Post your insecurities...

[dadmonson]

Post what u are insecure about yourself. It could be anything that u feel self conciense about. To get us on the rite track I'll start off.
I have this darkened indented chicken pox mark right in on the corner of my right eye bone(Iguesss thats what u callit, kinda like a beauty mark. Also I have a little bit of a gap between my 2 front teeth and my voice gets kinda shaky and cracky sometimes. I let those things hold me back from gettin girls, but if I ever get those worked out than girls better beware.

Iight, don't let me be the only one come on and post yours too.

 

[DDevil]

My hands . I have warts on them , there very white and my knuckles crack during the winter and bleed.

My hair , I cut it every 1 1/2 weeks .

 

[wavejams007]

I have acne.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

I wear glasses I sometimes think a woman will find me as a nerd.
I'm 5'4 and weight 135lbs ( gained 5 pounds thx to the fitness guides) I feel sometimes a women will think I'm too short and even too thin
I live with my mother. I feel as if a girl would think I'm a mommy's boy for being 20 years old living in with his mother.
I'm sorta a small guy. I feel like I couldn't protect a girl because of bigger guys.
I have problems talking, I say words the wrong way sometimes, and my voice sorta gose out when I talk to others.
I'm a virign and for whatever reason to guys I sorta come off like a player?? and I lie about being laided.




I think thats about it.......

 

[Aquatico]

I don't have a license, and I am a virgin.

 

[Rex Man]

My D!CK is alarmingy big. :crackup:

don't dwell on things you can't change

 

[diplomatic_lies]

My penis is only 10 inches. I get a bit shy about that sometimes, because I've heard that 15 inches is the average.

Also, I'm a bit insecure of my tiny 25-acre mansion by the Tuscan hills, and my other small mansion in Innsbruck. Having only 2 mansions makes me feel a bit wimpy, ideally I should have at least 10.

 

[Dr Box]

Its all well and good to mention these insecurities....but what are you guys doing to change them? either phsyical things (i.e. to skinny work out) or inner game things like nlp, David D does some great NLP stuff in his advanced series. Read some NLP books stuff on reframing is the best, I was going to try and give an example but it is to hard on the forums.
Good Luck

 

[cA^]

My hunch.

I kind of have a slight hunch, my neck leans forwards, i'm not sure what caused it; I think possibly spending too much time on the computer when I was younger.

It really ****s me off and I dont realise i'm doing it however it's obvious to other people.

Can anyone help me get over it? Any techniques, tips etc?

Thanks in advance

 

[comic_relief]

I suck at road directions

got lost in Philly and then still very nervous locked my keys in my car on the 76 on ramp when a policeman questioned me for possession of drugs when he told me to step out of the car. I left the keys in the car but locked the door because of forcible habit. It wasn't a good night :crackup:

Other then that though, no insecurities at all

comic_relief

 

[Jariel]

Lack of money and independence.

I gave up my job and own place to become a student. I have no money and am staying at my parents' house (at least for another year). It's not only embarrassing, but I can't afford to take girls out on amazing dates and I can't even invite them back for a quiet night at my place.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by comic_relief
I suck at road directions

Oh yes, same here!! I arranged to pick a girl up from her house a few months ago for our first date. I was an hour late, called her 3 times to ask directions and when we actually went out, I got lost again. She was nice enough about it and laughed it off, but it gave a bad impression and she didn't want to date me again.

 

[Juan_Man]

I have a history with depression.

I always fear that a girl that shows interest will eventually lose interest.

 

[manuva]

Originally posted by cA^
My hunch.

I kind of have a slight hunch, my neck leans forwards, i'm not sure what caused it; I think possibly spending too much time on the computer when I was younger.

It really ****s me off and I dont realise i'm doing it however it's obvious to other people.

Can anyone help me get over it? Any techniques, tips etc?

Thanks in advance

Go to the gym and strengthen your back. This will help your posture a lot.

If you can't go to the gym, find somewhere at home you can do heaves (chin-ups). PM if you want more details.

 

[cA^]

yo, i tried to send you a pm but your inbox is full - clear some old stuff out!

 

[RedPill]

Ditto to what manuva said...for years thought this was a problem of mine, then I sacked up and hit the gym. After just 6 weeks of back work it never was an issue again. Confidence shot up dramatically.

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Okay insecurities...

I also live with my parents (a sacrifice of temporary comfort while I build my career and pay off debt), but that doesn't bother me much because I'm doing it for completely valid and good reasons, as opposed to a lot of bum twenty-something children these days.

I'm insecure about my past. I was a complete geek in high school. Didn't play any sports. Sent women running for the exits with my puny, nerdily arrogant, poorly dressed, socially unintelligent, extremely booksmart, and highly masturbatory ways. Never participated in any of the school dances or other traditional functions outside of band. Throughout college my friends were party animals. I got a little woman love from some nasty hoes when completely drunk, but never dated or anything. My friends weren't people of any substance. No work ethic at all. They were the whiners, stoners, and retired high school jocks who will one day realize than fifteen years of living for binge drinking, weed, and the strip joint has fvcked them for life.

Fast forward to today and I'm such a radically different person. I've hit the gym hard, eat well, and am in great shape. No more drugs, smoking, or binge drinking. I've fixed all the major issues with my inner game. I've shed myself of all the losers I've formerly associated with, which unfortunately has left me with a very small social circle which I'm working to rebuild properly. I've worked my ass off and my career is on the rise. I'm dating an attractive woman who's classy, intelligent, fun, low maintenance, and traditionally feminine. She cooks for me, cleans up after me, the sex is awesome, and there is absolutely no oneitis or "relationship agenda" on either of our parts.

No doubt, being on the loser side of the coin for so many years made me a stronger person, and a side benefit of being a geek back in the day is that I'm extremely well-read and educated. But to bring this post full-circle, my insecurity is the possibility that the people of my future might become aware of my past and view me poorly because of it.

 

[comic_relief]

Originally posted by RedPill

No doubt, being on the loser side of the coin for so many years made me a stronger person, and a side benefit of being a geek back in the day is that I'm extremely well-read and educated. But to bring this post full-circle, my insecurity is the possibility that the people of my future might become aware of my past and view me poorly because of it.

I disagree with you. This will only show them how strong that you have become. I told my girlfriend how I used to be a nerd in elementary school, a social outcast, and a loser. I then told her about how I changed with this site to become a newer better person. She was simply amazed at the change that she heard of.

comic_relief

 

[Marlimus]

My acne. I feel like its my Achilles heel.

 

[C00L]

Originally posted by Marlimus
My acne. I feel like its my Achilles heel.

ditto

 

[DrMetallica]

I cry when I masturbate.


jk