Problem with contacting a chick

[Father Joseph]

So tried to make this thread short and simple

1. Approached a girl I knew already in the club's smoking area outdoors (A small fenced area) she was on the other side of the fence just leaving

2. Talked to her a bit and went for the number something like "I'm going to head indoors but what's your number" (and taking my phone out of the pocket)

She answered something like: "I do not usually give out my phone number but you can add me on facebook"

I want to point out that I was a little bit drunk at the moment so I just said " That's okay I would have called you nine times a day"

3. She gave me her first and last name and I went back to the club and she left home, I had my FwB in the club so I did not try to even pull her

4. I kind of forgot about this girl until I saw her one weekend out with her friends said hi to her quickly because one of my friends was in her group but I did not isolate her , I did not want to add her on facebook so that she can see my all pictures etc. so I just chatted her " Hi! When are you free next week?"

5. The problem is that she hasn't answered. And she has not seen the message according to facebook. For a week

6. So I thought maybe the message went to her "other messages" folder which you almost ever open. And Yesterday morning I added her as a friend
in facebook.


7. She accepted my friend request in five minutes. I havent messaged anything else after asking when she is free. I have seen numerous times online but she has not still responded or seen the message

8. What should I do next? Send her a new message? Like " I am not sure you got the message I sent you blabla" Or the same message again?

I know I made my mistakes here but I am new to the game and approaching out of my social circle I should have tried to pull her or just insist the number when I had the time. I wanna bang her. So help a newbie out here thank you. Feel free to ask for details

And. May god Bless you all gentlemen.

 

[No.Danny]

You can't succeed. Not enough plates. Your heads spinning over this ONE basic beach.....

 

[Harry Wilmington]

Her: "I do not usually give out my phone number but you can add me on facebook"

Me: "HA! Wow... do guys still fall for that line?? It's okay, I'll just see ya around..." (walks off)

Why? Because what she told you is a LIE. She DOES give out her number, but only to guys she is attracted to. Otherwise, she gives them the facebook so she can appear to be interested, when really it's just a passive brush-off that's used so she won't feel bad or hurt your feelings with a full-on rejection. But yeah, it's still a full-on rejection. Consider her facebook invite the constellation prize for being bold enough to talk to her, yet not stirring up enough interest for her to want to keep in constant contact with you.

 

[MtnMan]

I will translate what she said from woman-ese into normal english.

"I don't give out my numbers to guys who I am not sexually interested in, however, you are welcome to add me on facebook and 'like' everything I post and thus help boost my already over inflated ego"

 

[hudpes]

I wanna bang her.

Wrong mindset for that to happen.

 

[pyros]

I will translate what she said from woman-ese into normal english.

"I don't give out my numbers to guys who I am not sexually interested in, however, you are welcome to add me on facebook and 'like' everything I post and thus help boost my already over inflated ego"

hahahahhaha, so true!

 

[The_411]

I will translate what she said from woman-ese into normal english.

"I don't give out my numbers to guys who I am not sexually interested in, however, you are welcome to add me on facebook and 'like' everything I post and thus help boost my already over inflated ego"

This! Facebook is about collecting orbiters to massage her ego.

 

[VladPatton]

Next time reply with:

"You don't give numbers only Facebook, huh? Ok, I'll see you around."

And turn your back and jet. It's a BS excuse.

 

[MattTheW]

I will translate what she said from woman-ese into normal english.

"I don't give out my numbers to guys who I am not sexually interested in, however, you are welcome to add me on facebook and 'like' everything I post and thus help boost my already over inflated ego"

Spot on, women love their orbiters

 

[Father Joseph]

Thanks for the feedback guys, removed her from my facebook. Lesson learned here.

 

[MtnMan]

pat yourself on the back for approaching her, i'd consider it a success either way.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

2. Talked to her a bit and went for the number something like "I'm going to head indoors but what's your number" (and taking my phone out of the pocket)

Don't ask questions ('...what's your number?').

Give commands ('....give me your number', '...put your number in there' *handing phone over').

"I don't give out my numbers to guys who I am not sexually interested in, however, you are welcome to add me on facebook and 'like' everything I post and thus help boost my already over inflated ego"

MtnMan wins again.