

[Fruitbat]

I don’t even think it’s thirsty simps.
It’s kind of being alpha widowed.

Most girls have met a few top 5%era who saw her fit for a night or a few nights fun.

In ********, she can’t understand. If she was in the top 5% she’d be banging top 3% guys. Hence, one or two lays with big league men makes her feel she’s a big league gal.

Not understanding that most men would have sex with say 75% of women. Regardless.

This isn’t a unique observation of mine, it’s been repeated by quite a few on here.

Most women are enraptured with the idea of a perfect guy. Hell, even my wife (who has clearly married a perfect guy) wants more! If you’re a Chad she will want you to be a sensitive poet Chad. Non congruent ideas.

The issue with these matchmaking services and dating apps for women is that they allow them to think about the criteria.

Reality is, if they just met a guy who might not tick boxes, but was confident, had a plan for his life and made her smile, she’d forget the criteria.

I knew a girl who was ugly face but massive hooters. However, her girl mates were all really really hot - like all 8/9s. She was a 5 but had massive boobs.

She met some guy who was a marine and was showing off pictures of him. Then she was complaining he didn’t want more. I was kind of sat with the girls at work. I couldn’t help myself say “don’t you think choosing a guy who wasn’t a marine might mean you would get more commitment? Like nothing against this guy but marines in their 20s aren’t known for wifing up” type thing.

There was a hush amongst the group and she said bitterly “don’t you think I could get a guy like that?”

She’s obviously seen her friends succeed in pinning this kind of guy down. I didn’t realise what an affront to her ego this idea was.

She hated me after saying that. It was like seeing a dude pining over how he couldn’t get his stripper GF to do housework.

 

[Mike32ct]

I don’t even think it’s thirsty simps.
It’s kind of being alpha widowed.

Most girls have met a few top 5%era who saw her fit for a night or a few nights fun.

In ********, she can’t understand. If she was in the top 5% she’d be banging top 3% guys. Hence, one or two lays with big league men makes her feel she’s a big league gal.

^This. I don’t think symps actually affect women that much, except to make them money from OF and/or social media exposure. Symps are completely ignored or friendzoned in real life.

Women get the big egos and raise their standards mostly due to when better looking guys F down.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

This would be like a personal trainer noping out because all his potential clients weigh 500 pounds and want to lose weight on the ice cream diet AND demand refunds when they are still fat.

 

[SW15]

I don’t think symps actually affect women that much, except to make them money from OF and/or social media exposure. Symps are completely ignored or friendzoned in real life.

Accurate.

Women get the big egos and raise their standards mostly due to when better looking guys F down.

This happens frequently, especially when the interaction starts on a swipe app.

 

[Fruitbat]

This would be like a personal trainer noping out because all his potential clients weigh 500 pounds and want to lose weight on the ice cream diet AND demand refunds when they are still fat.

Excellent, as always Taiyuu.