Pook(I):The Path Has Been Set, Now follow it!

[No.Danny]

The time has come for me to, follow the path.​

You know, I never understood why Pook wrote to himself, why he left. I always wondered why the reasoning behind this was.
But then it hit me: Pook reached the climax, the paramount of Don Juan. He climbed the tallest metaphorical mountain a man could ever wish of climbing. But he was left longing for more.When he was at the top he looked down and realized that none of this(Girls,Girls and Sex) was what truly made him happy or a Don Juan. But it was the peace of mind, the happiness he was able to forge with his inner self. Pook saw that the brilliance of his post "Kill that Desperation" "Be a man" or "Secret of the Jerk" were nothing more than the growing pains of a young mind. Oh but you want proof you say? Hush fool, let Pook do the talking

Read the posts backward and you'll see how exposed I really am. Is 'Kill That Desperation' written by a guy who was always confident or was it written by a chump who suddenly realized the error of his ways? Was 'Be a Man' written by a warrior or by wimp who could finally see how worthless he truly was? Was 'Secret of the Jerk' written by a maniac who has his way with the world or by a sane person trying to fathom the insanity around him?

And then it all just hit me again. Pooks path is one we will all hopefully take one day. The day we realize that getting women is not an art or a skill but purely a natural occurrence, and when we become at peace with ourselves it will be nothing but a second nature. The day we realize that Pook left because this site is nothing but the training wheels put on our kiddie bikes. This site is a crutch, we'll never learn to ride the bike that is life if all we do is get constant help and find ways to not fail.
But gentleman, I am ready to take the path that few have taken. I still very much need this crutch, But the time for me to leave is very close.
I condemn my fellow brothers to follow this path. Because being a Don Juan is not about the girls, It's about yourself.
And Now I will let the spirit of Pook speak:

That's what I disagree with you (all) with. I don't have influence here. When you read my post or anyone else's post, you are really reading about yourself in some fashion.

I don't like the 'Be a Man' post. I read it and cringe. That's the reaction I have with all the earlier posts. They seem so... innocent.

After years being here, I have finally silenced that wagging tongue that keeps asking more questions. I'm finally content. That's how I know I'm done.

"Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth maneuvers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize 'techniques', but FEW can change the way HOW they think."

Looking at it as mindset versus technique was right. Looking at it as you're the prize, not her, was right. As you think you shall become was right. But I was missing the frame. It is the frame as to why Anti-Dump and other older men say what they say.

Now I see that Nice Guy is not a 'mindset', he is simply one way the mindset excercises itself. The Seducer (who requires techniques to do everything, from humping to farting) shares that same mindset. This explains why a Seducer will *dissolve* back into Nice Guy and why Nice Guys easily *snap* into Seducers. To me (at least), it all makes sense now. And I see the way out of the maze.

My last posts are a year old now. I reread them and I still have nothing more to say.

The reason why you are here at this website, improving in ways you never dreamed possible before in your life, was because you failed at achieving what you wanted with women.

Listen to yourself before you came to this website:

“Oh, how I have failed with the ladies! If only I knew what to do! If only I knew the secrets of attraction, love, and women!”

And so here you are gobbling up more information than ever. And this is good.

But…

Do you allow yourself to fail? Or do you go search on posts on EXACTLY how you should act on a date? Do you try to push your comfort zones or do you read the pages of seduction material for the 435473th time?

Failure is a necessary component of growth. Let yourself fail.

Not all the time. You are not the Nice Guy who crashes and burns without a clue (and does it again and again and again). Don Juans are made by failing, not by succeeding.

When you fail, you have information sent back on things that can be worked on. Are you too scrawny? Do you not have fun dates? Is your personality the problem? Do you let yourself have fun? Are you scared of sex? What is it?

A failure can help you more than reading every damn post on this board. Failure will aid you much more than the whole of the DJ Bible.

Oh speak Pook, Please do speak :flowers:

Two paths in love and life. Live your dreams or live other people's dreams. One path is HARD. The other path is EASY. One path leads to SECURITY. The other path leads to FREEDOM.

Whose dream are you really living.

 

[countwoofoolah]

this
is
the
right
message!!!!

 

[christoff522]

This sort of material is why I inhabit these forums.

Thank you!

Always learning!!

 

[jurry]

Great stuff. A random pook thread should automatically take top spot each day on the forum so people remember to just stfu already stop asking endless questions and live the life!

 

[No.Danny]

Sorry this great post isn't getting any responses, Danny.

It seems a lot of people these days only come here to b!tch and complain about why some girl isn't texting them back.

Substantive stuff like this is what this site is all about.

Ehhh thanks but I'm not doing this for praise. Just to help myself out which is what most guys here don't understand. It's all about YOU . I mean I logged back in for a few minutes and the amount of crap I see is ridiculous. Leaving this website is really amazing, truly allows you to live the DJ lifestyle not just pretend. I'll be back in a few months though, exciting material coming from me soon