Positive thinking/attitude is ALL you NEED!

[Malachi]

Ok i've been on this board a LONG TIME, don't let this username fool you...i decided to re-register just to get it.

But the best advice i can give ANYONE that has worked with me in ALL AREAS of LIFE not JUST girl's....is ...... POSITIVE THINKING!.

Don't be a LAME ***** and say you can't do ****, or your not good enough for whomever or ya never going to do that....now come to think of it, this would porbally benifit people with approach anxiety.

basically in EVERY SITUATION, come out of it with a POSITIVE ATTITUDE!....don't be bogged down with stress and worry!.....you are a fkcing gem!....you are who you are, you are UNIQUE in EVERY WAY!....there is only ONE OF YOU!.

NOBODY ELSE is like you...your mould was thrown away when they made YOU!....this world is YOURS and is there for YOU!....get off your ass and do the thing's YOU want to do...don't let ANYONE tell you what to do.

You need to laugh and to be positive in EVERY ASPECT of your life!...i've been doing this for just over 4 day;s now...and i'm starting to converse with people who would'nt give me the time of day before...but now they're all over me!.

i'm not the ONLY one who've experienced this...there must be more people who've taken this approach?.

-Malachi

 

[frivolousz21]

2 thumbs up!

and a BIG toe!

 

[PrEcIsIoN22]

I'm with you on this one bigggg time Malachi. I've only been on the board a few days, but this really worked for me. Something as simple as just being positive about life and it seems like I've made the biggest change of my life.

It's true people who wouldn't give me the time of day a week ago are now really talkative with me. Today alone I approached about half of my law class and actually talked to them. Everyone stood around for a few mins and walked away. A few started and we joked and talked for a half hour. Perfect strangers yesterday, not so much strangers today.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I give this two thumbs and two big toes up.
-Precision22

 

[Serialized3]

I agree that positive attiude really helps, but it's FAR from all you need to be successful with girls or at life in general

Now, I'm no expert, but I know you need:

1) Willingness to learn and adapt your behaviors

2) Time to adapt your mindset and perspective

3) Experience, experience, EXPERIENCE