Problem...What to do?

[Playastyle]

Wassup readers. I'm a new Don Juan. Just got in the game about 6 months ago. Ever since I came across this site, I've applied the knowledge given and gotten almost every girl I've tried to. I use Kino well and get a lot of girls to get me a wink or a smile. You know, just to practice on. Just the regular stuff that happens. All of you know how it is. Anyways, there is this one girl. She uses kino with me a lot. She's always smiling and laughing when I'm around. Almost all the signs that a girl gives off, she gives to me. A lot of the guys a hang with are like, "yea. She looks good. I need to get wit her." So you are probably saying to yourself, "What's the problem then playa? Go and get that if guys say she look good and all that!!!" The problem? She's my cousin!!! What should I do about this? Any one else got this problem? Is this just a sign that i got mad skills?(Not tryin to be ****y...well, yea i am. haha) But yea, what to do? She acts as if if we weren't cousins, she'd want us to be bf and gf. Ight, don't go sayin shiet bout incest or nuthin, but yea. Just wanted advise on what to do.

 

[oakraiderz2]

For the fact that you seriously thought about this, you should be smacked in the face 10 times. You nasty SOB, unless you live in Alabama or one of those states, Ima have to say stay away from this. Oh, and even if you live in one of those states i still say dont even think about it. But if YOU really want to then do ya thing playa. Just dont get caught with your pants down by one of yalls parents. HAHA

 

[DirkPitt]

yo man, he doesn't wanna do it. he just wants her to back off...

i hope...

btw, how's the weather in arkansas?

 

[DirkPitt]

damnit, i didn't finish reading oakraider's message. i didn't see the southern state thing. hahaha. for the record, didn't steal joke.

 

[Demon]

Go for it. You don't have to marry her. I could tell you a few stories about my cousins and half-cousins but I won't.

 

[DirkPitt]

don't tell him to go for it!!!

lemme ask playa, is she hot? I wouldn't do nething w/ a cousin unless she was above a 9.5...

 

[ABGPlayer]

listen man, firstly, she's your cousin. she's family.

secondly, look at the way some some close brothers and sisters act towards each other. they touch each other because they comfortable and close, they smile because they enjoy each others company and brighten each others days. they're around each other just because they like each other( notlike that)

thats the way i see it. personally i would leave that alone, do what you do but to make her happy, not to seduce her/ get her.

next time its one of your hot cousins just use the the DJ stuff as practice but to make her happy. be a brother to her, be the best cousin she has. the one she comes to when she's sad, bored and tired to have some fun and brighten her day.

thats what i have to say

 

[Demon]

Ignore the ABGTroll and don't listen to Dirk-in-a-Pit's advice.

If you merely fool around with this girl, she's not going to tell anyone. Nobody will know you did fool around unless you go around telling people. It doesn't matter if we know because a lot of us are really screwed up anyway!

I have a cousin back on the East Coast that I would enjoy screwing. I've already has sexual relations with a half-cousin and she still wants more! It's worse because she's infected by the Las Vegas slut syndrome. Ha!

You have to be in the right mindset to do it else you'll end up regretting it saying to yourself, "I fk'd my cousin. I had sexual relations with family!" That's not entirely true though. Cousins are distant blood. They are not direct family. It would be different if she was your sister. Since she's your cousin, it's moral and natural to be attracted to her. Therefore, it's your responsibility as a guy to have sexual relations with her. Remember that the noble elite families married within as well as had sex with cousins all the time. It's perfectly natural! Anyone who says otherwise needs to get a grip on reality and escape the world they've been infected by.

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

My advice to you is only hang around your cousin in a large group. This will remove the temptation for either of you to do anything. Also bring your gf or love interest along. With her fawning over you your cousin would have to be super bold to try to make any moves whatsoever.

