Polyamory???

[CaptFinnBad]

I always thought these new terms were stupid.

Especially polyamory, which in my opinion translates to a guy being cucked, with his girlfriend going around being railed by multiple simp guys.

That's the first thing that springs to mind when I see someone using this term.

This weekend got me thinking though. I've been sick all weekend with strep throat. I haven't been alone, a new women I've been seeing insisted coming over to look after me despite the fact she's very likely to catch it.

Anyways the thought entered my mind. Wouldn't it be nice to have multiple women / girlfriends here, all at the same time (loyal to me/no other guys) and they were all comfortable with each other. Mabye like 2 or 3, where you could hang out with them all at the same time, a dynamic where they could be into each other too.

I would probably really like this. A relationship with YOU (only guy), with two or three women where you shared each other and nobody drifted outside this dynamic as in you're loyal to each other.

I was actually fishing a little bit asking if she's ever fantasised about being with other women, or wanted to explore it. Which was a definitive no on her part. But I'm guessing this is how you could get the ball rolling?

Like early on, introduce it once comfortable with you?

Anyone successfully achieved this. How did it go ? How did you do it?

 

[SW15]

Wouldn't it be nice to have multiple women / girlfriends here, all at the same time (loyal to me/no other guys) and they were all comfortable with each other. Mabye like 2 or 3, where you could hang out with them all at the same time, a dynamic where they could be into each other too.

It would be nice. I think there are many men who would admit that it would be a good setup.

It's not culturally correct to admit that. Many blue pill ideology men wouldn't admit that because of cultural programming. However, there are enough blue pilled men who would admit that + red pilled men and some black pilled men.

polyamory, which in my opinion translates to a guy being cucked, with his girlfriend going around being railed by multiple simp guys.

That's the first thing that springs to mind when I see someone using this term.

This arrangement that you describe is getting more common.

In West Coast USA cities like San Francisco, Portland, and Seattle, there are many subpar to average looking women who are polyamorous with multiple blue pilled, beta males.

This is what happens when there's a surplus of single males, which has been the case for 20+ years in most USA cities.

 

[New_Journey]

Wouldn't it be nice to have multiple women / girlfriends here, all at the same time (loyal to me/no other guys) and they were all comfortable with each other. Mabye like 2 or 3, where you could hang out with them all at the same time, a dynamic where they could be into each other too.

That's a nice fantasy you go going on there buddy. Does that include massages on your feet and them bringing you grapes while you sit on the throne?

I was actually fishing a little bit asking if she's ever fantasised about being with other women, or wanted to explore it. Which was a definitive no on her part, With you

There fixed it for you.

But I'm guessing this is how you could get the ball rolling?

Ok, let me see if I understand. You're seeing this girl, she came to see you, and you asked her about exploring with other women, so you are trying to use logic for her to do a threesome with you?

You fvcked up right there. Expect her attraction to start going down until she doesn't want you no more.

Like early on, introduce it once comfortable with you?

Wrong, that's not how you do it, she's not invested in you and you don't have such a high value to have a threesome if you have to ask. Men with that kind of value don't need to ask, they just do it without fvcks to give if she accepts or not.

If you have multiple hot plates, you just say "I'm chilling with one of my girl friends at home, come over, lets have a drink" Spontaneous, no planning and no logic involve. She will know what's up, the rest is up to her to accept. But you need to be a HVM, that she will be okay to share an "alpha". Actions, no words.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

When you invite drama into your life, your life becomes filled with drama which forces you to focus on that instead of your purpose.

Bad idea.

You are a grown man, you don't need some woman acting like your Mommy, reading you a bedtime story and tucking you in at night with your nightlight on.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Polyamory would never work unless she's a high caliber woman with great Spiritual zeal. With most women, it's just not happening. The ideal is to be so financially secure that if you were to convert into being a Mormon or a Muslim you can afford four wives of diverse nationalities and ethnicity and feel like a King making pact with a diverse variety of people. If I could pull it off I'd marry an Indian, black, Japanese and Caucasian woman lol haha thats a personal fantasy of mine.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

Some interesting points. I just don't think it's THAT far fetched. It just popped into my head this weekend wouldn't it be nice having a few women over just like her and for them to all get along.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

When you invite drama into your life, your life becomes filled with drama which forces you to focus on that instead of your purpose.

