Ok guys. I need some help. I am a budding Juan but want to be a master at it.
Here is the situation.
I am after a pretty tough catch. We're in this show together and we've been flirting massively for the last couple of weeks. I've asked her out once and she said no. However, after asking her out, the girl begins texting me and giving hugs and such during rehearsals. Last weekend, we went out as "friends" back to my place and hung out, told some dirty secrets, and cuddled alot during the night. She told me alot about herself that night and when I read her palm, she was so amazed at how right I was and couldn't think of any comebacks.
After I brought her home, I told I had something important to tell her but I would tell her the next day. The next day, she's texting me left and right about what the message is. I told I'd give her a hint (which was something we talked about last night) and she couldn't figure it out. Throughout the day she's whining and coyish-ly tried to get me to give the answer to her which I refuse to give, driving her crazy.
The next day, at rehearsal, at the end, I told her I'd give her the next hint if she'd kiss me, she didn't HOWEVER, her body language shouted "CHASE ME". When I didn't, she gave another hug.
At the end of the night, she texts me saying if she should stop flirting with me cuz she feels bad and that she doesn't want me to feel like she's leading me on. I played it cool and basically told her she's playing hard to get but she'll succumb (Not in those words, I chose creatively what my words were). She then called me later on that night and after busting on her, she had to left for a moment but said she'd call back.
Later, she texts me again saying that she's sorry that she hung on on me and that she got into an argument with her ex. I told her to get off the phone with him and talk to me. She did it and we spend the rest of the night busting on each other and laughing all night. And damn, after we got off the phone, 15 minutes later, she texts me again! After busting on her again about how she can't seduce me (to which she tried to play the "I'm not sexy enough" pity tactic), I told her that she loves me texting her, talking to her, hugging her, etc. Of course she played defensively trying to hide behind a ****y exterior.
Normally, I know most of you guys would say to drop this girl. But I'm trying to prove a point to her and her friends who are telling her to get away from me. She constantly tells me that she'll never go out with me but yet I find HER texting ME to talk.
Another Juan friend of mine has helped me devise a plan to send her the "message" she wants in a Victorian Flower Arrangement which I plan to deliver on opening night of the show this weekend. But guys, because I don't know how else to word it, I want to get with this girl to show her that she can date a better quality guy that the bull she's dealt with. But so far, I'd like to think I'm doing it in the "non-wussy" way but not complimenting her (much), avoiding her pity parties, calling her out on her body language, predicting her moves (to which she has no answers to when I do it), making contact (slapping her butt, hugging, eye contact, getting really close in her space), and getting her to talk about her "special" turn on spots (happened on Friday). However the forces that are working against me are BOTH my "friends" and her friends (these friends are not successful Juans at all and her friends are either gay or in couples) who tell her and I that its not worth it (to which I believe she's believing in some sense hence her 'I'm never gonna date you' comments she constantly throws).
I've read Double Your Dating, The Art of Seduction (not fully), and many of the things here on this forum.
But guys, gimme some more advice! I know I can do this.
So help a brotha out.
XC
Here is the situation.
I am after a pretty tough catch. We're in this show together and we've been flirting massively for the last couple of weeks. I've asked her out once and she said no. However, after asking her out, the girl begins texting me and giving hugs and such during rehearsals. Last weekend, we went out as "friends" back to my place and hung out, told some dirty secrets, and cuddled alot during the night. She told me alot about herself that night and when I read her palm, she was so amazed at how right I was and couldn't think of any comebacks.
After I brought her home, I told I had something important to tell her but I would tell her the next day. The next day, she's texting me left and right about what the message is. I told I'd give her a hint (which was something we talked about last night) and she couldn't figure it out. Throughout the day she's whining and coyish-ly tried to get me to give the answer to her which I refuse to give, driving her crazy.
The next day, at rehearsal, at the end, I told her I'd give her the next hint if she'd kiss me, she didn't HOWEVER, her body language shouted "CHASE ME". When I didn't, she gave another hug.
At the end of the night, she texts me saying if she should stop flirting with me cuz she feels bad and that she doesn't want me to feel like she's leading me on. I played it cool and basically told her she's playing hard to get but she'll succumb (Not in those words, I chose creatively what my words were). She then called me later on that night and after busting on her, she had to left for a moment but said she'd call back.
Later, she texts me again saying that she's sorry that she hung on on me and that she got into an argument with her ex. I told her to get off the phone with him and talk to me. She did it and we spend the rest of the night busting on each other and laughing all night. And damn, after we got off the phone, 15 minutes later, she texts me again! After busting on her again about how she can't seduce me (to which she tried to play the "I'm not sexy enough" pity tactic), I told her that she loves me texting her, talking to her, hugging her, etc. Of course she played defensively trying to hide behind a ****y exterior.
Normally, I know most of you guys would say to drop this girl. But I'm trying to prove a point to her and her friends who are telling her to get away from me. She constantly tells me that she'll never go out with me but yet I find HER texting ME to talk.
Another Juan friend of mine has helped me devise a plan to send her the "message" she wants in a Victorian Flower Arrangement which I plan to deliver on opening night of the show this weekend. But guys, because I don't know how else to word it, I want to get with this girl to show her that she can date a better quality guy that the bull she's dealt with. But so far, I'd like to think I'm doing it in the "non-wussy" way but not complimenting her (much), avoiding her pity parties, calling her out on her body language, predicting her moves (to which she has no answers to when I do it), making contact (slapping her butt, hugging, eye contact, getting really close in her space), and getting her to talk about her "special" turn on spots (happened on Friday). However the forces that are working against me are BOTH my "friends" and her friends (these friends are not successful Juans at all and her friends are either gay or in couples) who tell her and I that its not worth it (to which I believe she's believing in some sense hence her 'I'm never gonna date you' comments she constantly throws).
I've read Double Your Dating, The Art of Seduction (not fully), and many of the things here on this forum.
But guys, gimme some more advice! I know I can do this.
So help a brotha out.
XC
