Okay, so ive been seeing this girl about 2 a week for just a little over a month now. I've been taking her on dates; dinner, amusement parks, games, drinking, etc. We slept together on 2nd date.
She is always writing me telling me she cant wait to see me again. She went on vacation to the beach last week and she texts me telling me "i wish you were here so we could take a walk on beach together...its gonna seem like forever till i see you again"...so, i suppose her interest is high? If not, she is playing a darn good game.
How long should i wait before i ask whether she wants to be in a relationship with me. I dont wanna do it too soon because sometimes that scares them away if you are rushing into things. Yet at same time, i REALLY like her and i dont wanna waste my freaking time on something thats going nowhere.
Also, this girl has been out of a 3 year relationship only two months now...her ex cheated on her and she is never talking to him again (yeah i know useless info)...but maybe that has some bearing on whether or not i should wait longer??
I know she aint using me to buy her stuff, because heck she's bought me dinner a few times...and she aint using me for sex because quite honestly our current living arrangements and schedule dont allow us to have sex very much...we're both moving so thats gonna change within next week or so. Just seems like she is genuinely interested in me.
Anywhoo, need some advice...should i bring it up next time her and i go out (tomorrow)...OR forget it and just continue preceding without saying anything...what do i do?
BTW, this is probably the first woman ive ever dated personally that didnt exhibit some psychotic behavior ...she seems stable, sweet, has a good heart...thats why im here
She is always writing me telling me she cant wait to see me again. She went on vacation to the beach last week and she texts me telling me "i wish you were here so we could take a walk on beach together...its gonna seem like forever till i see you again"...so, i suppose her interest is high? If not, she is playing a darn good game.
How long should i wait before i ask whether she wants to be in a relationship with me. I dont wanna do it too soon because sometimes that scares them away if you are rushing into things. Yet at same time, i REALLY like her and i dont wanna waste my freaking time on something thats going nowhere.
Also, this girl has been out of a 3 year relationship only two months now...her ex cheated on her and she is never talking to him again (yeah i know useless info)...but maybe that has some bearing on whether or not i should wait longer??
I know she aint using me to buy her stuff, because heck she's bought me dinner a few times...and she aint using me for sex because quite honestly our current living arrangements and schedule dont allow us to have sex very much...we're both moving so thats gonna change within next week or so. Just seems like she is genuinely interested in me.
Anywhoo, need some advice...should i bring it up next time her and i go out (tomorrow)...OR forget it and just continue preceding without saying anything...what do i do?
BTW, this is probably the first woman ive ever dated personally that didnt exhibit some psychotic behavior ...she seems stable, sweet, has a good heart...thats why im here