Bad idea.

You are a grown man, you don't need some woman acting like your Mommy, reading you a bedtime story and tucking you in at night with your nightlight on.

Lol she didn't.

We were supposed to be hanging out this weekend, but I got ill and was on antibiotics. I told her I'd be most the weekend in bed ill, tried to bail, she insisted on coming over regardless to "look after me". She couldn't bare canceling.

She didn't really mother me like that. We spent the weekend in bed, although she did do most the cooking which was nice.

You think it could come with a lot of drama?

 

[CaptFinnBad]

That's a nice fantasy you go going on there buddy. Does that include massages on your feet and them bringing you grapes while you sit on the throne?


There fixed it for you.


Ok, let me see if I understand. You're seeing this girl, she came to see you, and you asked her about exploring with other women, so you are trying to use logic for her to do a threesome with you?

You fvcked up right there. Expect her attraction to start going down until she doesn't want you no more.


Wrong, that's not how you do it, she's not invested in you and you don't have such a high value to have a threesome if you have to ask. Men with that kind of value don't need to ask, they just do it without fvcks to give if she accepts or not.

If you have multiple hot plates, you just say "I'm chilling with one of my girl friends at home, come over, lets have a drink" Spontaneous, no planning and no logic involve. She will know what's up, the rest is up to her to accept. But you need to be a HVM, that she will be okay to share an "alpha". Actions, no words.

I don't know. I can't say I agree with you and the world isn't that cookie cutter in my opinion.

For context the woman I was with has a ridiculously strict middle eastern upbringing. I don't really understand it , just know she's breaking a lot of rules already and pushing her boundaries to the max just by hanging out with me (someone outside her own culture).

Hence the digging for her opinion of same sex stuff, which is a big taboo where she's originally from and is actually a criminal offence .

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lol she didn't.

We were supposed to be hanging out this weekend, but I got ill and was on antibiotics. I told her I'd be most the weekend in bed ill, tried to bail, she insisted on coming over regardless to "look after me". She couldn't bare canceling.

She didn't really mother me like that. We spent the weekend in bed, although she did do most the cooking which was nice.

You think it could come with a lot of drama?

Polyamory? Of course. Women are jealous most of other women, regardless of what they will tell you.

 

[CaptFinnBad]

Polyamory? Of course. Women are jealous most of other women, regardless of what they will tell you.

I get that. Yeah I get there could be jealousy, I've even had women get jealous over my dog and my Alexa before. So definitely could be a cause for drama I suppose.

I'm probably massively under thinking it.

 

[Divorced w 3]

It would be nice. I think there are many men who would admit that it would be a good setup.

It's not culturally correct to admit that. Many blue pill ideology men wouldn't admit that because of cultural programming. However, there are enough blue pilled men who would admit that + red pilled men and some black pilled men.



This arrangement that you describe is getting more common.

In West Coast USA cities like San Francisco, Portland, and Seattle, there are many subpar to average looking women who are polyamorous with multiple blue pilled, beta males.

This is what happens when there's a surplus of single males, which has been the case for 20+ years in most USA cities.

And Burlington, Vermont.

Saw a couple up there, the man, post something online like, “I like my girlfriend, I love my wife, and I really like her boyfriend”. Vermont, is an especially weird place. Nothing to do up there but drugs, they’re out of their minds.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Makes more sense than monogamy and probably more natural. Just tell her up front that if she wants you she has to share you. She can walk away if she wants.

 

[New_Journey]

I don't know. I can't say I agree with you and the world isn't that cookie cutter in my opinion.

For context the woman I was with has a ridiculously strict middle eastern upbringing. I don't really understand it , just know she's breaking a lot of rules already and pushing her boundaries to the max just by hanging out with me (someone outside her own culture).

Hence the digging for her opinion of same sex stuff, which is a big taboo where she's originally from and is actually a criminal offence .

Those are the biggest slots cause they have all that sexual energy hidden cause of her upbringing. Take a plate to your home and tell her to go over to your house to have a drink a three of you