 

[WrEcKLeSS2000]

I agree with scoundrel...But i do have to say..there are plenty hot girls out there...its not right even talking about ur cousin like that...its ok to be close...good friends...or whatever but NOT in any other way...its just not right...Find some hot girls outside ur blood line...believe me they are out there somewhere

 

[xanderbaz]

How close of a cousin is she? If she's like you're uncle's daughter, then that's still quite of an incestuous situation.
"Noble elite families" never married between themselves. In fact, princes and kings used to bring women from other parts of the world (mostly from political reasons, anyway).
If she's a distant cousin, then that's ok. And there's nothing wrong with using her as social proof.

 

[TheSplat]

Maybe this is the Georgia in me talking, but WTF. As long as you don't run your mouth about it....whatever.

She's gotta be hella hot though man. And if word does get out, just say you were drunk or flat out deny it. That would be social suicide.

GL though.

 

[Quad4IV]

DON"T DO A THING

OMG what the hell are you thinking! All these "guys" are saying to go for it! She is your fvcking cousin! You share about 50% of her genes. It is against federal law besides what would happen if you got her pregnat, espically if the child ever had a blood test!

There are PLENTY UNRELATED fish in the sea... Find another girl

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

Re: DON"T DO A THING

Originally posted by Quad4IV
OMG what the hell are you thinking! All these "guys" are saying to go for it! She is your fvcking cousin! You share about 50% of her genes. It is against federal law besides what would happen if you got her pregnat, espically if the child ever had a blood test!

There are PLENTY UNRELATED fish in the sea... Find another girl

Are you retarded? You share anywhere form 0 to 100 percent of your genes with a sibling num nuts, do the math. Simple probability says it will be closer to 25% You get half of mom's genes and half of dad's.

Do a quick punnet square. Assume that the traits are 1, 2 for both parents. Thus the possible combinations are
1,1
1,2
1,2
2,2

You will see that one child has a 50% chance of being 1,2. The chance of a sibling being 1,2 is 50% as well. 50% of 50% is 25%.
(I'm not even messing with the idea of being able to get different combinations in pairs of chromosomes, so actual percentages of shared genes will be even LOWER.

Assuming we have a 25% average between siblings we would see that the dudes uncle/aunt and father/mother share 25%. This means he would share about 12.5% with his uncle/aunt, and 6.25% with his cousin.

Also, in some states marrying your cousin is legal (Mississipi comes to mind, but don't quote me) But i still believe that they should not get together.

But look at it this way, in ancient Egypt it was perfectly acceptable to marry your sister.

 

[Playastyle]

Sum you playas is funny. HAHA!!

I dont plan to do nuthin wit her. I'm just tryin to see if anyone else had this problem wit close family flirtin and all that. I do it back just to refine the skills, but I didnt think she would act like this. She's touched my piece on "accident" more then once. And I aint frum no where in the south. For all those who are askin if she look good, hella guys wanna get wit her, so yea she does look good, not that I'm sayin that like I wanna get wit her. But to other guys, she either a 9 or 10, depending on whut u like. but yea, I dont plan to, but you never know. I'm 99.9% sure I won't do anythin wit her, but then again, Jordan said he was 99.9% that he wouldn't come back to basketball back in '98, but look at him now. Playin for the Wizards. And for the person who said that I should be hittin myself for talkin bout doin sumthin that this, I've been sayin to myself, "whut the hell? Whut r u thinkin? This is kinda wrong. Whut should I do." Thats why I asked on here. But yea, we'll see what happens.

 

[DirkPitt]

dude, let us know what you did./....

 

[Demon]

Originally posted by xanderbaz
"Noble elite families" never married between themselves. In fact, princes and kings used to bring women from other parts of the world (mostly from political reasons, anyway).

Such a bold statement. Back it up.

A Few Famous Cousin Relationships
• Franklin D. Roosevelt, the longest serving US president in history married his cousin (not a first cousin, however they shared the same last name).
• The first Prime Minister of Canada, Sir John A. MacDonald married his first cousin.
• Albert Einstein married his first cousin. And so did Charles Darwin, who had exceptional children.

