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Pro Tip: Furniture shopping is a great way to spark up conversation

Xenom0rph

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Boyos, if you're struggle to find places to meet and chit chat with women....if you've tried coffee chops, cafes, gyms etc and aren't having much luck, then I'd like to suggest some out-of-the-box thinking: furniture shopping.

Specifically, a trendy store like IKEA. For those that have never been to IKEA, the entire store is a showroom where they have layouts of bedroom designs. Visiting the store is kinda like visiting Disneyland but on a much smaller scale.

You'd be surprised how many women flock to that store, the reason is because females LOVE to play house and do interior design.

A trendy store like IKEA always seems to attract women who dress provocatively and are overtly flirtatious.

So I'm walking through the showroom, looking at bedroom designs and scoping out the action. One of the things I like to do is lay on the beds and couches

Random women see me laying on the beds, and this gives them a reason/excuse to spark up conversation with me if they're digging my aesthetics.

We usually chit chat about how I'm redesigning my home or my work or random nonsense.

Keep in mind that I'm getting my peac0ck action on by dressing rather flamboyantly like the below pic. It's a great way to attract attention and practice mingling with random women.

Now I know some guys will go out to furniture stores and expect women to randomly approach them.... sorry my man, it doesn't work like that. You still need to have the physique and the aesthetics to attract female attention. A furniture store is just a setting to facilitate the possibility of meeting females.

I'm usually dressed something like this:

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women love trendy interior designs like this...

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I'm 48, low bodyfat and inked but if I dressed like that I'd quite rightfully be laughed out of IKEA.
To me it absolutely screams tryhard. Shirt and trousers is more appropriate at my age, I'd only
wear a baseball cap if I was gardening or decorating and the less said about wearing tights under
shorts the better.
 

Xenom0rph

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I'm 48, low bodyfat and inked but if I dressed like that I'd quite rightfully be laughed out of IKEA.
To me it absolutely screams tryhard. Shirt and trousers is more appropriate at my age, I'd only
wear a baseball cap if I was gardening or decorating and the less said about wearing tights under
shorts the better.

True, as we get older, there are limitations to how much peac0cking we can do before it reaches the level of cringe. I'm late 30s but look late 20s, so I still have a little bit of flexibility in how clownish I can dress.

A really cute Egyptian-American girl approached me asked me if I'm remodelling my home. Then in the food court an attractive early 30s woman asked me what kind of pants I was wearing and if they're good for workouts (compression pants)...
 

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Boyos, if you're struggle to find places to meet and chit chat with women....if you've tried coffee chops, cafes, gyms etc and aren't having much luck, then I'd like to suggest some out-of-the-box thinking: furniture shopping.

Specifically, a trendy store like IKEA. For those that have never been to IKEA, the entire store is a showroom where they have layouts of bedroom designs. Visiting the store is kinda like visiting Disneyland but on a much smaller scale.

You'd be surprised how many women flock to that store, the reason is because females LOVE to play house and do interior design.

A trendy store like IKEA always seems to attract women who dress provocatively and are overtly flirtatious.

So I'm walking through the showroom, looking at bedroom designs and scoping out the action. One of the things I like to do is lay on the beds and couches

Random women see me laying on the beds, and this gives them a reason/excuse to spark up conversation with me if they're digging my aesthetics.

We usually chit chat about how I'm redesigning my home or my work or random nonsense.

Keep in mind that I'm getting my peac0ck action on by dressing rather flamboyantly like the below pic. It's a great way to attract attention and practice mingling with random women.

Now I know some guys will go out to furniture stores and expect women to randomly approach them.... sorry my man, it doesn't work like that. You still need to have the physique and the aesthetics to attract female attention. A furniture store is just a setting to facilitate the possibility of meeting females.

I'm usually dressed something like this:

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women love trendy interior designs like this...

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So funny...

I noticed tons of hot girls at Rooms-To-Go.

But mostly married women I think.
 

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I'd like to suggest some out-of-the-box thinking: furniture shopping.

Specifically, a trendy store like IKEA. For those that have never been to IKEA, the entire store is a showroom where they have layouts of bedroom designs. Visiting the store is kinda like visiting Disneyland but on a much smaller scale.

You'd be surprised how many women flock to that store, the reason is because females LOVE to play house and do interior design.

A trendy store like IKEA always seems to attract women who dress provocatively and are overtly flirtatious.
I noticed tons of hot girls at Rooms-To-Go.

But mostly married women I think.
Picking out home furnishings may be more of an attached or married woman thing. I guess some single women can do it for their apartments. Worth a discussion. I've never tried to do pickup at a furniture or home furnishings store. I would be more inclined to think smaller home furnishings retail, like Bed, Bath, and Beyond, would be a better choice for picking up women in that category. A liquor store likely has more single women. I have done more grocery store and mall pickup in retail.
 

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Proud to say in 47 years I've never been in an IKEA and I don't plan on going to one either.
Couples moving in together buy furniture.
Newly divorced women with a settlement buy furniture
Married couples buy furniture.

If there is a single woman shopping for furniture , she will most likely be accompanied by multiple friends or her parents.

I agree BB&B attracts the 20-30 yo wanna be interior designers.

But the truth is if you are friendly and outgoing in your everyday life women will start showing up in your life...
 

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Proud to say in 47 years I've never been in an IKEA and I don't plan on going to one either.
Couples moving in together buy furniture.
Newly divorced women with a settlement buy furniture
Married couples buy furniture.

If there is a single woman shopping for furniture , she will most likely be accompanied by multiple friends or her parents.

I agree BB&B attracts the 20-30 yo wanna be interior designers.

But the truth is if you are friendly and outgoing in your everyday life women will start showing up in your life...

IKEA isn't just about furniture shopping, it's kinda like going to Disneyland. Women (single or attached) go their to shop for drapes, bedding, bathroom stuff, and generally just hang out.

It's social gathering spot.
 
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