SkubaSteve
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Hi,
Im new to the forum but been a long time student of the game.
Im fairly comfortable with chatting/approaching woman but I had an interesting situation this evening.
In a Pub and a friend/colleague of mine bumped into and ex colleague of ours (HB7.5 who I have been gaming quite sutbtley(Sp) for a while) who had a friend with her (HB8.5).
The two girls and my male friend are all from private school education and had a posh up-bringing. I myself grew up in far more humble surroundings but am in no way nervous around posh/well spoken peeps.
Now the HB8.5 was throwing loads of eye-contact my way etc so when the 4 fo us came together to start talking/catching up I saw this as the perfect chance to start to neg my mark.
The obvious thing to pick on was the posh accents etc and the things these guys were saying. At first I think the negs were working but there were definte times when it felt like she was getting annoyed or a least found it tiresome, however I displayed no acknowledgement of her displeasure.
My question to you guys is simply this: Do you think her display of annoyance was a test or was I genuinely pissing her off?
Can I also add that early in the convo HB7.5 suggested we all go grab something to eat, her friend left about 40mins later but she was still keen for me, my buddy and her to go grab a bite somewhere. After her friend left, I decided I wanted to go chill at home and wouldn't be joining them for eats. All 3 of us went via my work place upon which point HB7.5 decided she just wanted to have toast from our work instead of eating out. I told her "Don't change your dinner plans just because im not gonna be around" (DHV for me, DLV on her !) and walked off to get my headphones for my Ipod which were on my desk. I was gone about 5mins, just as I return to reception where she is, she announces to my buddy "Dinner is back on!" This seemed like such an obvious and poor attempt to of DHV for herslef that im starting to think Im seriously in here. I had a train to catch so I said "later" and didn't even acknowledge the comment.
Any feeback is appreciated
Thanx upfront.
Im new to the forum but been a long time student of the game.
Im fairly comfortable with chatting/approaching woman but I had an interesting situation this evening.
In a Pub and a friend/colleague of mine bumped into and ex colleague of ours (HB7.5 who I have been gaming quite sutbtley(Sp) for a while) who had a friend with her (HB8.5).
The two girls and my male friend are all from private school education and had a posh up-bringing. I myself grew up in far more humble surroundings but am in no way nervous around posh/well spoken peeps.
Now the HB8.5 was throwing loads of eye-contact my way etc so when the 4 fo us came together to start talking/catching up I saw this as the perfect chance to start to neg my mark.
The obvious thing to pick on was the posh accents etc and the things these guys were saying. At first I think the negs were working but there were definte times when it felt like she was getting annoyed or a least found it tiresome, however I displayed no acknowledgement of her displeasure.
My question to you guys is simply this: Do you think her display of annoyance was a test or was I genuinely pissing her off?
Can I also add that early in the convo HB7.5 suggested we all go grab something to eat, her friend left about 40mins later but she was still keen for me, my buddy and her to go grab a bite somewhere. After her friend left, I decided I wanted to go chill at home and wouldn't be joining them for eats. All 3 of us went via my work place upon which point HB7.5 decided she just wanted to have toast from our work instead of eating out. I told her "Don't change your dinner plans just because im not gonna be around" (DHV for me, DLV on her !) and walked off to get my headphones for my Ipod which were on my desk. I was gone about 5mins, just as I return to reception where she is, she announces to my buddy "Dinner is back on!" This seemed like such an obvious and poor attempt to of DHV for herslef that im starting to think Im seriously in here. I had a train to catch so I said "later" and didn't even acknowledge the comment.
Any feeback is appreciated
Thanx upfront.