Premature Ejaculation

[ABM]

Hey guys, haven't posted in years.. Anyway I thought this would be a good place to throw out this question

I'm no one minute man, but what does it take to last longer in bed? I'm sick of not being able to control my climax! Any tricks or tips would be appreciated. thanks

 

[Epic]

Well there are some medicinal options. The thing that I can tell you will postpone your orgasm for certain, is SSRI anti-depressants. I don't know if they ever prescribe them for this purpose, but all the same I'm just letting you know that it does that. However, I wouldn't really recommend it. I've been on Paxil before, and I could fvck for like an hour and half straight, as hard as I could and still not get off. It's great for the girl, but sucks for you. Also, it could really screw your head up if not used properly. Anyway, just so you know and maybe want to consider it. I also think St. John's Wort is supposed to help with premature ejaculation.

The most effective non-medicinal methods that I know of is the start-stop technique and kegel exercises. You can do it with a partner or by yourself. Alone, you stimulate yourself until the point where you feel your orgasm starting to approach and then you just stop and let your erection soften and then start again. When I got off the Paxil it had some adverse effects and caused premature ejaculation. My girlfriend and I used the start-stop technique and I did kegels. I would fvck until reaching that point and stop for a few seconds until the approaching orgasm feeling subsided and then I would start again. Every time as soon as I would start again, I could go for as long as I wanted to. Eventually though, with the combination of the two you'll be able to go for as long as you want no problem from the beginning. I highly recommend it.

 

[j0n024]

I agree , start-stop is pretty good and kegels are pretty good...you can also try telling your girl to straddle you when you feel your about to "Pop" it helps and there is always **** rings. I actually think the easiest way to stop premature ejcak is if you jerk off or maybe tell her to give you a bj first cvm and then continue by giving her pleasure becasue by that time you should be ready again or maybe just cvm before hand like 10min's earlier because then you wont have lot's of cvm and your body is trying to make more and it will take a lot longer to COME(lol) out. Example havent you ever wondered why (if you do jack off 2 times or more) it takes longer the second time then the first?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Take nice slow and steady deep breaths through your nose.

Relax your ab and butt muscles.

Take your time. Go fast and slow. Switch the positions.

There are other simple things like this to help you last longer in bed. Do some searches on the internet.

 

[LostAndConfused]

I've heard that clenching your toes helps slightly (puts your mind somewhere else), and from other people that pressing your tongue to the soft part of the roof of your mouth helps too.

Kegels is probably your best option though.

 

[CORVETTE06]

pretend ur ****ing an old wrinkly man

thats what i do :rockon:

 

[Chrispy]

If you think about of anti-depressant drugs as 'fixing' premature ejaculation, the solution is in the mind. Getting too excited like having all those hot ideas, porn ideas, etc. in your head make things happen too quickly. Very frustrating. So as everyone else already said. For practice though you should know the feeling of when you're going to climax. Once you know that, hold it back a bit and slow it down...plus take deep rhythmic breaths. At which time, think of something else.

 

[KingCobra]

Control of the ejaculation is a challenge for alot of men including myself. It got to the stage that i asked my doctor but he just said you are young and wil get better over time(i'm 20). If you are masterbating and thinking sexual thoughts or watching porn you will probably come extremely quickly. An interesting experiment is to get near to the point of ejaculation and then stop thinking about sex but continue with the same intensity. You will notice that the urge to *** will go away. However when you are having sex this is far more difficult. Just do research on it and work at it. Practice makes perfect

 

[LostAndConfused]

Never let a woman make you feel less of a man for prematurely ejaculating.

Men are biologically designed to spread their seed as fast as possible. In a primitive struggle for survival you don't see chimpanzees having a two hour fvck session do you? (just used chimps as an example because they are closely related to us.)

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Never let a woman make you feel less of a man for prematurely ejaculating.

Men are biologically designed to spread their seed as fast as possible. In a primitive struggle for survival you don't see chimpanzees having a two hour fvck session do you? (just used chimps as an example because they are closely related to us.)

Yes, but we are humans. Mamals such as the chimpanzee have sex quick so their not left vunerable to predators.

 

[tsmith2334]

Well there are some medicinal options. The thing that I can tell you will postpone your orgasm for certain, is SSRI anti-depressants. I don't know if they ever prescribe them for this purpose, but all the same I'm just letting you know that it does that. However, I wouldn't really recommend it. I've been on Paxil before, and I could fvck for like an hour and half straight, as hard as I could and still not get off. It's great for the girl, but sucks for you. Also, it could really screw your head up if not used properly. Anyway, just so you know and maybe want to consider it.

They can be used to treat premature ejaculation. They really can mess with your mind though, I'd stay away from them.

 

[j0n024]

HAHA that would be funny...oh look honey look at those monkey's ......umm maybe we should give them space *2 hours later*....JEEZ! What the he11 is he on! lol

Yes I agree dont worry about it all that much, if you have to why dont you do some foreplay with your girl? I think that will help you go longer and like most people said just learn to relax when you do it....kegels really help. I think you should practice with porno just keep going at it until you feel like it's getting ready to pop and the just stop and then keep going for maybe like 30min's every day and you should be able to hold it better.

 

[masculineyourheart]

I agree with antidepressants giving premature ejaculation a real kick in the face. Unfortunately this comes at the cost of sensitivity and general desire for sex so it's not a real good option. Back when I was on them I'd go for like an hour without cumming, then after a while I'd start to think about other stuff like what I should have breakfast or a book I'd been reading and completely drift off while I was still banging away like everything was ace. When I'd do doggy with my girlfriend at the time, it started to get really weird, I'd be going like a jackhammer and everything was working alright, I'd just never get off and I'd look forward to when I could finish up so I could go do something else.

Those pills are pretty weird anyway, makes everything average out into this weird middle ground where you're not down or up, excited or bored or whatever. Just ..................
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Don't take 'em.

You'll be surprised how well kegels work if you do them regularly for a few weeks. It's that moment when you're trying to hold back from cumming and your whatever it is muscle goes WHOAAAAAA and you're ready to kick on. You feel pretty kingsh*t after that.

The routine I usually do I found here. It might not be necessary to be this... well, 'routine' about it but I've had good results from doing the first set described. Also, the site looks a bit off in the clouds but ah well.

 

[bob88]

I actually think the easiest way to stop premature ejcak is if you jerk off or maybe tell her to give you a bj first cvm and then continue by giving her pleasure becasue by that time you should be ready again or maybe just cvm before hand like 10min's earlier because then you wont have lot's of cvm and your body is trying to make more and it will take a lot longer to COME(lol) out. Example havent you ever wondered why (if you do jack off 2 times or more) it takes longer the second time then the first?

lol
I actually had to do this yesterday.
I hadn't jacked off or had sex for like 2 weeks, so I knew I wasnt gonna last long. So what I did was this:
After the foreplay and all I put on a flavored condom and pounded her for like 3 min trying to get myself to *** as soon as possible. (I did it in like 3 min)
Then I pulled out, ate her out for like 5 min, and then I was ready to go again.
Looked at the time, and realized I was gonna be late to pick up my cousin if we didn't stop, so I told her we were having a quickie and nothing else. She agreed and said hurry up then. So we went at it for like half an hour after that and I still couldn't get myself to finish...hahahaha.

Maybe I should consider doing something like this every time from now on???