Power balance question

[mcqueen207]

I need some advice. I have been dating this one chick for awhile now. She said from the start that she is not looking for a long-term relationship ect. Last weekend we finally did the deed. Before doing so, she asked me straight out how many women am I dating. (cuz I sorta hinted that I was a bit of a player) Like a dumbass, I said I wasn't dating anyone else.

I saw her at a class we both take and we set up another date for Sunday. I can almost feel that she is not as a attracted to me as she was before.... cuz she figures she has me now. What can I do to tilt the power/attraction balance back to my side???

I hate to say it but I am falling for this girl too. I am NOT calling her all the time or heaping praise on her though. I call her maybe once every week to ten days. I see her at class usually then I say we should hang out. She doesn't call me hardly at all .... unless I ignore her for like 2 weeks.

I know really need to spin more plates. I just haven't really seen anyone I am interested in recently.

Can you help me from going AFC on her?

 

[Bible_Belt]

Spinning plates can begin with flirting. Find a girl at school to practice your skills on; you don't have to want to even date her in order for her to be good practice for you. Jealousy is so powerful within most women that as soon as she sees you talking to another girl, she will assume that you want that other girl more.

 

[mcqueen207]

I am going to Vegas in 2 weeks alone. I plan on being a total slut and taking lots of pictures. Hopefully, that will flick the jealousy switch and help me re-center my head.

 

[MacAvoy]

The easy way to turn the power is by actually turning the power and not creating a false illusion of more power. You know the answer, you said it yourself.

Spin more plates. From now on stop initiating all contact, only see her if she contacts you first. When she trys to set something up, say sorry your busy that day and counter off for the next day.

If you really like this girl the best thing to do is to forget abut her and start approaching other women. This will raise her IL because remember YOU are the prize.