A Few Famous Family Relationships
• Cleopatra married her 10-year old brother, Ptolemy XIII. Marriage between a brother and a sister was a common practice in Egyptian royal families. Cleopatra also bred with another brother Ptolemy XIV but the child was named Caesarion. Julius Caesar forced that relationship. Cleopatra had Ptolemy XIV murdered so that Caesarion could rule alongside her.

• Oedipus married his mother, Jocasta. They bore a few a children: Eteocles, Polynices, Antigone, and Ismene.

For the Religious Ones
• Isaac married Rebekkah, his first cousin once removed. (Genesis 24:12-51)
• Jacob married two of his cousins, Rachel & Leah. (Genesis chapters 28-29)
• Zelophehad's five orphaned daughters were commanded by God to marry cousins. (Numbers 36)
• Eleazar's daughters each married first cousins, as they were instructed. (I Chronicles 23:22)
• In the 18th chapter of Leviticus, the Bible provides a lengthy list of forbidden relationships. These laws are the scriptural definition of sexual impurity. Not one mention of cousins, of any degree, is made.

 

[Demon]

[Playastyle]
This is a once-in-a-lifetime chance in today's ignorant modern world. Don't pass it up because you're worried about anything incestual.

• 26 states allow first cousin marriages.
• U.S. prohibitions against cousin marriages predate modern genetics.
• No European country prohibits marriage between first cousins.
• It is also legal throughout Canada to marry your cousin.
• Second cousins have little, if any increased chance of having children with birth defects.
• Children of non-related couples have a 2-3% risk of birth defects, as opposed to first cousins having a 4-6% risk.

• The frequency of cousin marriages in the USA is about 1 in 1,000.
• The frequency of cousin marriages in Japan is about 4 in 1,000.
• It is estimated that 20 percent of all couples worldwide are first cousins.
• Current studies indicate that cousin couples have a lower ratio of miscarriages -- perhaps because body chemistry of cousins is more similar.

I'm not saying that you should marry your cousin, no, I'm saying that there's nothing wrong with having a little fling. There are cousin couples out there. It's just a rarity to actually meet one.

When I was reading about how Darwin married his first cousin and had two exceptionally brilliant children, I was thinking, "Maybe this is the right course to take."

Life is a game. When it's a game over, you won't know it. So do you what you want to do. Experience your short life to the fullest. Don't cut back on any moments just because society says you shouldn't do it.

 

[xanderbaz]

Re: Re: DON"T DO A THING

Originally posted by UltimateScoundrel
You share anywhere form 0 to 100 percent of your genes with a sibling num nuts, do the math. Simple probability says it will be closer to 25%

Actually you'd share anywhere from 0% to 25$, with emphasis on the lower teens... Why you might say? Let's say she's your uncle's daughter. Your mother and her father are a brother and a sister, thus sharing only from 0% to 99% (even some twins don't share a full set of genes.). That, plus the geneset of your aunt will set the aforementioned probability. And don't forget that humans actually share 96% of the total genenetic makeup, and that only 4% are personal traits we inherit (via dominance or codominance). Don't screw around on the topic of genetics, I have a course credit from that.

But look at it this way, in ancient Egypt it was perfectly acceptable to marry your sister.

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Well, only you guys know this, but I had a friend who had sex with his sister when they were younger (she made him do it.) Now, don't you agree that women are root of all evil?

 

[xanderbaz]

Originally posted by Demon
Such a bold statement. Back it up.

A Few Famous Cousin Relationships
• Albert Einstein married his first cousin. And so did Charles Darwin, who had exceptional children.

I'd back it up, but I'm too lazy at the moment. I have hard evidence, though...
Albert Einstien married a woman from Yugoslavia called Mara something... He met her while studying in Wienna. I have it a hardcopy edition of his biography (damn, I spend so much time reading.)
Darwin did marry his cousin, but... One of his children (a daughter) has died of unexplainable disease. His wife had several miscarriages, too. But that wasn't uncommon in England of that time, anyway. This was backed up by my evolution coursebook and my teacher.
I still wouldn't mind having sex with my cousin, though. As long as she was mad hot, though.