Porn

[Spice_One]

why are there so many threads on Sosuave about stopping masterbating / stop watching porn etc?. Recently i've found porn to be a good tool to use because whenever I watch porn it makes me turned on I may get aroused but I always try to prevent myself from whacking off too ejaculation, reason being is because i've found from watching porn and preventing myself from cumming has made me incredibly horny during the days and so to speak it really does turn the beast on inside you, every woman you met you just want to game her. There is a very good thread called sexual projection and this is one of the best ways to do it, I find I only have to watch porn one time and then within a day of two I feel great cause of it. makes me feel my maleness on a primal level that i've never really felt before. give it a go and get back if it has or hasn't worked for you.

 

[habdragon08]

everyone has a different preference, some people think its better not to, some people think its better

I totltally agree on whaccking and not cumming tho, it totally makes you really horny. I think that any less than every other week is too little and any more than every other day is overkill

 

[qweretyuiopas]

If you think you need to stop, you do.
If you think you its ok, it is.

Your perception of masturbation being bad or good is all in you head. If you think it affects you, it does. If you think it does nothing or helps you then it does.

 

[Cleric]

Some people say that masturbation increases testosterone levels but I think its the exact opposite. Watching porn induces the secretion of testosterone whilst ejaculation drives the levels down. So I agree with you in that watching porn without masturbating is a pretty good way to fire up the beast inside.

 

[qweretyuiopas]

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Watching porn induces the secretion of testosterone Which is why guys who get blue balls or get really close to sex and get really turned on and nothing happens have so much damn energy afterwards whilst ejaculation drives the levels down. which is why so many guys go to sleep after sex

 

[reyalp]

I don't sleep after sex. That's the last thing I'd be capable of doing after sex?

 

[typical]

So lesson learned watch all the porno you want just dont touch you schlong and you'll be fine ............ just dont go rape some schoolgirl outside ok.

 

[mob88]

I havin't jerkred off in 5 days and I'm feeling pretty d**n good. I plan to go without it for a month and see what happens. I also been able to watch a couple of porn flicks without even whacking. I guess it's all about self control.

 

[ObieJuan]

It's hard not to ejaculate to porn but thinking sexually and getting aroused seems to be a much better way to increase my sex drive. I've gone 5 days without masturbating...at which point there's so much sexual tension I gotta get some relief! I used to do it more often, which almost completely killed my desires. Funny thing is even after release of all that built up energy I feel a bit better and still have no problems flirting with girls and talking to people- which was definitely a problem with my old self(when I did it once a day, sometimes more). I'm not nearly as horny the day after but enough to feel like making an effort with the ladies. Anyway, it's good to have some pr0n on that one day a week when you really have to get your rocks off

 

[Doggystyle]

it hits a high point and then your body gets used to not using it and adapts lowering your sex drive

use it or lose it, but don't abuse it

 

[ObieJuan]

it hits a high point and then your body gets used to not using it and adapts lowering your sex drive

use it or lose it, but don't abuse it

I noticed this happening! I found 5 days of abstinence to be about right, after that my sex drive started to taper. After a good 'session' I feel much more relieved and anticipate the cycle starting over again, waiting for that peak to come. I don't think anyone should stop completely but instead find the taper point and abstain until that period, then release. Definitely don't want to waste! :nono:

 

[nougat]

Although there is this theory that watching porn means that you start idolising women. Which can't be too useful. Either way, it depends on who you are. Personally I spent too much time on porn which could be used elsewhere.

 

[realsmoothie]

I noticed this happening! I found 5 days of abstinence to be about right, after that my sex drive started to taper. After a good 'session' I feel much more relieved and anticipate the cycle starting over again, waiting for that peak to come. I don't think anyone should stop completely but instead find the taper point and abstain until that period, then release. Definitely don't want to waste! :nono:

I've experimented with this lately, and you're dead on.

I stopped jerking off for a week. The sex drive peaked at four days, then hovered for a bit and dipped. For about a month I jerked off maybe every three days, and it was be best month of my life sex-drive-wise. For the last couple of weeks I've increased to maybe once every couple of days, and it's deteriorated significantly.

I think the body takes some time to adapt. I'd say, for my own body (which is now 32, though in good shape), masturbating once every four or five days is ideal.

Of course, this is assuming you're not actually sexually active, which throws everything out of whack. Geez, stupid sex... :woo:

 

[BuckwildSantos]

Guys, i have never wanked MYSELF (and not someone else.. I've only BEEN wanked, by girls that is) in my entire life.. not even when i was 11 12 or 13 or wtf..

beat that.

 

[GaryUranga]

no thanks, I wont beat you off.

I think being all hornied up areund girls plays against me as I get needy

 

[Cleric]

no thanks, I wont beat you off.

I think being all hornied up areund girls plays against me as I get needy

See its usually the opposite with most guys. They get so nervous aroud girls they forget to get "hornied up" and use that animal instict. Its better to know why you're tere talking to them in the first place. :cheer:

 

[young_gun]

I hate masturbating. After I shoot, I get REALLY down. I've noticed this about myself. I work out all the time, and I talk to girls everywhere I go when I haven't whacked it for at least a week.

However, it's the exact opposite when I've just whacked it. I don't talk to girls anywhere, I can't make eye contact with anyone, my voice squeaks, I don't feel like playing my guitar, and I just feel uncomfortable with myself. (Kinda like the guys I've been hanging out with my whole life :-\ ) Which is why I masturbate as little as possible.

 

[Tomatoes]

Everyone on here says stop masturbating....most of them dont know how to pull a girl if she slapped them in the face with her wet fanny.


I live by the line "A wank a day keeps the doctor at bay"


I masturbate....and have regular sex.....so heh.....i win!


If i didnt masturbate give it 2 days and i would be dry humping a chair or something.....I have a high sex drive and wank/have sex in more amounts than most men do (Mayaswell be proud!).


Sarge On!

 

[The Juan and only]

i'll tell you why, cos they don't know what the **** they're talking about. A lot of guys on here are willing to try just about anything to improve ther game, and I mean anything

Research shows that while sex/masturbation/ejaculation do effect testosterone levels in males, the effects are very temporary and have no significant long-term impact. I don't know what these guys are thinking will happen...

In fact jerking off regularly will help you last longer when it comes to an actual fvck. Stop doing it? You gotta be joking.

 

[john_1234]

i taught my self to last longer and have better control throught masturbation; i couldn't have done it w/ out porn. i do agree w/ what someone said about finding your "taper point" though