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Potential Threesome!

Slickster

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Okay normally I don't even think about messing with chicks from work but this situation is different.

I work for the government for a program that teaches kids age 12-16 various skills during the summer months. I work there fulltime but in the summer we get temporary employees who come and work with us for a few months.

There is a chick (Evelyn) who is here for the summer. Last summer we fooled around a bit and since she's returned this year she's been real flirty with me. There's been all kinds of sexual innuendo going on and we are at the point where throughout the day we are whispering sexual fantasies into each others ears. Man I can tell you that this makes it difficult to concentrate on my work.

Anyways I'm sure I will eventually have sex with her soon. The other day she tells me that she's been telling another employee (Natalie) about our sexual conversations and that Natalie wants to get involved too.:D Now I've been getting crazy looks from Natalie since Evelyn told me this but I haven't been able to get any sextalk going with her just yet.

The problem with all this is that working for the government makes all this very taboo. Because we are working with kids we are always taking courses on "sexual harrassment" and "sexual abuse". Relationships between the staff are definately frowned upon. I'm 30, Evelyn is 23 and Natalie is 19! So I'm definately feeling a little freaked about the consequences here.

The staff usually gets together on weekends for a night of drinking and partying so I'll have many chances to work this is if I want to. I'm seeing another chick at the moment who is 31 (not serious yet) but I'd definately be doing this on the sly.

Its going to be tough to resist this cuz I'm already spending half the day walking around with a hard-on from speaking with Evelyn and when I see the two of them whispering to each other and giggling and smiling at me its tough to concentrate on what I'm doing. Evelyn is a 7.5 and Natalie is an 8.

So my question is, should I follow thru with this and risk the consequeces at work. And if so, anyone who has had threesomes in the past, any advice would be appreciated.

Once again I would normally never consider doing a chick from work but they are only here for 8 weeks a year and both live in different cities (hours away). This is probably Evelyn's last year with us, but Natalie may return next year.

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Workplace romance/sex has consequences.. just step around carefully.
 

tamales

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Be very very careful. If you don't really like your job and are prepared to move on then go for it but ****ting where you eat always has some sort of consequences. Be ready. I can hardly believe you are whispering sexual fantasies into what's her name ear. WOW! Fun times but if she were to see you do that with another co-worker not her friend, how would she react. Women can be strange. Sometimes they do this just because they think that being all kinky and sexy that you might fall for them deeper. Dunno. Just a theory. Or maybe they too want to but when it comes down to the wire they won't. I say you are walking on a thin line already.

I say bang E, see how it goes, look in the want ads for a new job and then once you have landed one and Miss E is still into you then do the threesome. Just don't give her or the other chick your new work number.

Man tho.. How many of my guy friends would envy you right now! LOL.
 

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How many men actually get a chance for a threesome? Not many.

I say go for it, slick. You aren't getting any younger man and here you have these young colelge age women flirting it up with you. Live out your fantasy here, man. You will probably kick your self later if you didn't at least try.

Whatever you do outside of work is your business. They are only there for 8wks, right? So you won't have to deal with a lot of BS that could potentially develop if they worked with you year round.
C'mon, make a move before they get married or do one of your coworkers.
 

Slickster

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Originally posted by tamales
I can hardly believe you are whispering sexual fantasies into what's her name ear. WOW! Fun times but if she were to see you do that with another co-worker not her friend, how would she react.
Hey Tamales, I can hardly believe it either. She started it and I've just been playing off what she's been saying. She's a very flirty girl however it only seems to be with me. There are plenty of other guys her age there but she doesn't really pay them any attention.

The part you said about me "doing this with another co-worker not her friend, how would she react?" Well I would never dream of going up to a co-worker and whispering sexual stuff to her. I'm confident but not stupid. Where I work that would be very risky. This girl and I fooled around before so thats how it started.

Natalie is pretty young for me. As much as I'd like to be with a 19 year old hotty I'm feeling a little awkward about that one.

To add to this story. Theres another chick at work (HB8 27yrs old) who just broke up with her boyfriend and has been very flirty with me too. I just love summer time at my work!

When it rains it pours I think I heard you say that in one of your previous posts.:)

Anyways I was unable to go to the staff party this past weekend but I'll be sure to post any developments.
 

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Slickster,

Just remember there is a big gap between chicks flirting with you at work and actually jumping in the sack with two chicks and getting it on. One, or both, might flake out before they bear their fruit. Hell, at least you are ALMOST in the position to get it. So, don't be depressed if it doesn't come to fruition.

I'm one of the realllllllly lucky dudes that's had them before. If you have a bi girflriend, you are halfway there. that's the key to getting the Holy Grail. It's harder to pick up two chicks (that you aren't dating) and getting it on, in my opinion.
 

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I say steer clear of those two.

I'm not sure what your profession is, but if you're a teacher, you may jepordize your carrer. Say you start fooling around with the two. Something happens and one freaks and starts crying sexual harrassment. Man, that could screw up your whole career.

You're in one of those jobs where you are "trusted". You know, like a cop or priest or what ever. When you screw up, they let you have it.

If it's just an office type temp job, (which are a dime a dozen) I say go for it....
 

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They can't scream sexual harassment if they get it on outside of the workplace; they can only scream RAPE!'
 

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19? 23?? And you're 30????

Sounds like a pretty golden friggin opportunity to me!
 

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Timing is of the essence. If your going to try and do something, do it now. Also be sure you don't care about how these ladies feel about you because if their not on the same level as you, they'll want nothing to do with you furthur. But I say go for it. I mean its three less questions in your head;)
 

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Not yet

Not yet. During the week the temporary staff have night duties which keep them busy right till bedtime. Then they have to be up at 5:00 AM. So I'll have to wait till the weekend for the "party".

A little more to add. There is even another chick coming on strong to me. She tells me I HAVE to come to the party this weekend cuz all the other male staff are only 19.

So I have Evelyn, Natalie, Sarah, and Kim all showing good signs of interest.

I'm starting to wonder about Evelyn though. All this sexual fantasy that she's whispering to me. I think she's either really sl*tty or just doing it to tease me.

Natalie has another guy in love with her. He works directly with me and he's her age 19. He's a total AFC chump. Kind of geeky too. I know I shouldn't care but it would be a real slap in the face
to him if I messed around with her. Especially as he's confided in me his feelings for her and asked me for advice. We'll see.

Sarah and Kim are both 27 and seem to be a little more down to earth. They are both 8's and real flirty to me.

Its going to be quite a party. Any advice on dealing with 4 potentially interested women all in the same room would be appreciated.
 

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Sarah and Kim? 27? Yeah....

The 19 year olds? They seem to be trouble. BUt, you never know...

Keep us posted...
 
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